
scratch that...i blame his pluto


Posted by ScubafishPosted by shellshocker
I'm currently being punished by a Pisces for going on vacation. Really, how dare I go off and have fun without him so I've been getting the silent treatment.
It's only when I blew up a bit about it that I got a response. I guess he feels better now that he's invoked an emotional reaction in me so I may now have an understanding of what he's feeling.
Ya... that shit is real annoying.
Sweetheart, the least you could have done was talk to him about your plans.
I think the primary reason he is hurt and upset is over the lack of communication.
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Posted by caligula
your mirroring his immaturity only reveals you to be...well, immature.





Posted by caligula
he was recalling events and where he had the general details correct, he summed it up in terms of "what you did to me," rather than truly recalling how shit went down. for a while there, i was letting him sit happily on this web because he had the basics right...and therein lies the manipulation. if someone can get you to believe/see the picture they've painted, they've got you.
i THINK the way to "destroy the web" so to speak is to not get defensive, not give in to the emotion but to say ok, wait, let's go over this together. let's start at the center and work our way outward. as you unravel it all, you'll find some truth in the pisces position and if their mature, they'll embrace the reality...you're not victimized, you never were, put the cross back in the attic.

Posted by shellshockerPosted by caligula
he was recalling events and where he had the general details correct, he summed it up in terms of "what you did to me," rather than truly recalling how shit went down. for a while there, i was letting him sit happily on this web because he had the basics right...and therein lies the manipulation. if someone can get you to believe/see the picture they've painted, they've got you.
i THINK the way to "destroy the web" so to speak is to not get defensive, not give in to the emotion but to say ok, wait, let's go over this together. let's start at the center and work our way outward. as you unravel it all, you'll find some truth in the pisces position and if their mature, they'll embrace the reality...you're not victimized, you never were, put the cross back in the attic.
How is getting one's partner to see your picture manipulation? You say your Fish's basics are right.. the only difference is how you two FEEL about it. Two different perspectives. The Taurus thing is they can't identify with a different perspective, therefore it's manipulation.
Just because water sees a situation differently, doesn't mean it is not THEIR reality...
Earth reality is based on logic. Water reality is based on emotion.
This is interesting...
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te>Posted by caligulaPosted by shellshockerPosted by caligula
he was recalling events and where he had the general details correct, he summed it up in terms of "what you did to me," rather than truly recalling how shit went down. for a while there, i was letting him sit happily on this web because he had the basics right...and therein lies the manipulation. if someone can get you to believe/see the picture they've painted, they've got you.
i THINK the way to "destroy the web" so to speak is to not get defensive, not give in to the emotion but to say ok, wait, let's go over this together. let's start at the center and work our way outward. as you unravel it all, you'll find some truth in the pisces position and if their mature, they'll embrace the reality...you're not victimized, you never were, put the cross back in the attic.
How is getting one's partner to see your picture manipulation? You say your Fish's basics are right.. the only difference is how you two FEEL about it. Two different perspectives. The Taurus thing is they can't identify with a different perspective, therefore it's manipulation.
Just because water sees a situation differently, doesn't mean it is not THEIR reality...
Earth reality is based on logic. Water reality is based on emotion.
This is interesting...
you're about as deep as that orb i shat out a few hours ago.
the basics - something happened.
pisces interpretation of the basics - something happened and it was aimed to hurt me...victim
reality - something happened, it hurt you, but it wasn't aimed at you.click to expand

Posted by shellshocker
I'm not trying to be deep... it's just my perspective, which you don't see, therefore it's wrong. Classic Taurus.


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Posted by caligulaPosted by shellshocker
I'm not trying to be deep... it's just my perspective, which you don't see, therefore it's wrong. Classic Taurus.
your issue is that you read a general statement, without details, and attempt to reason a cause/source.
what you don't get my little shit is that it doesn't matter what happened between my fish and i. i could have forgotten to pick up his dry cleaning or i could've broken the antique statue of neptune being sucked off by venus that he gave me for valentines day. point is, that aint got a damn thing to do with what i said.
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Posted by piranhaparadiise
sorry the tag didn't work...
What do you do ?
You stand aside and let them feel whatever they are feeling...it is not up to another to tell us Pisces that what we are feeling is not reality...nor that we play a victim...we don't play anything..we simply feel what we are feeling...
It's quite normal for others to not understand what we are feeling at any given time...what is normal is that *we* understand ourselves...what you think is head scratching moment..we think that yes you still don't understand how we *feel*...
Yes it's all about deep down how we feel...for we have to nurture ourselves first in order to nurture those around us...
Do I make sense ? lol

Posted by piranhaparadiise
actually I wasn't talking about the astrology board I was talking about in real life with dealing with a Pisces person...
Let me ask you this...what are you doing with a Pisces if all you have to say is negative —
Creating this thread is the same whiny ass that you call Pisces...


Posted by TyDyed
phooey85: TyDyed youre awesome man- using her contradictions against her... glad you have the patience for it.
Well, Tubby makes it easy for me. And, I've sparred with Taurus Gals in RL, so this is nothing new.
She's definitely a Taurus. Her mind is made up, and that's the way it is. Period. End of story.
She created a thread on the Pisces Board, and then gets pissed-off when the Pisces actually respond, because they don't all kowtow (or, in her case, Cow-Tow!), and admit they're a bunch of whiney wimps.
I really don't see this thing lasting between her and the Pisces - a point I tried to make with the example of my Scorpio Brother and his failed relationships with Earth Gals.
But... c'est la vie!

