Pisces girl says it would be easy to say yes, but.

Hi all,

I have been dating or hanging out with a pisces girl for a few months. We get along quite well, always fun, have similar tastes (some quite unique or rare among our peers). Last week I told her I had to have a conversation (the talk) with her. Something I regretted quite fast since I did not want to force it. I told her to forget, that I would talk whatever I wanted to talk with her when it came up in conversation. She did not bite, and pushed for the convo. We could not do that for a few days cause of different schedules, but she kept insisting.

So we had the talk, I told her I am in love with her (with some other "spice" in the middle, how I discovered it etc..). Her first answer was "I do not know what to tell you because I am not completely sure of my feelings", even if she admitted she knew what the conversation was about. Then she said she thought about it before and could not reach a conclusion. The bit that gets me more frustrated is that she said something along the lines of "the easiest thing for me to do would be to tell you I love you too". She says she likes me a lot, enjoys to spend time with me, we are very compatible in tastes, sharing some that are unusual, but...

She also told me that she is giving priority to other stuff, like sorting her life. The project she is working on finishes in March and she does not know what she will do afterwards, since we are both living in a foreign country. While I have a more or less stable life, she is not sure if she will have to go back to our home country or stay here.

She was always smiling throughout the talk and told me a couple of times that she was not making fun of me, but it was just her way to deal with the situation. She also told me that she did not feel good asking me to wait because that would be selfish of her.

For the past two days after the convo she has not been very talkative, which is making a bit insecure in how we stand at the moment. The convo did not exactly have a clear "closure". It also looks to me that all she said can signal in every direction possible. I am very fearful that she might like the attention for ego boost and does not want me away for that. She knew what the conversation was about, she did not have an answer to give me, and she still pushed for it after my initial backtrack.

It is the first pisces girl I have in my life so its hard to judge or know what to do without previous experience. She also looks to be a bit different from the usua

We Pisces women love love sweety and the first chance we have to indulge in it we TAKE it. She's smiling because we always do so definitely not making fun of you... That's what we do when we're mad, nervous... Anything really lol. It's a sign that she likes you if she smiles a lot HOWEVER she's not quite there with you she's not malicious she doesn't want to hurt you but not quite there there ... may be other people in the picture...the only time I've felt the way your describing is when there are other people whove held my attention ... Pisces will never miss out on the chance to have or feel love ... We don't put much before it there is ALWAYS room for romance BUT if she's indecisive she'll make excuses so as to not lose you ... The disappearing is nothing more than uncertainty speaking ... Any moon sign? That may help me figure this out for you a little better

Thanks for the answer. The possibility of there being someone else has crossed my mind indeed. I think her moon sign is Scorpio.

She says she has other priorities right now. Why do you think there's anything more than that going on?
There's nothing you can do. She values other things right now.

" I am very fearful that she might like the attention for ego boost and does not want me away for that. She knew what the conversation was about, she did not have an answer to give me, and she still pushed for it after my initial backtrack."

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I think you have your answer. You figured it out on your own.