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Pisces, my Pisces, is one selfish, self-absorbed asshole at times.

Hurt a Pisces' feelings and it's as if you've strangled the shit out of their dog, picked up the shit choke with their favorite spoon, shoved the shat down the shit choked dog's throat, put it in the microwave on high and then fed it to the Pisces with a side of ketchup and slaw.

A Pisces hurts your feelings...wait! You have feelings— What "feelings?" You don't "feel" quite like they do and therefore whatever you "feel" is merely a fleeting thought that you sooooo need to get the fuck over.

Apparently, no sign can "feel" quite like a water sign and OH-myfuckingM-Gee, Pisces feels the deepest. I mean their feelings are so deep that no matter how far you stick your hand down their throat, you'd never reach their asshole. Their sacrificial martyrdom knows no bounds as no sign can climb on a cross as quickly and oh so eloquently as they can...sans Virgo.

In short, my Pisces has pissed me the fuck off. I should send him this link but that would further hurt his feelings as after all, he has so many of them.
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I agree somewhat...

& I'd like to add that they wear the fuck out of this line:
"oh you don't get it...you could never get it..." *melodramatic sigh* ... ...... ..... ... . . ... .


:/



Like you said, they think they're too deep to be understood. Lol! *eye roll*
Oh shiiiittt, YES, how could I ever make that mistake? Pisces are like the fucking Atlantic ocean deep, and the rest of us, we are only as deep as a droplet of water on the kitchen counter.

*shakes head*

They should start their own planet, since they already choose to alienate themselves.
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he has too many feelings 😛

the issue is more that their feelings are paramount so let's say he forgets my bday. i'd be hurt but overall, as long as he made up for it later, no big deal.

if i forget his birthday...JESUS! the pain! pisces feels in that moment will never be forgotten and i swear to GAWD! i will hear about this afront any and every time we argue in the future.

me: "i can't believe you didn't pick up milk and eggs."

pisces: "i can't believe you forgot my birthday." *pouts*
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Pisces, my Pisces, is one selfish, self-absorbed asshole at times.

Hurt a Pisces' feelings and it's as if you've strangled the shit out of their dog, picked up the shit choke with their favorite spoon, shoved the shat down the shit choked dog's throat, put it in the microwave on high and then fed it to the Pisces with a side of ketchup and slaw.

A Pisces hurts your feelings...wait! You have feelings— What "feelings?" You don't "feel" quite like they do and therefore whatever you "feel" is merely a fleeting thought that you sooooo need to get the fuck over.

Apparently, no sign can "feel" quite like a water sign and OH-myfuckingM-Gee, Pisces feels the deepest. I mean their feelings are so deep that no matter how far you stick your hand down their throat, you'd never reach their asshole. Their sacrificial martyrdom knows no bounds as no sign can climb on a cross as quickly and oh so eloquently as they can...sans Virgo.

In short, my Pisces has pissed me the fuck off. I should send him this link but that would further hurt his feelings as after all, he has so many of them.




maybe you should stick to playing with your virgo
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i love my catfish and the virgo is a whore and a friend only. besides, the opposite of over-feeling is over-thinking and virgo is one big hole that shit comes out of ever so painfully...either way, can't win.
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For a calm shy sign we sure bring out intense emotions in people😛






True and, it could be because Pisces is THEE emotion sign, therefore, when it comes to emotions, they can work a number on somebody's emotions, providing, of course, the somebodies let them.
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i dunno if that's true. do water signs pull out your emotions or just share their crazy? you start out sane and end up a little "touched" by virtue of being with them.
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Emotional manipulation is the key disturbing force when it comes to emotions between people.

I like my sense of entitlement to have good things happen to me in the sense my hurt feelings I try to resolve on my own because it just seems like I will get results, and when I can't feel closure from making sense of the situation then I don't mind confronting the issue, even if I have to navigate the other person's emotions.

I know I can be emotionally manipulative when I am hurt, like I understand when I am feeling the need to have my friends or loved ones to comfort me, I might express how it cuts so deep to me, and how this is like a curse sent down to me on high etc etc. Sadly I know in the back back back part of my mind that this is 99% not gonna get me what I want. I can cry in front of the world and still feel like nobody is listening or understanding, and then will actually see people react to that behavior with rejecting me, and then it just keeps going on and on inside me instead of resolving the matter.

