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Posted by virg_gokiPosted by caligula
Pisces, my Pisces, is one selfish, self-absorbed asshole at times.
Hurt a Pisces' feelings and it's as if you've strangled the shit out of their dog, picked up the shit choke with their favorite spoon, shoved the shat down the shit choked dog's throat, put it in the microwave on high and then fed it to the Pisces with a side of ketchup and slaw.
A Pisces hurts your feelings...wait! You have feelings— What "feelings?" You don't "feel" quite like they do and therefore whatever you "feel" is merely a fleeting thought that you sooooo need to get the fuck over.
Apparently, no sign can "feel" quite like a water sign and OH-myfuckingM-Gee, Pisces feels the deepest. I mean their feelings are so deep that no matter how far you stick your hand down their throat, you'd never reach their asshole. Their sacrificial martyrdom knows no bounds as no sign can climb on a cross as quickly and oh so eloquently as they can...sans Virgo.
In short, my Pisces has pissed me the fuck off. I should send him this link but that would further hurt his feelings as after all, he has so many of them.
maybe you should stick to playing with your virgoclick to expand



Posted by Lena282Posted by caligula
me: "i can't believe you didn't pick up milk and eggs."
pisces: "i can't believe you forgot my birthday." *pouts*
lol you two sound like a cute couple. Is he aware you nag about him here?😛click to expand

Posted by Lena282
I never have to remind anyone about my birthday, they always remember. I don't think I'd be crushed though. I'm so used to people (even my family) becoming obsessed with me it would be nice to be forgotten...just so I can breathe and be free.

Posted by LoveBucketPosted by Lena282
For a calm shy sign we sure bring out intense emotions in people😛
True and, it could be because Pisces is THEE emotion sign, therefore, when it comes to emotions, they can work a number on somebody's emotions, providing, of course, the somebodies let them.click to expand


Posted by heroic_guy
Emotional manipulation is the key disturbing force when it comes to emotions between people.
I like my sense of entitlement to have good things happen to me in the sense my hurt feelings I try to resolve on my own because it just seems like I will get results, and when I can't feel closure from making sense of the situation then I don't mind confronting the issue, even if I have to navigate the other person's emotions.
I know I can be emotionally manipulative when I am hurt, like I understand when I am feeling the need to have my friends or loved ones to comfort me, I might express how it cuts so deep to me, and how this is like a curse sent down to me on high etc etc. Sadly I know in the back back back part of my mind that this is 99% not gonna get me what I want. I can cry in front of the world and still feel like nobody is listening or understanding, and then will actually see people react to that behavior with rejecting me, and then it just keeps going on and on inside me instead of resolving the matter.
In cuts both ways so much and I know how bloody my hands can get from pushing that double-edged sword that I certainly don't appreciate it when someone who I regard as mature does that to me, but I do try to comfort as best I can those I care about but have a early stage of hopping that emotional maturity fence. It seems like a triumph to be on this side of the fence and when I see someone like a young gal/guy friend having issues coping or what not, my heart goes out.
As far as being with a Water sign that has deep emotions, I wish it didn't take years of emotional disconnects with partners through the years to let people have the same equality in emotional deepness. The whole 'my emotions matter more or are more misunderstood' thing just doesn't seem that true to someone if there isn't also that vulnerability and giving in to your partner to say I want to talk. Pulling away or being quiet, at least with me, is like locking yourself in the highest tower and swallowing the key to the door, and demanding others to find the way to rescue you, and people attempt to help but then the pouring off hot lava down the wall as you climb up is just way too much.
Thankfully everyone has a spectrum of dealing with emotions so there can be a lot of give and take as far as coping.
Wish you the best calligula.






Posted by aPiscesPrincess
lol True.. on our bad days anyway 😉
On our good days we can be very caring, and loving, and thoughtful of others (especially with those we care about). But on our bad days we can be self-absorbed, moody, wanting to be isolated, and only seeming to care about our own feelings. Hopefully the good outweighs the bad though, if it doesn't then that's not a Pisces you want in your life.


Posted by brianafay
I agree somewhat...
& I'd like to add that they wear the fuck out of this line:
"oh you don't get it...you could never get it..." *melodramatic sigh* ... ...... ..... ... . . ... .


Posted by caligula
can someone explain to me how/when a pisces will get over past slights? say that i made a boo boo and despite being told, "i'll never bring it up again," the boo boo keeps being brought up. it's not something that i can undo and i will be making up for it, so to speak, in a month or so but until then, it's as if i'm in a torrent of "why did you do this?"
in short, when someone hurts you, how/when do you move past it?




Posted by Television
Thanks for sharing your diary Tubby.
you write sooOOoo purdy...
😄


Posted by caligula
the effort to understand is constantly negated by the parroted "you don't understand" retort.

