Pisces matching cancer ?

Any pisces female here who is perfectly matching with cancer ? Give experiences also .

Cancer males are NOT a particularly good match for us Pisces females, surprisingly enough. If you're looking for that Water-Water connection, I find Scorpio males a much better match, less wishy-washy and self-pitying. Maybe Cancer females and Pisces males would be a good match, I couldn't say for sure.

No way .... Cancer's make me sick to me stomach, to be honest.



My whole life philosophy is based around the complete opposite of Cancer .... I am all about self-analyzation, self-accountibility ... Cancer's are all about who they can find to carry the blame for them.

p.... ur really bitter... i believe it now... Wat Cancer pissed u off?

I agree with P and Nefer.... I've tried cancers three times and it just did not work. Surprisingly I have a much easier and almost effortless time with geminis, which are the worst sign for us. Geminis seem very open and unafraid to explore possibilities, and even if it doesnt work out in the long run which usually between geminis and pisces it does not, you have a great deal of fun along the way. Cancers on the other hand...way too skittish and gloom and doom for me! It is a shame though because at the same time, cancers are so loving and passionate when they are relaxed. I think things would work out with cancer and pisces IF the cancer could learn to relax and not worry so much!

CancerShorti - It is only a truth ....there is only one pisces on here who swears by the crab / fish connection ..... I am drawn to cancers like a magnet ...but I have yet to have a successful connection. They usually freak out on me or at least the last crab did. 😢 Also the ones that are attracted to me are the married ones ...what is up with that? I do better with fire signs. I wish it were different with crab man ....because hot damn ...every crab man I have met is hawt tamales. 😛

Pesca - I think people under estimate the twins and fish connection. I know P had a bad experience ...but I have always gotten along with Gemini men and women very well.

PD

i'm a pisces female currently casually dating a cancer male. were not in for the long run so cant really point out the long term thing.

my experience:

- connection : we seem to know when to leave each other alone, no words spoken, just action. we would not talk/meet to each other for days/weeks sometimes but when we do meet/talk no awkwardness. i can "sense" his moodiness, tolerate it and he doesnt even dare show it to me

- family: i think my key to getting close (without him realizing it) is getting along well with his mum etc. let them talk about themselves and family. it's funny how he wouldnt call for days and did the dissapearing acts, i'd just ignore him (go knock yourself out LOL) then after a while i got in with the family suddenly out of nowhere i was invited to family dinners, wedding etc

- sex, cuddles: amazing, never turned down a cancer whos keen to please LOL!!! i love cancer men subtle jealousy too ..they secretly jealous and tried to hide it bad, love it

- friendship: enjoy friendship a lot. when i dont treat him like a bf, he'll secretly treat me like im his. cute.

and of course, dont believe in everything they say!

re pisces_dream "the gemini-pisces" combination... I have a ton of air in my chart so I wondered if that is why geminis flock to me but maybe there is something special between gems and pisces in general. My gem friends are there for me more than any other sign, I even find my few pisces and cancer friends to be wishy-washy and annoying at times. And I still talk to my gem exs. No matter how badly we pissed each other off when we were together, we forgive and forget.

Cancer...hmm, I was just with one tonight. One of the ones I mentioned in my post above...LOL. We hit it off when we first met and BAM! it was like fireworks...super intense for a few weeks...until he freaked out and ran away, leaving me saying "WTF happened??" Well a month goes by and we saw each other again at a few parties recently. I could tell he missed me without him having to tell me. I carried on about my business as if he were some guy I just happened to know and I laughed inside as he tried to hide his jealousy as I flirted and chatted up other guys. But I've opened the door again for him because honestly I miss him a bit. I miss the good things about cancer guys...how affectionate they are, clingy and jealous YES but I kinda like that sometimes...lol, caring, they want to help and give advice to the point where you wonder if they think you are capable of even thinking on your own, and they like to tease you mercilessly and in ways that kinda test you to see where your head is at and what kind of person you are. Also THE SEX between two water signs.....*hallelujah** Even saying all of this, he ran away from me and I haven't forgotten that. Because of that I will not be completely comfortable with him and I'm not at all convinced that things will work out in the long run.

I think the key to making things work with a cancer male is to not get all heavy on them... Kinda like what cosmicgirrl says, don't treat them like a bf or something to that effect. It is easy for pisces and cancer to get caught up in each other and super intense because we are so in tune to each other. But while a pisces embraces that, cancers freak out initially until they feel they are ready to give into you completely so just go with the flow and don't discuss the relationship, don't remind them that you are in one. I dunno if what I am saying makes sense but I know what I mean 😛

lol



If I have to pretend that we aren't a couple, because he is too sensitive to face that he's in a relationship ....... then this goes against my nature of self accountibility.



No thank you ....... you can pretend to not be in a relationship if you want, not me ....... if he has to hide from this, then he isn't man enough.

Posted by P-Angel
lol



If I have to pretend that we aren't a couple, because he is too sensitive to face that he's in a relationship ....... then this goes against my nature of self accountibility.



