Pisces male; i can't control my emotions?

Hi I'm a typical Pisces, i live and breath through my emotions. I have a huge problem controlling them when I'm extremely into someone. I've been seeing a capricorn male (ikr) at first he was being a typical cap charming as hell yet distant and elusive . but once we've started seeing each other more i noticed that im slowly penetrating that cap barrier and that my warm and loving attitude toward him is getting him to open up about his life and his past (but only in person) via text he gives me almost nothing half the time and thats drivingme crazy cause when i see him its so great we're like the perfect couple but i feel like after were not together im still high off that love bubble and he doesn't even try to text back enough. I have slipped a few times and just poured out my feelings to him he's been very patient and understanding with me but i cant help but go crazy cause he knows how i feel for him but his responses via text r vague quotes . to my fellow Pisces how do you cope with these strong emotions? And if their r caps out here how should i approach the situation?

Self-regulation and cognitive change. You need to change the way you think.

https://paidtoexist.com/three-ways-to-deal-with-emotions/

since he's not interested in getting to know about you and share his feelings with you ..... you're probably just a side dick to him.

You're so consumed with yourself and how you feel .... that you fail to recognize the reality of your situation, if he is indeed uninterested in your day to day life.

Posted by ShadesOfCool
Hi I'm a typical Pisces, i live and breath through my emotions. I have a huge problem controlling them when I'm extremely into someone. I've been seeing a capricorn male (ikr) at first he was being a typical cap charming as hell yet distant and elusive . but once we've started seeing each other more i noticed that im slowly penetrating that cap barrier and that my warm and loving attitude toward him is getting him to open up about his life and his past (but only in person) via text he gives me almost nothing half the time and thats drivingme crazy cause when i see him its so great we're like the perfect couple but i feel like after were not together im still high off that love bubble and he doesn't even try to text back enough. I have slipped a few times and just poured out my feelings to him he's been very patient and understanding with me but i cant help but go crazy cause he knows how i feel for him but his responses via text r vague quotes . to my fellow Pisces how do you cope with these strong emotions? And if their r caps out here how should i approach the situation?

From a cap perspective. We can't deal with big emotional displays. It makes us uncomfortable and gives us an "icky" feeling. We don't understand it and our impulse is to get the hell away. We deal with logic and rationality.

Get yourself together and reign that shit in.

Basically though, there's going to have to be some compromise. He's going to have to learn to deal with it and you're going to have to learn how to control it.

The vagueness is a warning sign. It's a disconnect and when a cap disconnects, they will fade out.

Stop the heavy emotional crap and bring some fun back into your relationship. Caps respond to fun and humor.

Posted by truecap
The vagueness is a warning sign. It's a disconnect and when a cap disconnects, they will fade out.

Stop the heavy emotional crap and bring some fun back into your relationship. Caps respond to fun and humor.

Thank you Truecap you're extremely helpful, ive read a few of your responses on different posts they're very accurate. i appreciate you lol. I've calmed myself and making sure to not overwhelm him, I'm limiting how much i text him and im seeing him this Saturday. Whenever we're together its always a great time cause im naturally sassy and have a good sense of humor (which is something he told me that he likes about me) but from a Caps perspective what is one way to get him back after making him uncomfortable?

I'm glad to help and glad you didn't think I was being mean.

To make him comfortable, just be light and fun and sassy. Caps are too serious so we need someone who can lighten things up.

Yes just control your emotions, I just ruined something (which is actually a blessing in disguise) with a fire sign because my emotions got away from me. I am not clingy, I wont chase ANY man, fuck that, BUT when i am really into someone i fall quick and fast and my mistake is i trust too soon and open up too soon. So just take a breather and really self assess here, why do you feel anxious?

Perhaps you are not listening to your intuition and inmer self. I find that in times where I am feeling anxious in relationships, it is because i am not listening to myself...notice yellow, red flags, or looking at the situation objectively. Perhaps all is wonderful, I am not suggesting you have a reason to not trust this guy, I am simply saying analyze yourself. Figure out if this is your insecurities making you this way, or is there something you are missing and the uneasiness causing you to act this way.

How long you've known this guy

Posted by truecap
I'm glad to help and glad you didn't think I was being mean.

To make him comfortable, just be light and fun and sassy. Caps are too serious so we need someone who can lighten things up.

Not mean at all ☺ i don't take offense easily lol. Sounds like im what he needs lol i just needed to calm down my emotions and put things into perspective. Im usually a very chill person but if i let someone in (especially if i see a future with them) i kinda give them all my love too soon and make them the center of my attention but thats not heathy (and if it isn't reciprocated the way i want i go crazy) lol but I'm fine im working on that. Right now I'm letting my intuition and logic lead the way while my emotions take the back seat.

Posted by malloryor
Yes just control your emotions, I just ruined something (which is actually a blessing in disguise) with a fire sign because my emotions got away from me. I am not clingy, I wont chase ANY man, fuck that, BUT when i am really into someone i fall quick and fast and my mistake is i trust too soon and open up too soon. So just take a breather and really self assess here, why do you feel anxious?

Perhaps you are not listening to your intuition and inmer self. I find that in times where I am feeling anxious in relationships, it is because i am not listening to myself...notice yellow, red flags, or looking at the situation objectively. Perhaps all is wonderful, I am not suggesting you have a reason to not trust this guy, I am simply saying analyze yourself. Figure out if this is your insecurities making you this way, or is there something you are missing and the uneasiness causing you to act this way.

I'm the same exact way, i don't chase im actually very content being alone it's just I'm a sucker for love especially if i can see a future with the guy. i have a bad habit of obsessing over them and making them the center of my attention. That's so toxic but i have my head screwed on now im just gonna read a selfhelp book about anxiety or something and keep my emotions at bay and keep working on my life.

Posted by Vixen2
Do you really think you should have to alter your personality so someone likes you?

Good luck with that.

I'm an emotional person but I'm not defined by every emotional breakdown i have. From the get go i told him how i am and he's been very patient with me but a person can only take so much of it especially a Cap. Im not trying to change for him im trying to find a way to rationalize all those unnecessary anxiety filled emotions and get some advice and reassurance. Thanks 4 that comment tho even tho it wasn't what i was looking 4 ‰‰‰