Pisces man is so confusing :( help!

okay so long story short..i met him through our both fascination in cars...i moved in with him as a roommate (we messed around 1 night within the first year of knowing eachother, but never while living together)....well he had a gf i found out and just dropped it...we lived together for 3 years.nothing happened between us..his new gf (broke up with the last one) was always around....i moved my bf in and that didnt work...i moved out completely....now hes single and we cant spend a day a part....at first i thought because hes going through a heart break but now hes staring at me, paying for things, always making the initiative to contact me...we talk everyday (even at work, on IM)...we do lunch because we only work a few blocks from eachother...i want to tell him how i feel but this situation is so complicated....i dont want to be a rebound but i dont feel that way....i know him very well and im really the only one who does out of his ex's and/or friends....i dont know what to do...please help....i care ALOT about him and this would be a whole new territory for me...as of yesterday he's been playing the hot/cold game, was very distant; however, he wasn't feeling good..i don't know what to do

Listen to me very carefully.

If you want him as your man, then you have to lay the cards onto the table and tell him.

If he acts funny or distant, then you need to move on.

Get out there, exercise, increase your sexual attractiveness and start having fun with other people.

If he gets his shit together and contacts you, then spend time with him.

If he doesn't, then move on.

Time is short, life is short, don't waste anything on a person who plays hot/cold games.

Tell him how you feel, and go from there.

I want to lay the cards out on the table; however, that just does not seem like an option. He is still going through the breakup and I'm not trying to force him into a new relationship. I just want to know where I stand, if this is going somewhere, just something! Today has been different, we're communicating okay (he is still sick)

the aries one was for my sister, she doesn't believe in horoscope all that much and wouldn't create an account. i haven't dealt with many aries so I figured i'd turn here for her since i had no advice on my end

doesn't understand how that helps with either topic...i mean you are entitled to your opinion but it isn't a correct one...i havent dated someone since my last bf that moved out that I had mentioned above..we were together for 8 years...that was is making me confused...the pisces was there during my break up which was very hard

Hard to believe... you answered the questions so convincingly, I remember I was there.

If it was for your sister why didn't you just say so?

eh..didnt really think i'd have to clarify it...wasn't too necessary..just looking for advice...i just wanted answers to provide her...like i said she doesnt believe in this type of stuff....i was going to take the info and relay it back to her

and wait...answered questions?....i only posted once

djbuck..I feel like over the last month your moon cannot take the dxp stupidity anymore.

Rock on 😄

meh...i think this whole thing was stupid...im here for advice on a pisces yet im being questioned about the aries post which i have clarified...i guess in the future ill clarify everything more...i like to help people and be there for them but i dont have all the answers...thats why i turned here for info...but thats obviously not the case in this post besides scorpiofish thank you for at least trying to help the situation...like i said i was in an 8 year relationship...not much of a dater and havent dated since him...kinda nervous about it all....also this is a good friend of mine so it makes it that much harder...whoever posted in the aries thank you for that...my sis did ended up dropping him (well ignoring him) even tho she still talks about him to me....and for the people who say well how do you know this information i know all of this because we do talk, she is my sister...

Posted by mack253
the aries one was for my sister, she doesn't believe in horoscope all that much and wouldn't create an account. i haven't dealt with many aries so I figured i'd turn here for her since i had no advice on my end

DLLDXP

Posted by mack253

...i want to tell him how i feel but this situation is so complicated....

What is complicated?

You say you two can't spend a day apart ...... even at work.

If you two are inseparable ... then it doesn't make sense that you're no comfortable in telling him how you feel.

This whole thing makes zero sense.

You said, "i know him very well and im really the only one who does out of his ex's and/or friends"

How do you know that? You don't know that?

You are so clueless that you've come here to make a thread to ask random strangers about your situation ... yet, you think you are the ONLY person who knows him well?

if you know him so goddam well, and you are the ONLY one who does ... then what the fuck is your question? Why the hell don't you know if you're a rebound or not? Why do you say it would be new territory for you? Why?

.... because you STATED that you are the ONLY one who knows him well.


If you knew him well ... this thread wouldn't exist. But, it does.

So that means you are likely talking out of your ass.

Posted by mack253

He is still going through the breakup .....

Oh, so now we see that when you said "complicated" ... you meant you are emotionally throwing yourself at a man who isn't completely broken up with his woman.

The really real is this = if a man wants to break up with a woman, he does. There is no prolonged going through it, unless there is issue and/or capital.

So what this boils down to is that you're a cheater ... you're moving in on another woman's territory and that's why you said ...... it's complicated.

Yeah .... you're likely a liar, also ... so, I'll side with everyone else in here.

im not comfortable only because of how sudden this has all happened...one day we were friends hanging out the next day he turned into casanova....i know well enough as far as friends wise but hes taking the whole situation into what seems like dating (what he does with his ex's in the beginning) which yes i dont know that area about him...and yes out of everyone in his life besides family...he has agreed too that i am the one that knows him best....im here because i want to know if i should make the first move or outright just ask him...when it comes to pisces ive heard not to scare them or force them any which way so i don't know what to do...just keep going along with what he is doing or stand my ground and just come out right about the whole thing? its one of those friendzoned situations

still going through the break up emotions...they've been broken up for 2 months...broke up on new years eve...a huge fiasco..they were together for 1 1/2 years....i know the whole relationship...

if you read the initial post, i stated he was single