No thank you ....... you can pretend to not be in a relationship if you want, not me ....... if he has to hide from this, then he isn't man enough.

lol..i knew that i wasn't getting my point across the right way. I know exactly what I mean so I'm trying to think of the right way to say it. I guess cancer males like to be swept up into love and when you've been together for a while it's ok to start talking about it but you have to wait until you know they are comfortable with you first. They want the storybook/fairytale kind of love and if you make them think too much about the relationship, they start feeling alot of self-doubt and worrying about whether things will work out, etc etc. They freak out.

I agree with you though P, I don't want to feel like I have to use a manual when I date someone. It should be effortless and I hate it when people are worried about whether or not things will work out when the relationship has just got out of the starting gate and everything is fine. Honestly I think, atleast for me, I find air signs to be the easiest for me to deal with.

I find that the final 4 are the easiest for me to deal with.


Astrologically, we are in sets of 3 ..... not just our Decans

1. Aries, Taurus, Gemini, Cancer = insecurity of some kind ............ beit possessions, thoughts, feelings or actions .... this is why they feel compelled to make thier partners hold some kind of responsibility in owning those things for them, because the fear of losing.

2. Leo, Virgo, Libra, Scorpio = a need to control ...... same things = possessions, thoughts, feelings or actions

3. The rest of us = defiance for freedom ... these four will defy any/every thing for their freedom of thought, feelings, etc.




I seem to be best suited with any in those 4 signs ... they seem to have the same basic need as I ........ to be free.

Cancer is just way too insecure for me. I get what you're saying, but, still ..... not my style .


I'm the pushy type .. if I saw a Cancer man all sensitive and shit .... I'd rip him apart BECAUSE he might cry.


Seriously .... just way too much for me to handle if I'm not allowed to kill him.

Posted by Pesca75
re pisces_dream "the gemini-pisces" combination... I have a ton of air in my chart so I wondered if that is why geminis flock to me but maybe there is something special between gems and pisces in general. My gem friends are there for me more than any other sign, I even find my few pisces and cancer friends to be wishy-washy and annoying at times. And I still talk to my gem exs. No matter how badly we pissed each other off when we were together, we forgive and forget.

Cancer...hmm, I was just with one tonight. One of the ones I mentioned in my post above...LOL. We hit it off when we first met and BAM! it was like fireworks...super intense for a few weeks...until he freaked out and ran away, leaving me saying "WTF happened??" Well a month goes by and we saw each other again at a few parties recently. I could tell he missed me without him having to tell me. I carried on about my business as if he were some guy I just happened to know and I laughed inside as he tried to hide his jealousy as I flirted and chatted up other guys. But I've opened the door again for him because honestly I miss him a bit. I miss the good things about cancer guys...how affectionate they are, clingy and jealous YES but I kinda like that sometimes...lol, caring, they want to help and give advice to the point where you wonder if they think you are capable of even thinking on your own, and they like to tease you mercilessly and in ways that kinda test you to see where your head is at and what kind of person you are. Also THE SEX between two water signs.....*hallelujah** Even saying all of this, he ran away from me and I haven't forgotten that. Because of that I will not be completely comfortable with him and I'm not at all convinced that things will work out in the long run.

I think the key to making things work with a cancer male is to not get all heavy on them... Kinda like what cosmicgirrl says, don't treat them like a bf or something to that effect. It is easy for pisces and cancer to get caught up in each other and super intense because we are so in tune to each other. But while a pisces embraces that, cancers freak out initially until they feel they are ready to give into you completely so just go with the flow and don't discuss the relationship, don't remind them that you are in one. I dunno if what I am saying makes sense but I know what I mean 😛

Pesca

arrrrrrrgh got cut off....

What I was saying ...Pesca ....you are completely speaking my language on both the cancer and gem

I could always count on my gem ex lover. To this day we are very good friends. He will always hold a speacial place in my heart. He is married now ...to another pisces ....imagine that. I get along with them both smashingly well. It is the same with my gem relatives ....always can count on them.

As for my cancer ex ....yeap he did the freaking out disappearing act. It is too bad because it was pretty hot, intense on many levels. And the sex ....woah ....amen sista. I gave him a CD for his birthday and he did the freak out of saying "Well, now I feel like I owe you something". I was like ...hugh— WTF— He is an astrologer ...and I sent my friend to see him and I guess he still asks about me. Weirdo......😐

PD

lol @ pisces_dream...it figures! typical cancer! I'm glad this topic was started because honestly I was wondering if I was the ONLY pisces female who drove cancer men away! I've learned how to deal with them after the third one but I don't know if I feel like putting that much work into another cancer guy and the one I saw on friday is being all wishy-washy again so screw it!

You are absolutely right firefly, life is too short and you can never tell. That is why I don't get why people waste so much time worrying instead of living.