Posted by aPiscesPrincessPosted by caligula
can someone explain to me how/when a pisces will get over past slights? say that i made a boo boo and despite being told, "i'll never bring it up again," the boo boo keeps being brought up. it's not something that i can undo and i will be making up for it, so to speak, in a month or so but until then, it's as if i'm in a torrent of "why did you do this?"
in short, when someone hurts you, how/when do you move past it?
I guess it depends on how deep the hurt is, and if we feel the other person hurt us purposely or not. And if he keeps asking you "why did you do this?", it's probably because the reasons you've already given him weren't 'good enough' to him. Or it could be as simple as he's reminded of it somehow or it crosses his mind again, and thinking about it bothers him enough to want to question you again.
I know sometimes when I forgive someone for something, or I think I completely forgive them, then the hurtful thing they did might still pop into my head later and bother me again. And it depends on how bad they hurt me and how often I think about it whether I can really get past it or not. For me personally, it has to be something really bad for me to not be able to completely forgive them. I guess 'really bad' is subjective though.click to expand


Posted by shellshocker
I'm currently being punished by a Pisces for going on vacation. Really, how dare I go off and have fun without him so I've been getting the silent treatment.
It's only when I blew up a bit about it that I got a response. I guess he feels better now that he's invoked an emotional reaction in me so I may now have an understanding of what he's feeling.
Ya... that shit is real annoying.

Posted by STARPISCESWAR
We Only Care Ab?ut Pe?ple Who Love Us
We Dont Care Ab?ut Pe?ple Who Hate Us
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Bears repeating.
Some people don't like me, and I don't like some people.

Posted by ianthepiscesPosted by caligula
can someone explain to me how/when a pisces will get over past slights? say that i made a boo boo and despite being told, "i'll never bring it up again," the boo boo keeps being brought up. it's not something that i can undo and i will be making up for it, so to speak, in a month or so but until then, it's as if i'm in a torrent of "why did you do this?"
in short, when someone hurts you, how/when do you move past it?
we dont... it will always be there burning us...
the solution is to just not fuck up...click to expand


Posted by ianthepiscesPosted by Sagittarius89
Hmm all the pisces I've ever know seem really "numbed out"
thats just the drugs..click to expand




Posted by NemesisPosted by Sagittarius89
If I wasn't a sag I'd want to be a pisces. There seems to be some sort of power in it. I also have none in my chart
there are some similarities with pisces and saggs actually. we also share a planet called jupiter (that was before neptune was discovered).
we share a common interest in arts, philosophy, the hedonistic life- style etc. etc.
🍹click to expand

Posted by ianthepisces
i was lying, i dont really have a joke..
because 89's response was wrong... so i couldnt play off of it...

Posted by caligula
so i talked to Catfish and i think i have a non-pisces/virgo understanding of both signs.
for pisces and virgo pain/slights against them are like a spider's web. it starts in the center...one issue arises and the spider poises itself at the loom. then another issues arises and the web expands outward.
for "normal" people, where issue 1 maybe related to issue 10, for pisces and virgo issues 1-10 are all connected. this is why in an argument, they are unable to focus on the matter at hand. for them, it's all part of the bigger picture...the web itself not each individual strand.
thus for them, in a moment of discord they feel/think respectively of all of the pain you as a partner have waged upon them rather than simply regarding the current fuck-up as just that...an isolated mistake. by weaving it all together, it enables them to feel/think that they are victimized. this is why they are the zodiac's martyrs.
for the partner, it's a trap. as the web gets larger, it becomes more and more difficult to free yourself from their torrent of long held shit. if you venture into the web of thoughts/feelings, overtime it takes longer to extract yourself.
if you play the fool and venture to the center, you are their prey. the pisces will drown you in a sea of emotion and the virgo will cover you in quakes of criticism.
if you dare not venture into the web, seeing the trap for what it is, the spider will starve and eventually go elsewhere to weave yet another web.
overall i think it's a maturity issue. all signs have vices and holding on to shit while playing victim is what one will inevitably encounter when dealing with a fish or a virgin. i haven't quite figured out how to destroy the web and force the spider to start anew but when i do, yall will be the first to know.

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Hurt a Pisces' feelings and it's as if you've strangled the shit out of their dog, picked up the shit choke with their favorite spoon, shoved the shat down the shit choked dog's throat, put it in the microwave on high and then fed it to the Pisces with a side of ketchup and slaw.
A Pisces hurts your feelings...wait! You have feelings— What "feelings?" You don't "feel" quite like they do and therefore whatever you "feel" is merely a fleeting thought that you sooooo need to get the fuck over.
Apparently, no sign can "feel" quite like a water sign and OH-myfuckingM-Gee, Pisces feels the deepest. I mean their feelings are so deep that no matter how far you stick your hand down their throat, you'd never reach their asshole. Their sacrificial martyrdom knows no bounds as no sign can climb on a cross as quickly and oh so eloquently as they can...sans Virgo.
In short, my Pisces has pissed me the fuck off. I should send him this link but that would further hurt his feelings as after all, he has so many of them.