Scorpio and Pisces what happened?

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freddy42
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Before I joined this forum or thread I would read alot on what the likes and dislikes of a Pisces woman. Well with the woman I am seeing I have come to question everything I have read about Pisces. Maybe she is an exception to everything I read. Maybe its my fault for being too loving. Not sure but I have a lot of doubts. I read that Scorpio Pisces relationships were the best and most compatible was Scorpio for Pisces. Based on my experience it has not been this way. Maybe she swam away like so many like to say. All I know is reality has been different from what I read.
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The real issue here is that you are expecting her to be a certain way, according to what you read.

And I promise you, if you even hint to her about all these expectations you have ... then she'll be contrary just for sake of principal, regardless of how she feels about you.

You've made thread after thread talking about how you believe she is suppose to be because of being a Pisces ..... a Fish won't be controlled, they won't fit it on purpose if you are expecting them to.
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As a Pisces woman going through this exact same thing with a Scorpio man... let me give you some additional advice. . Just because you tell us what you want and feel doesn't mean we didn't hear you. You think if we didn't do what you want then we didn't hear you. . We heard you. ..just don't want to do it. There's no law saying we have to do it. We aren't all passive.

Secondly.did your temper get out of hand? Even if you raise your voice more than once. We are out. . We don't yell and if we do. . It's too late. We are already gone and will find someone we don't have to yell with. To us yelling =disharmony. Disharmony= no relationship.

Did you control your emotions when you spoke. ..if not see above comment.

As with any sign not all are exactly as depicted in books/websites. Just as I am sure that you are not a by the book Scorpio. Go by what you know of a person vs what you read.

Good luck
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Here's your problem right here:

Pisces Female

Capricorn Male 1102
Libra Male 1036
Aquarius Male 1033
Cancer Male 1015
Virgo Male 1003
Gemini Male 984
Leo Male 982
Aries Male 978
Taurus Male 974
Sagittarius Male973
Pisces Male 971
Scorpio Male 965


Scorpio man

Cancer Female 1038
Leo Female 1032
Capricorn Female1031
Libra Female 1026
Virgo Female 1023
Scorpio Female 1016
Aquarius Female1003
Sagittarius Female988
Aries Female 975
Gemini Female 966
Pisces Female 965
Taurus Female 954

Your welcome 🙂
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Posted by PiscVirgAquaFish
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Posted by ianthepisces
do you ever shut the fuck up freddy...

wipe your tears and get the fuck out..



They're sensitive and nurturing too... according to all the astrology sites.

Sorry Ian, had to do it buddy LOL 😉



If you want hugs and rainbows while you obsess over and over about the same relationship issue with no desire to move on or move forward....try the Cancer forum. They're lovely folks over there. 😄 Probably a better match for a sensitive guy like Freddy. Pisces don't believe in dwelling on the same issue over and over again without a resolution. Freddy sounds like you got yourself a lemon. Solution: Dump that wench and get yourself a replacement. Chalk it up to a bad Pisces experience. 🙂
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Wait a minute. Don't push him off to Crab beach. He didn't fall for a Crab, he fell for a fish. Which is his first problem. Crab land has more than enough threads about people trying to figure out Cancers. Smh

What is wrong with you fish, the poor man is looking for insight and you guys are snapping like piranhas. You all can't be having the same mood swings. Do what Crabs eventually do when we hit a brick wall, ignore thread. Notice the low reply rate in some of these threads? 😉
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Freddy, yes she is a Pisces and has some of the traits a Scorpio is looking for (otherwise you won't be that obsessed with her!) However, what you could have learned from an astrology forum, is that some other aspects from her natal chart also matter. For example, she's got Venus conjunct Saturn. Look what they say about it:

SATURN - VENUS NATAL CONTACTS

When Saturn is conjunct Venus, it suggests a challenging situation that often hits where it hurts the most. Saturn represents a control factor. Venus suggests our relational needs. They are not great bedfellows.

There are several possible suggested reflections in real life of the pairing between the two. In no particular order:

A) A difficulty with relationships because of constraints on emotional expression.

B) An attraction to and from those of a significantly different age group.

C) Relational fulfillment later in life than usual due to relational lessons that first need to be learned.

D) A fear of commitment

E) Being too controlled or too controlling

The bottom line here is that this relationship between Venus and Saturn means that the control factor has taken over the relational needs, resulting in challenged relationships. It isn't a bad thing. It is the horoscope telling you that you have some learning and maturing to do before relationships will be fulfilling.
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Posted by Poisson
She told you she wasn't ready for a relationship... she was flaky, wishy-washy, and indecisive. From what it seems, she's more trouble than what it was worth. If you want a fish, find a stable one that wasn't used as doormat by her previous men.



We don't know that. This woman brought Freddy to his knees, so she is hardly a doormat.

"I gave it to you last week"..or last month, or last year...this alone sounds controlling and could be the sole reason why her ex left her to marry someone else.
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The real issue here is that you are expecting her to be a certain way, according to what you read.


And I promise you, if you even hint to her about all these expectations you have ... then she'll be contrary just for sake of principal, regardless of how she feels about you.

You've made thread after thread talking about how you believe she is suppose to be because of being a Pisces ..... a Fish won't be controlled, they won't fit it on purpose if you are expecting them to.



Bullseye!

Sounds like he's been reading forum after forum about Pisces-Scorpio relationships and wants to find a fishy female who fits EXACTLY to his order.

Like P-Angel said, these folks won't fit to anything that's already stereotyped by others.

And yes, as the others have said, I think Cancer females are more suited to Scorpios because I've seen it quite a lot. Quite a few Libra & Virgo women too.



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Oohhh, just thinking about my old relationship with my ex, Scorpio bf, brings back a lot of pain. That relationship was REALLY intense. We loved each other very much but he was very possessive and jealous. I'm a Pisces and at first, that's kinda cute, not gonna lie...but let a couple years go by and yeah, it's not fun anymore. I'm the typical Pisces who swims away when things aren't going right and I absolutely hate when people say we are weak-willed because we walk away so easily from something that's not going our way. Really, it's a waste of time to stay and try and work things out with someone who is making you feel miserable inside or making you think that they're not really serious about you as you thought. I will stay and work things out with someone I truly know, loves me and hates to see me hurting. I'm really good at spotting a good one but if the chemistry isn't there, I won't be with him just because they're a "good guy". I really don't think my perfect man exists in the real world. But that's ok I guess lol. I've for some reason always been very attracted to Scorpios and Libras but boyyyyy, we just can't seem to get along. lol
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Posted by PiscVirgAquaFish
It doesn't matter Clueless Cancer. 😛 He seems like a pain in the ass, probably not worth the trouble. I've been on dxpnet for 3 months. You have been complaining about him the whole time. Are there no other hot guys you're interested in? Based on your description of his actions, he is not worth the trouble. He should have gotten the deuces months ago.




Yes I know and NO not from my ethnic group😢
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Have you considered going outside of your ethnic group?

If you don't mind saying, what is your ethnic group?
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The thread isn't nearly as bad as the expectations of it's creator ..... when all of his saga is read, the lasting feeling is that - his only motivation for being with her stems from what he's read.


That's not taking a person for who they are .... and he doesn't seem to grasp that ... neither does that Cancer who just found out he was a sperm donor. Maybe it's being a water-male .... they seem to be emotionally not present, and living in their own world