In cuts both ways so much and I know how bloody my hands can get from pushing that double-edged sword that I certainly don't appreciate it when someone who I regard as mature does that to me, but I do try to comfort as best I can those I care about but have a early stage of hopping that emotional maturity fence. It seems like a triumph to be on this side of the fence and when I see someone like a young gal/guy friend having issues coping or what not, my heart goes out.

As far as being with a Water sign that has deep emotions, I wish it didn't take years of emotional disconnects with partners through the years to let people have the same equality in emotional deepness. The whole 'my emotions matter more or are more misunderstood' thing just doesn't seem that true to someone if there isn't also that vulnerability and giving in to your partner to say I want to talk. Pulling away or being quiet, at least with me, is like locking yourself in the highest tower and swallowing the key to the door, and demanding others to find the way to rescue you, and people attempt to help but then the pouring off hot lava down the wall as you climb up is just way too much.

Thankfully everyone has a spectrum of dealing with emotions so there can be a lot of give and take as far as coping.

Wish you the best calligula.
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Emotional manipulation is the key disturbing force when it comes to emotions between people.

I like my sense of entitlement to have good things happen to me in the sense my hurt feelings I try to resolve on my own because it just seems like I will get results, and when I can't feel closure from making sense of the situation then I don't mind confronting the issue, even if I have to navigate the other person's emotions.

I know I can be emotionally manipulative when I am hurt, like I understand when I am feeling the need to have my friends or loved ones to comfort me, I might express how it cuts so deep to me, and how this is like a curse sent down to me on high etc etc. Sadly I know in the back back back part of my mind that this is 99% not gonna get me what I want. I can cry in front of the world and still feel like nobody is listening or understanding, and then will actually see people react to that behavior with rejecting me, and then it just keeps going on and on inside me instead of resolving the matter.

In cuts both ways so much and I know how bloody my hands can get from pushing that double-edged sword that I certainly don't appreciate it when someone who I regard as mature does that to me, but I do try to comfort as best I can those I care about but have a early stage of hopping that emotional maturity fence. It seems like a triumph to be on this side of the fence and when I see someone like a young gal/guy friend having issues coping or what not, my heart goes out.

As far as being with a Water sign that has deep emotions, I wish it didn't take years of emotional disconnects with partners through the years to let people have the same equality in emotional deepness. The whole 'my emotions matter more or are more misunderstood' thing just doesn't seem that true to someone if there isn't also that vulnerability and giving in to your partner to say I want to talk. Pulling away or being quiet, at least with me, is like locking yourself in the highest tower and swallowing the key to the door, and demanding others to find the way to rescue you, and people attempt to help but then the pouring off hot lava down the wall as you climb up is just way too much.

Thankfully everyone has a spectrum of dealing with emotions so there can be a lot of give and take as far as coping.

Wish you the best calligula.



you know you're insane right?
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i hear what you're saying and maybe the gift of my 12th house placements is that when other people disappear, it takes me a good while to notice because chances are, i've already got on my cape, pulled out the rabbit and disappeared in the cabinet.

pisces doesn't baffle me in that respect. what gets me is this (and this is a correction to what i stated before)...

the fact that pisces FEELS soooooo much that it tramples rational thought is what gets me. it's similarly why virgo is full of shit. virgos THINK that their way through their emotions and reach equally irrational conclusions when it comes to the harms they perceive others have heaped upon them.

at the end of the day, no matter how much you tell them to come down off their cross, not matter how much you try to tell them not to climb on up, there these fuckers are with step stools, a lit match and gasoline drawls.
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lol True.. on our bad days anyway 😉

On our good days we can be very caring, and loving, and thoughtful of others (especially with those we care about). But on our bad days we can be self-absorbed, moody, wanting to be isolated, and only seeming to care about our own feelings. Hopefully the good outweighs the bad though, if it doesn't then that's not a Pisces you want in your life.





it does....for the most part but i swear to all that is holy, in the moment of the emotional hypocrisy it's enough to make you wanna slap somebody.
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can someone explain to me how/when a pisces will get over past slights? say that i made a boo boo and despite being told, "i'll never bring it up again," the boo boo keeps being brought up. it's not something that i can undo and i will be making up for it, so to speak, in a month or so but until then, it's as if i'm in a torrent of "why did you do this?"

in short, when someone hurts you, how/when do you move past it?
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Posted by brianafay
I agree somewhat...

