AdrianaCrabTor
@AdrianaCrabTor
9 YearsCancer
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Well, I have already written my story here before, I don’t want to bother you, but I would like to read your opinion.
I met a pisces man some months ago. I’m a cancer girl. At the beginning I was not sure about what I wanted from that relationship, but now I do. I know I want him in my life. We had a quite brief “relationship” but I broke up with him. He had told me he was not ready to start something with anyone, but he did it. (It was confusing who asked who, but he says it was me because I said yes when he asked: do you want to have a relationship with me? But he was not proposing it, he was just asking) The problem is that we’ve been in contact since the break-up (March 1st) but I made lots of mistakes because I kind of forced him to say many things) Now he doesn’t text me anymore. He used to do it at least every two days. Now It’s been five days and he doesn’t text. It was me the one who started contact the other day and I “complained” because he hadn’t text me. He said he was happy to hearing from me and I said: “I don’t believe you” The next day he came to my house and told me he does think of me once in a while and if he didn’t he wouldn’t be in my house in that moment. I speak a lot and when he left I said: I have a question: And he said: “You’re gonna do It again” like if my speeches were annoying. And well, I said “if you don’t want a relationship with me, let’s be just friends”. And he told me he cannot deny me what he can’t offer, that is, a relationship. He said he used to look for stable, serious relationships but now he doesn’t. He hurt me when he said I am going to find someone better than him. It was not in a sad way, it was just like in a normal way. He just wants to live and experience in case there’s a day he wants to form a family. I know I put a lot of pressure, I talked a lot. I know at the beginning he liked me much, he was kind of excited, he texted me every day (but there was a day when he said he felt it was not flowing between us), he said our relationship was like a new beginning. And I think I made him go away with my actions. I won’t do anything anymore. No more speeches, no more actions, no more forced words. I just want to know if you think there’s a possibility for me in the future, in case we keep in touch… or if I have already destroyed his excitement, and the fairy tale it is said every pisces is looking for. He told me he loves me (because I have been a good person with him), and he wouldn’t like me to go away. I don’t understand his behaviour, but I know I have provoked lots of uncomfortable situations and given lots of nasty speeches time after time