Hi, rebellious group of lovely Pisces chicks,

I am cancer guy currently dating a compassionate pisces girl. I apologize for my "modesty" but she is madly in love with me 🙂
By this i want to say that admit it or not, cancer and pisces make a sweat couple (not cool, not glamarous but SWEAT ).
Yes, girls you are RIGHT cancers can be opinionated players but i think they are the immature ones. I try to be the open minded one
which is really difficult being a cancer. I remember my pisces gf asking me "you think that you are always right, do you ever apologize?"
Probably, the reason i am succeeding w my pisces girl is because i read all of the complains to the address of cancers and try to avoid them in life.
My complain to pisces is that in a relationship they can sweem away any moment over a trivial stuff which my pisces did once to me. I was ready to run after her BUT i read too much in DXPNET, and stayed cool she returned to me after acouple of days saying "i break up and get over relationships quickly but it is not working with you, why?". Well, this is my story we are happy together so far!

This has been a great post to read. I thought I was the only one who has been cursed by the crab. *shakes head* Those darn little crabies.

Pesca - You said it so perfectly

"You are absolutely right firefly, life is too short and you can never tell. That is why I don't get why people waste so much time worrying instead of living."

FF and Pesca - I have not written off the entire population of crab men ....but I do know they are challenging and finicky. I am not sure if I have the patience for the mind games. I love men who are pretty straight forward. The magnetic connection is pretty amazing ....the attraction is instant.

Jamesbond and SummerBear - I am curious to know what has made you stick around with your fish girl?

Jamesbond - That is really nice what you said about the crab / fish combo ....being sweat. I can see this. My crabman did not stick around long enough to find out how sweat it could be. Alas, we have tried, we will have to wait and see if a crab is in my future. I have many encounters with them however they are always married ....I don't help men break their vows. 😢

PD

"don't treat them like a bf or something to that effect"

i like it when cancer's in denial

🙂

Hi PD,

"Jamesbond and SummerBear - I am curious to know what has made you stick around with your fish girl?"

I do not exactly know what makes me to stick around Mss Fish, Probably her unconditional love and compassionate nature also the
fact that she can sweem away any minut makes me be more attentive. I had horrible relationship with a libra just before her probably i
feel grateful to her after libra...i do not exactly know it.

Summerbear - What happened to your fish girl— 😢 I can see about the aqua in the chart. My best friend (Aqua) has been in a long term relationship with his cancer. It seems like a very nice pairing.

Jamesbond - Honestly I think this is THE ONLY way people can appreciate a pisces in a relationship after having a bad relationship where they have been crapped on. I think it has something to do with the compassion and deep caring that happens with a fish. I do know this, the fish needs to be needed. If you open up to a fish, the possibilites are endless. If you stay stonewall cold to a fish ...we swim away. It is one way you earn our trust. Also it has to be with a fully evolved fish. Often times we have been crapped on enough in our lives it can make us cynical, jaded, confused (This is where addiction comes in), and sometimes we build our own walls. I also think it is important that the fish is with the right person who brings out the positive characteristics of love, caring, and nuturing. If we are with the wrong person you can see a side that is the complete opposite.

FF - It sounds like this crabman brought out the best in you, and in a sense made you feel secure. What happened to Mr. Crabman??

PD

ummmm... I know 3 Cancer boys an ummm.. they r not that sensitive as u guys think... maybe they were born in Brooklyn and they had to learn to be tougher than they normally r..... i don't know, but that is not the case with them.. I don't know about pisces men but Pisces women r too dreamy 4 me... They r waiting 4 their knight a shining amor...who will never come.... u R RIGHT p, some cancers r really very insecure but it is because the people they surround themselves with because we r really into ourselves hard body. We can be whatever u want us to be after we feel u out..... Yes we r very emotional but thats why we r the best lovers🙂... In the past i have been very insecure because of my past relationships but i had to learned to man up... One thing about us is we r strong and we will bounce right the fuck back after we have come out of our shell... and when we do everyone is happy again🙂xoxo

MY TOUGH CANCER BOYS MIKE TYSON, 50 CENT, & Sylvester Stallone Luv u guys xoxo

Pesca
You have too many air signs in your chart .do you ever get alongwith libra ?

Why pisces female confuse me with introvert Leo and sag ?

Posted by lovelibra
Pesca
You have too many air signs in your chart .do you ever get alongwith libra ?

lol...thinking off the top of my mind of all the libras I have in my life, I have two great libra girl friends and atleast three male libras and a high school sweetheart who love me dearly so yes, I definitely get along well with libras 🙂

Posted by Summer Bear
^^ I didn't.

The only pisces girls that I can connect with are ones with alot of AQUA in their charts. Aqua Moon, Rising, Venus. All plusses 🙂

The rest of them just get on my nerves. And this is why:

They are always....

-Constant Lying
-Trying to appear smarter than they really are
-Using big words to give the appearance that they actually know WTF they are talking about
-GULLIBLE (leads to either cheating or getting pimped)
-Doing something stupid, then trying to make it YOUR fault somehow
-Perpetrating
-etc.. etc.. etc..

Haha, your list describes the exact reasons for why I don't date pisces men! I dunno why people think we pisces are gullible though.

Starfish he lied to u because u meant nothing to him...