Pisces Female Friend is PISSED at me!

Hi guys,

I need some advice. I have been best friends with a pisces for 18 years. We are extremely close. We talk everyday and refer to one another as sisters.

I withheld something from her and wasn't completely truthful. She is beyond mad at me, and rightfully so. I have apologized profusely. After going off of me something vicious, I apologized. I texted her later that night and apologized again. She responded with, "I belive you." I texted her after that but she did not respond. That was on Friday and I have not spoken to her since.

Any suggestions on how to earn my friendship back with her?

Motive for withholding and being.untruthful?

Has this ever happened before?

My guess is just let it breathe. So long as this isn't a habit I doubt she will hold onto it. Also, i find that it is harder to apologize and move on through text. I would call her or stop by and see her to apologize and explain yourself. When I am isolated physically it's a lot easier to detach from the situation as a whole.

Give her TIME. She will come around if she loves you.

My bestie and I gave grown apart and she kept reaching out to me wondering why i became distant even after i told her id get to her eventually. It did nothing other than piss me off and make me feel pressured to do something i wasn't ready to do. It may take her a few days or a few months, but what ever you do in between time DO NOT pester her for attention she is not ready to give. Obviously you've made it clear you are apologetic now give her time to process how she feels so she can respond to you out of clarity rather than frustration. For me, as a Pisces, im generally very flip flop about a lot of things, but one thing im sure of is how i feel. If she says she believes you, believe in her enough to realize she will come back around. I'm sure you miss her but respect for a Pisces feelings is the best thing you can give us next to love and loyalty. 😉

Posted by deezie
Motive for withholding and being.untruthful?

Has this ever happened before?

My guess is just let it breathe. So long as this isn't a habit I doubt she will hold onto it. Also, i find that it is harder to apologize and move on through text. I would call her or stop by and see her to apologize and explain yourself. When I am isolated physically it's a lot easier to detach from the situation as a whole.

Moreso, shame on my part. No, this has never happened before.

Thank you MA!!! I'll take a few steps back and leave her be...

Yes, I do miss her a lot!

If it has anything to do with a man she dealt with or was interested in, forget it! We can forgive but we don't forget. With that said, we'd distance ourselves from you with the hope of forgetting whatever you did that hurt her.

Given that you have not given what the actual issue is I will say this. My friend of over 30 yrs hurt my feeling and I expressed my discernment yet she did not apologize. We are bonded..so our friendship wasn't going to end. But I stopped speaking to her for a year. She reached out wondered how I was doing and I brought it up immediately. She apologized and stated she never thought it hurt me so badly. We settled it and no more issues. Friendships that are true will never end unless your friend sleeps with your mate.....just about anything else can be worked out.

None of it has to do with a man or a group of people. The fact of the matter is that it was something that I should not have done. Absolutely! I've admitted my wrong doing numerous times.

At the same time, I have been a very good friend to her outsitde of this. Very! She did not directly tell me to leave her alone. I just said I would respect her space because she probably doesnt want to talk to me. She did respond. So... Yea...

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