& I'd like to add that they wear the fuck out of this line:
"oh you don't get it...you could never get it..." *melodramatic sigh* ... ...... ..... ... . . ... .






i was told this less than an hour ago and i think what it boils down to is, they feel as if they can wear other people's skins and yet, they feel as if others are incapable of crawling into theirs. so they feel perpetually misunderstood and slighted because even if you get it, you don't get it because you can't get it because their emotions/thoughts are their own.

it's funny because in a similar way it's what bugs me about my virgo friends. they could do a wrong and it's totally ignored. someone else does the exact same wrong, and it's as if hell has opened up and swallowed them whole.

i've given up trying to impart rationality and now i just want to learn to speak pisces-virgo. is it a matter of saying, yes, you are right, i am wrong?
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can someone explain to me how/when a pisces will get over past slights? say that i made a boo boo and despite being told, "i'll never bring it up again," the boo boo keeps being brought up. it's not something that i can undo and i will be making up for it, so to speak, in a month or so but until then, it's as if i'm in a torrent of "why did you do this?"

in short, when someone hurts you, how/when do you move past it?



i think you have to be genuine in your apology when a boo boo is made. If you are apologizing because that's what the Fish wants to hear and don't truly understand what you're apologizing for or see where they have taken offense in the first place... then that slight won't be forgiven. Then it grows in magnitude because now there is the question, 'if they can't understand this... what else is being lost upon this person?'

slippery slope, then they swim
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the effort to understand is constantly negated by the parroted "you don't understand" retort.

i think what's frustrating me now is that when i see this behavior in my virgo friends, it'd make me want to tear my hair out because it was literally like hitting a wall of irrationality. it's about what they have done for you, the sacrifices they made, how they painted your woodshed last winter...

nevermind that you have reciprocated. they have a laser like focus on their sacrifice and step into that martyring persona. i have yet to get a virgo friend to realize how ridiculous they can be when slighted while ignoring the harm they do, so i'm starting to have no hope with regard to pisces as well. i guess we all have our vices.
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can someone explain to me how/when a pisces will get over past slights? say that i made a boo boo and despite being told, "i'll never bring it up again," the boo boo keeps being brought up. it's not something that i can undo and i will be making up for it, so to speak, in a month or so but until then, it's as if i'm in a torrent of "why did you do this?"

in short, when someone hurts you, how/when do you move past it?



I guess it depends on how deep the hurt is, and if we feel the other person hurt us purposely or not. And if he keeps asking you "why did you do this?", it's probably because the reasons you've already given him weren't 'good enough' to him. Or it could be as simple as he's reminded of it somehow or it crosses his mind again, and thinking about it bothers him enough to want to question you again.
I know sometimes when I forgive someone for something, or I think I completely forgive them, then the hurtful thing they did might still pop into my head later and bother me again. And it depends on how bad they hurt me and how often I think about it whether I can really get past it or not. For me personally, it has to be something really bad for me to not be able to completely forgive them. I guess 'really bad' is subjective though.
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Oh GOD I hate that. Tubbs how do you do it? I'm feeling stressed out and it's not even me or my problem lol.

If you're going to forgive someone for hurting your feelings and still associate with them, you need to let it the fuck go! The end. People who keep dredging it back up/beating dead horses, are emotionally immature. :/
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I'm currently being punished by a Pisces for going on vacation. Really, how dare I go off and have fun without him so I've been getting the silent treatment.
It's only when I blew up a bit about it that I got a response. I guess he feels better now that he's invoked an emotional reaction in me so I may now have an understanding of what he's feeling.

Ya... that shit is real annoying.
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I'm currently being punished by a Pisces for going on vacation. Really, how dare I go off and have fun without him so I've been getting the silent treatment.
It's only when I blew up a bit about it that I got a response. I guess he feels better now that he's invoked an emotional reaction in me so I may now have an understanding of what he's feeling.

Ya... that shit is real annoying.



Sweetheart, the least you could have done was talk to him about your plans.

I think the primary reason he is hurt and upset is over the lack of communication.

It's something that often causes friction in the Cancer-Pisces matches: Lack of communication.

Often, we can communicate almost telepathically, but this is not the case with all instances.

Should a Cancer decide to take some shell time and chill out alone, then my suggestion is that you at least tell Pisces what is going on before so doing.

Otherwise, you risk him feeling isolated and subsequently angry over your shell-time.

