Question for Pisces Peeps

do you ever have a change of heart about someone you cut out of your life (or blocked online?) do you enjoy being pursued?

I do not enjoy being pursued, but it takes a lot for me to decide to cut someone out of my life permanently.
I have stopped talking to people, then re-established contact year/s later to try again (in terms of friendship, however, not re-establishing a relationship). Once someone has been a part of my life for a period of time, like a year +, I am not the sort who can simply forget them and cast them out for good. I do not know if that is a 'me' thing, or a Pisces thing.

I have a very high tolerance level for poor treatment (lots of practice). I also consider myself to give the benefit of the doubt far past when most people would (Ok just one last chance. Ok just one last chance-a bit boy who cried wolf eh?)

SO: (this is my new favourite saying about myself) If you have managed to get me to a point where I have cut you off... you must have fucked up really fantastically awesome. With the amount of shit a Pisces will take, you probably took full advantage of that. The beauty is once it's gone, you realize what you had.

Do you want it back just to abuse it again?

Be weary. It all depends if this Pisces is actually at their limit with you or not. But normally once pushed to that limit, the Pisces will feel they have already done everything possible to make it work, and it didn't. So they swim on.

I have never cut someone out of my life. Ever.

I do, however, re-assign their place in my life. Meaning what you are to me today may not last. Once I get to a point where I no longer want to try with someone (which, incidentally, can take a very long time) they are re-assigned to a lesser position of importance in my life. And that re-assignment is permanent.

I'll stay friendly and communicate politely when contacted but that's the end of it. They won't be close to me again.

SO: (this is my new favourite saying about myself) If you have managed to get me to a point where I have cut you off... you must have fucked up really fantastically awesome. .

You basically saved me the effort of typing that.

No to being pursued ... I would equate that to stalking me if my decision was to swim away from you, for whatever reason.


For the other part is this question ... you said blocked you online, which isn't the same as blocking a person out of thier life. For a Pisces, if we haven't felt your physical presence, then you've never even entered our life.

On line, like on here ..... you're just words typed on the screen, I would have zero feelings for you or towards you, in the terms you are speaking, which is asking about being apart of life. If you've only known this person online, then you've never really been apart of their life. Maybe the Fish has been able to relate to things you say, but, not a part of your life with any depth.

The people in here who have answered, I can relate to some of it as it references actual real people, in the RW ... I don't consider cyber real world enough to have any feelings for the other unless I actually know the person.

When it comes to real people, once cut out, can I reconnect with them ... yes. However, they would have to change up. I didn't like them the way they were, that's why I disconnected from them, so if they came at me being the same type of person, then I'd reject them. If they came at me a different person and offered a different life experience with them, then I'd likely consider a reconnection.

That's nice for you .... not me. Not unless I actually know the person.


What I know is that Pisces people have to experience their environment in order to have a real handle on it .... online a Pisces can think of how the other is, like you said to be nice ... but, not a real connection. Pisces have to be in close proximity of the person in order to have any real connection.


However, if you want to think you can, that is great for you ... I know a Fish can't, and I know that they think they can .. again, that is thinking.

JackofSpades ... you would have to consider the context in which I said that in order to get it.


People were responding in here from a different context ... like for example, Lena would say that if you're dead to me then it's over ... and that is pretty dramatic for someone online, dont' you think? Lena was obviously referencing a real life thought. She was thinking in terms of a real life love that she had to disconnect from.

another said ..... If you have managed to get me to a point where I have cut you off... you must have fucked up really fantastically awesome.

And how much can a person fuck up online that would make you take it that fucking serious? If a person lets themself get that caught up in cyberspace, where you can't even hear tones of voice, you can't see facial expressions, you really have no real grasp on the intention without that physical interaction with the person ..... that they could fuck up so fantastically —?



Naw .... the OP is talking about a person blocking her/him online .. not an end of the world kind of drama that the responsers had envisioned when they answered this question.

Man, my fellow Pisceans are such a mixed bag.

Here is the deal from this Fish's perspective...

If a person intentionally does really bad things to me or other people, then yes they are totally off my list for life.

I am human, and willing to acknowledge that I make mistakes sometimes.

However, if a person willfully hurts me or other decent people, then to HELL with them!!!

PurrHiss - I completely agree. Definitely one of my greatest faults is that I won't speak up about things someone I care about has done to upset me. I'd prefer to pull my chin up and take one for the team (obviously it backfires). And that's clearly where the "martyr" thing gets thrown into the mix with pisces. We're such a frustrating mess aren't we 🙂

And to P-Angel... just as an aside... the OP did not actually specify that it was only a "cut" from an online perspective. Perhaps that was just one ingredient of the whole recipe. Although I will admit I did take more of a real world approach, as I would guess that if someone is blocking you online, they're likely also not in communiqu? by other means. I wouldn't have even bothered responding if the post was from a purely online perspective, because that's just a ridiculous concern to have.

I have a serious weakness for people that I care about.
So therefore when you hurt me, its really difficult for me to tell you.
I'm always afraid of people's reaction.

I often get walked all over and when I can't take no more, you know it.
If you hurt me bad enough I will drop you and I will think of you often, but only unpleasant thoughts.

It takes an offal lot to get me to this point, but I usually forgive way to many times and regret it later.

Posted by PiscesPosterBoy

If I cut you out of my life, I don't CARE about you anymore. I don't care if you die, I don't care if you live. I don't care if your happy. I don't care even if your sad and want to kill yourself. lol, just to make that clear.

preach it! lol. i've been that way many times before. once i reach the end of my tether, forget it. it would take many disrespects and hurts before i let go, though, especially if you're family. sometimes it scares me the way i can switch off from a person. they cease to exist in my reality.

i think my friends get paranoid over this sometimes...the Pisces tolerance is infamous, but yes. we can swim off and never look back. but there have been times, with enough water under the bridge that i have made up with people. but they're never held in the same regard and they know it...

Posted by ZackofSpades

Posted by Lena282
No. Once you're dead to me it's over.

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Unless we had a very intense connection that I wont find elsewhere. I am forgiving don't get me wrong, but some things aren't worth going through (again).

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Pretty much sums up my two cents worth. If it's someone that I've had a strong connection with, whatever that connection may be, I would certainly forgive but not forget. However, if said person has crossed the line then we are through.

The Aquarius in me doesn't like things to stay sour. The Pisces in me is a pacifist but also will not stay on with someone that I do not really care for. Therefore, the moment I end my relationship with someone, I will try to keep leave on sweet terms.

This is this year though, as I got to know myself better.

Four years ago I was that type of girl who could easily nip a relationship in the bud and disappear from the person's life, like magic. It's like Lena said, but in a possibly different context of meaning than hers, "Once you're dead to me it's over." I won't really go out of my way to get in touch with anyone or reconnect with people from the past, especially if it's tied to negative memories (my Cancer rising is partially responsible for that, I think 😛)

I hope this helps answer your question!

Posted by P-Angel
What I know is that Pisces people have to experience their environment in order to have a real handle on it .... online a Pisces can think of how the other is, like you said to be nice ... but, not a real connection. Pisces have to be in close proximity of the person in order to have any real connection.

Glad to know I'm not abnormal for being this way.

If the person didn't mean anything to me, then sure I wouldn't have any problem cutting times. However, no matter what you did, if you meant a lot to me, I am not sure if I'd be able to cut off ties completely. At least not mentally.

As for being pursued, I don't like it. I like to have space to think about what I want without worrying about anyone else. Or something.