caju_boo
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Posted by Infinite8Posted by caju_booLol... you two sound very cute, together.
I am a female Scorpio Sun + Venus, Gemini moon. The guy is Pisces Sun+Venus, Capricorn moon.
He is 2 years younger than me, and we met on social media app(not dating app). He seems really sweet and gentle. We do live a bit far away in the same country.
We have been texting each other every single day(not a day missing) for the past 5 month. He initiates most texts, says goodnight/good morning to me etc. He sometimes sends me photos of his daily life too. However, he never flirts with me at all.
Last month, we finally met for the first time in his city. He seemed really shy but sweet to me. We spent the entire day together. I helped him with decorations in his house too. I see that he notices very little things about me, like the way I eat food, etc. He told me that I look beautiful, but I didn't feel like it was in a flirtatious way, or maybe he's too shy to make a move. He did try to play with my hair with sofa pillows, etc. LOL
And, after the meeting, we are still texting each other just like before. Nothing has changed in the way we communicate. He did ask me to make a painting for him(he knows I like to paint and draw) to put in his bedroom because he just moved in to a new place.
So yeah, I am a bit confused. Is this something common with pisces males in general? I have a little crush on him, but it's not a strong romantic feeling right now.
Thanksss!!! 😄
He's just feeling you out. Maybe he's reading that you aren't necessarily Gaga for him, therefore, he won't make any moves. He needs to be almost 100% sure you feel the same way before he becomes more obvious. In a way... you are leading, and it's on you.
Lol on the drawing. I used to draw in college and this Pisces guy I was friends with had asked me to draw him as well. I had lost a bet, and that was the payment... a nude of him. He hung that drawing in his room for years. Never realized until he told me years later, he actually did put a lot of meaning into it and considered it a very special gift from me. I loved that.
Anyway, just be true to what you feel and he will follow.
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Posted by whatisthisallaboutI've heard pisces males are very romantic if they like someone. But this guy hasn't done romantic things. When we text, we don't even flirt with each other. So it's hard for me to understand his behaviors..
sounds like he likes you.
Posted by Infinite8Posted by caju_booI understand... dont make the move it makes you feel uncomfortable.Posted by Infinite8Posted by caju_booLol... you two sound very cute, together.
I am a female Scorpio Sun + Venus, Gemini moon. The guy is Pisces Sun+Venus, Capricorn moon.
He is 2 years younger than me, and we met on social media app(not dating app). He seems really sweet and gentle. We do live a bit far away in the same country.
We have been texting each other every single day(not a day missing) for the past 5 month. He initiates most texts, says goodnight/good morning to me etc. He sometimes sends me photos of his daily life too. However, he never flirts with me at all.
Last month, we finally met for the first time in his city. He seemed really shy but sweet to me. We spent the entire day together. I helped him with decorations in his house too. I see that he notices very little things about me, like the way I eat food, etc. He told me that I look beautiful, but I didn't feel like it was in a flirtatious way, or maybe he's too shy to make a move. He did try to play with my hair with sofa pillows, etc. LOL
And, after the meeting, we are still texting each other just like before. Nothing has changed in the way we communicate. He did ask me to make a painting for him(he knows I like to paint and draw) to put in his bedroom because he just moved in to a new place.
So yeah, I am a bit confused. Is this something common with pisces males in general? I have a little crush on him, but it's not a strong romantic feeling right now.
Thanksss!!! 😄
He's just feeling you out. Maybe he's reading that you aren't necessarily Gaga for him, therefore, he won't make any moves. He needs to be almost 100% sure you feel the same way before he becomes more obvious. In a way... you are leading, and it's on you.
Lol on the drawing. I used to draw in college and this Pisces guy I was friends with had asked me to draw him as well. I had lost a bet, and that was the payment... a nude of him. He hung that drawing in his room for years. Never realized until he told me years later, he actually did put a lot of meaning into it and considered it a very special gift from me. I loved that.
Anyway, just be true to what you feel and he will follow.
