Pisces insecure and needy in relationships?

Yes, my Scorp tells me that also. I've loosened up a lot... same type of situation. You're not alone... for me it's a trust issue mixed with my own insecurities. I have come a long long way from how I used to get upset... just accept who you are and work on what you don't like (for you) and all will be well. =)

don't wanna come off sounding condescending but that's so cute! ur just young, inexperienced in relationships, naive, and a female! that's all!

it's really about being a girl and not so much about the sign. i'm a leo and i was EXACTLY the same way in my first relationship. some girls never grow outta that either unfortunately. actually, there's a pisces man who wants to be with me and is baffled that i'm not needy or clingy. he loves that about me. he says every girl he's ever been with has been... and he's 29 now. he's had many girlfriends too.

anyway, don't beat urself up over it. just learn from ur mistakes. that's what first loves and relationships are all about. u make all ur rookie mistakes with them, learn about urself in the process, then take the new found knowledge, and apply it to ur future relationships. u don't need us to tell u anything. u already seem sharp enough to know where u went wrong.

I don't so much mind clingy and needy. There are worse things in a relationship, like cold and distant.

I don't like a challange. I need peace of mind. Blame it on my Cancer moon/Taurus asc.

... but I agree, it can be annoying in the long run. I had one very clingy girlfriend, she had both Moon & Asc in Pisces. It wasn't all that bad, I was occasionally annoyed but overall I enjoyed the attention and I gave her the comfort she needed. She knew that she was over-the-top at times and eventually mellowed it down a bit.

Now if she had been the "chase me" type I would have lost intrest. But that's just me.

Pisces - It is definately an age thing. I remember when I was younger I was quiet a wreck in a relationship. Always hanging on a bit too tight. As I have grown with different relationships I have grown as a person and I am not as insecure as I once was. Sometimes my confidence level and agressiveness with men is not where I would like it to be. When I really dig a guy a lot, I get really shy and a huge worry wart thinking constantly about whether he likes me ....blah blah ....So sometimes the insecurity does come back. Definately age has been a great confidence boost. I dunno what to say ....is hope to find someone who embraces this about you and just realizes it might just be a phase. This is where patience is needed with dear pisces. Our intentions are good ...but sometimes we can hold on for dear life. I blame it on freaking Cinderella Syndrome!!! lol

Good Luck,

PD

My friend has a Pisces gf. He has two phones, if he doesnt answer one..she will call the other one and back and forth. Then if he doesnt answer, she'll call his friend that he is with. And she is 31. Oh and she text's in between.

Posted by softy
My friend has a Pisces gf. He has two phones, if he doesnt answer one..she will call the other one and back and forth. Then if he doesnt answer, she'll call his friend that he is with. And she is 31. Oh and she text's in between.

Haha I think that's cute.

LOL..There is nothing cute about that..he cant stand it.

The Mr. Pisces that I'm involved with will call me over and over again if I don't pick up. He doesn't call all the time mind you (1-3 times per day), but if I don't pick up when he calls then when I do finally get the phone he says 'Oh, your answering your phone now, huh?". The other night he called like 15 times because I wasn't answering. He has even in the past set his phone to reflect a different phone number to see if I would pick up... I only know that because he told me (not because I picked up and found out that way).

Posted by softy
My friend has a Pisces gf. He has two phones, if he doesnt answer one..she will call the other one and back and forth. Then if he doesnt answer, she'll call his friend that he is with. And she is 31. Oh and she text's in between.

LOL, doesn't anybody actually "visit enough" or live with their s/o's anymore? I think that's part of the problem, not enough actual human flesh (eye-to-eye) contact in this hip-ringing, text-crazy, email me back like now or i get annoyed and what are you "really" doing? -overly suspicious society. Just an observation..

(..but wow, maybe it "would" help if people would just stand back from it all objectively for a moment and get back to the actual "heart" of communication with each other). It's not like you're oceans away or anything, in most cases.

I'm a triple Pisces, sun, merc, venus and Scorpio rising and all of they guys i've dated and or hung with said the exact opposite about me... in fact most asked why i didn't call more or ask more questions. I do think this is more about maturity and maturity doesn't have an age. be wary of people blaming their bullshit on being a Pisces or their ONE planet in Pisces (rolls eyes), it usually has nothing do to do with that.... there are lots of aspects that can make u feel insecure, just work on yourself and stop blaming your sign...