Hope that things work out, and ya'll patch things up with more communication.
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can someone explain to me how/when a pisces will get over past slights? say that i made a boo boo and despite being told, "i'll never bring it up again," the boo boo keeps being brought up. it's not something that i can undo and i will be making up for it, so to speak, in a month or so but until then, it's as if i'm in a torrent of "why did you do this?"

in short, when someone hurts you, how/when do you move past it?



we dont... it will always be there burning us...
the solution is to just not fuck up...
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well at least you're honest about being a begrudging bitch.
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If I wasn't a sag I'd want to be a pisces. There seems to be some sort of power in it. I also have none in my chart



there are some similarities with pisces and saggs actually. we also share a planet called jupiter (that was before neptune was discovered).

we share a common interest in arts, philosophy, the hedonistic life- style etc. etc.

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Yea it seems that way
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so i talked to Catfish and i think i have a non-pisces/virgo understanding of both signs.

for pisces and virgo pain/slights against them are like a spider's web. it starts in the center...one issue arises and the spider poises itself at the loom. then another issues arises and the web expands outward.

for "normal" people, where issue 1 maybe related to issue 10, for pisces and virgo issues 1-10 are all connected. this is why in an argument, they are unable to focus on the matter at hand. for them, it's all part of the bigger picture...the web itself not each individual strand.

thus for them, in a moment of discord they feel/think respectively of all of the pain you as a partner have waged upon them rather than simply regarding the current fuck-up as just that...an isolated mistake. by weaving it all together, it enables them to feel/think that they are victimized. this is why they are the zodiac's martyrs.

for the partner, it's a trap. as the web gets larger, it becomes more and more difficult to free yourself from their torrent of long held shit. if you venture into the web of thoughts/feelings, overtime it takes longer to extract yourself.

if you play the fool and venture to the center, you are their prey. the pisces will drown you in a sea of emotion and the virgo will cover you in quakes of criticism.

if you dare not venture into the web, seeing the trap for what it is, the spider will starve and eventually go elsewhere to weave yet another web.

overall i think it's a maturity issue. all signs have vices and holding on to shit while playing victim is what one will inevitably encounter when dealing with a fish or a virgin. i haven't quite figured out how to destroy the web and force the spider to start anew but when i do, yall will be the first to know.
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Caligula, this post seems both disgustingly self-absorbed and selfish.

And your self described and defined claim for normalcy is hypocrisy and ignorance at its highest form. Who are you to define what normal is or isn't? Anyone has the right to play "webster", but you seem rather childish in doing so.

From this post, it seems that your "play-on, emotional intelligence" is nothing but, ironically, an illusion of neptunian nature.

You might want to check your natal chart again sweet-heart, before you fill us in more about your insignificant other.

-The water bearing fish
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Posted by caligula
so i talked to Catfish and i think i have a non-pisces/virgo understanding of both signs.

for pisces and virgo pain/slights against them are like a spider's web. it starts in the center...one issue arises and the spider poises itself at the loom. then another issues arises and the web expands outward.

for "normal" people, where issue 1 maybe related to issue 10, for pisces and virgo issues 1-10 are all connected. this is why in an argument, they are unable to focus on the matter at hand. for them, it's all part of the bigger picture...the web itself not each individual strand.

thus for them, in a moment of discord they feel/think respectively of all of the pain you as a partner have waged upon them rather than simply regarding the current fuck-up as just that...an isolated mistake. by weaving it all together, it enables them to feel/think that they are victimized. this is why they are the zodiac's martyrs.

for the partner, it's a trap. as the web gets larger, it becomes more and more difficult to free yourself from their torrent of long held shit. if you venture into the web of thoughts/feelings, overtime it takes longer to extract yourself.

if you play the fool and venture to the center, you are their prey. the pisces will drown you in a sea of emotion and the virgo will cover you in quakes of criticism.

if you dare not venture into the web, seeing the trap for what it is, the spider will starve and eventually go elsewhere to weave yet another web.

overall i think it's a maturity issue. all signs have vices and holding on to shit while playing victim is what one will inevitably encounter when dealing with a fish or a virgin. i haven't quite figured out how to destroy the web and force the spider to start anew but when i do, yall will be the first to know.



for once i agree with u... hate to admit it but its kinda true. old habits die hard.. still, we all mature at some pt. and yah, water signs are emotionally fucked up most of the time agreed... i think scops have it better than the other 2 though.
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