Thanks so much! nice to hear from another scorpio! 😉
Since I had bad experiences with making the first moves on guys I liked, I am really afraid to make moves on him, especially since he is definitely a more inward person. But yeah, maybe I should slightly hint it.
When we met, he told me I could sleep in his house, and he will just sleep in his brother's room because it's about 2hrs away from my place. And I refused, I just didn't feel like it was the right time to spend the whole night. He seemed pretty chill with it though.
Do pisces not show what they want/like/dislike on the outside??
He is Pisces Sun and Venus... that will be very passive in approach and will be very observant in your behavior before he ever really shows himself.
All of my past Pisces boyfriends coincidentally all had Aries Venus ?. So, all were much more direct in expressing their wants.
If your refused to sleep at his home out of discomfort... that was the best thing you could do. Don't ever force anything. This Pisces will only flow when the energy is relaxed. Which is good because when things actually DO HAPPEN, they will feel amazing because the timing and overall energy will already be at its best. So just alter your way of viewing communication and focus more on the vibes.
As far as expressing likes/dislikes/wants... it depends on the Pisces. I would say, one with Aries energy is much more willing to do so than a Pisces with lots of water in his chart.
Shy vs. outspoken
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Posted by cvurko
I cant speak for the guy, he might be different from me, but i can relate so it seems he isnt 😄 when i know i like someone and want to be serious about it i am a bit cautious with flirting, especially when most of the communication is from distance. See, if you know you won't meet soon, a lot of flirting might turn out to have negative effect when you do meet because of the expectations and emotions that have built-up.
A little bit of flirting here and there tho isnt bad for me. Is he really not flirting at all? He can be subtle with it. (Cap moon is more reserved in expressing emotions than my aqua moon tho so it may be bcz of that as well).
I think he either likes you or wants to be very close friends with you. But texting every day for 5 months i cant see how he doesnt like you. Im very communicative and socialize a lot but id never write to the same person even for 3 consecutive days if i dont have a crush on them. I would advise being direct with him and ask him, given the time that has passed, but my experience with cap moons (pisces sun) is that you have to be extremely gentle when asking them how they feel.
Posted by tnmnthahahahaha tbh for now nothing is cheesy. it's just SLOW too slow
That's sweet. But tell him you need a twist otherwise it gets too cheesy
Jk

Posted by P-Angellady.... calm down. hahaha
I don't get what is so confusing for you.
You make the assumption: "Do pisces not show what they want/like/dislike on the outside??" ..... that he has something to show.
You are doing the exact same thing he is doing which is being evasive and elusive .... so ask yourself why are you doing that .. and then you'll have your answer if someone is doing it to you.
To me, this just sounds like you're expecting him to perform, in where you're too coward to do it yourself.
Obviously, you have feelings, but, sit there and do nothing about it .. while expecting him to do all of the work.
I understand if you're shy .... but, what I don't understand is why you are questioning his actions of acting shy and say it's confusing.
What — You think you're the only human being in this scenario?
this is what virtual relations has done to people ... they have no clue that the other person is also human and so cannot understand when they act like a person.
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He is 2 years younger than me, and we met on social media app(not dating app). He seems really sweet and gentle. We do live a bit far away in the same country.
We have been texting each other every single day(not a day missing) for the past 5 month. He initiates most texts, says goodnight/good morning to me etc. He sometimes sends me photos of his daily life too. However, he never flirts with me at all.
Last month, we finally met for the first time in his city. He seemed really shy but sweet to me. We spent the entire day together. I helped him with decorations in his house too. I see that he notices very little things about me, like the way I eat food, etc. He told me that I look beautiful, but I didn't feel like it was in a flirtatious way, or maybe he's too shy to make a move. He did try to play with my hair with sofa pillows, etc. LOL
And, after the meeting, we are still texting each other just like before. Nothing has changed in the way we communicate. He did ask me to make a painting for him(he knows I like to paint and draw) to put in his bedroom because he just moved in to a new place.
So yeah, I am a bit confused. Is this something common with pisces males in general? I have a little crush on him, but it's not a strong romantic feeling right now.
Thanksss!!! 😄