Posted by caligula
*I* was trying to understand why the hell the same shit kept coming up. now *I* get it. you fuckers (pisces/virgo) don't know how to let go of shit, cause you can't let go of shit and the only way to deal with your inability to let go of shit, is to call you on your shit.


Posted by P-AngelPosted by caligula
*I* was trying to understand why the hell the same shit kept coming up. now *I* get it. you fuckers (pisces/virgo) don't know how to let go of shit, cause you can't let go of shit and the only way to deal with your inability to let go of shit, is to call you on your shit.
Of course.
How many pages long is this where you've been exercising your need to hold onto the Pisces need to hold on to issues? What day was this thread started?
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Posted by caligula
at the end of the day, *I* am wise enough to know that to better myself, i have to learn how to master both the positive and the negative. pisces/virgo choose to deny it. your opposite by definition is a fucking psychopath and by virtue of that, what do you think that makes you? is it any wonder your sign rules insane asylums?
what i like about my fish is his ability and desire to grow as a person. to recognize where he can be better. together, we better one another...even when we're divergent and seek understanding. but as i said, aint about me.
Posted by caligula
^typos
you fuckers (pisces/virgo) don't know how to let go of shit, cause you can't let go of shit and the only way to deal with your inability to let go of shit, is to call you on your shit.
but as i said, aint about me. the issue with my fishy was squashed the day i posted. at this point, this is merely exercise.click to expand
Posted by caligula
are you that whiney brown mofo? you got your ass handed to you the last time because you're a defensive little prick. now here is where you wonder...why are you a defensive little prick? oh! that's right. criticism.
most of you lil bitches with dicks are just like your opposites in the virgo forum. i swear between this forum and that one, the real bitches in your sign have bigger cocks than most you wannabemale fuckers.
i swear to GAWD! if my pisces was half the bitch you were there wouldnt be shit to complain about because i'd be OUT!




Posted by JayDee33
I think we would all be enlightened if Caligula described what exactly happened..Instead of this bitching-to-eternity,sign-slammin' contest we could make some real ground and work on soloutions to the problem.


Posted by phooey85Posted by caligula
are you that whiney brown mofo? you got your ass handed to you the last time because you're a defensive little prick. now here is where you wonder...why are you a defensive little prick? oh! that's right. criticism.
most of you lil bitches with dicks are just like your opposites in the virgo forum. i swear between this forum and that one, the real bitches in your sign have bigger cocks than most you wannabemale fuckers.
i swear to GAWD! if my pisces was half the bitch you were there wouldnt be shit to complain about because i'd be OUT!
lol who's complaining u retard? in fact, i agree with a lot of stuff u say - about pisc having screwed up emotions and what not. i just find u really annoying because ure one of the biggest hypocrites ive ever come across. all u is repeat the same old shit day in and day out on the pisces board of all places and about 99% of the time u contradict yourself. all your explanations to whatever are so convoluted that u convince yourself that youre right. lol why dont do u yourself a favor and get a life?click to expand

Posted by caligulaPosted by shellshockerPosted by caligula
at the end of the day, *I* am wise enough to know that to better myself, i have to learn how to master both the positive and the negative. pisces/virgo choose to deny it. your opposite by definition is a fucking psychopath and by virtue of that, what do you think that makes you? is it any wonder your sign rules insane asylums?
what i like about my fish is his ability and desire to grow as a person. to recognize where he can be better. together, we better one another...even when we're divergent and seek understanding. but as i said, aint about me.
you sound like you are in a position to *save* your pisces and help him see *your light*
Posted by caligula
^typos
you fuckers (pisces/virgo) don't know how to let go of shit, cause you can't let go of shit and the only way to deal with your inability to let go of shit, is to call you on your shit.
but as i said, aint about me. the issue with my fishy was squashed the day i posted. at this point, this is merely exercise.
then you say pisces/virgo don't let go of shit... then say this issue was squashed with your pisces the day you posted...
contradiction much?
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Posted by JayDee33
I think we would all be enlightened if Caligula described what exactly happened..Instead of this bitching-to-eternity,sign-slammin' contest we could make some real ground and work on soloutions to the problem.

Posted by P-AngelPosted by JayDee33
I think we would all be enlightened if Caligula described what exactly happened..Instead of this bitching-to-eternity,sign-slammin' contest we could make some real ground and work on soloutions to the problem.
The problem isn't what the Pisces did or didn't do .. in fact, there isn't an actual problem.
She merely cannot "think" her way through an emotional situation, and she's with an emotional man ..... instead of understanding that this is a fundamental difference, she, like all Earth people, decide to make it an issue because if it's a problem, then they no longer have to grow any emotional intelligence ... and heaven forbid that an Earth person gains any emotional maturity.click to expand
Posted by Scubafish
What Decan is the selfish Pisces in your life?
The Decan II Pisces is the Crab-Fish, and yes, I concur that these people are very selfish and callous individuals.
Posted by caligula
a. yeah i know you agree with me. yet why do you protest so much?
b. convoluted and yet you agree with me? i guess i was right, some pisces reside in the asylum cause even when they claim you talk crazy, they clap their hands in glee.
echo: get a life? LMAO! you are commenting on MY "boring," "convoluted" thread and *I* need to get a life? fuck outta here!


Posted by TyDyed
Tubby: the question therefore is, WHY the repetition...
Not only are you a fat ass, you're a dumb ass as well.
If the Pisces keeps bringing the same issue up, it's because it never got resolved - because you don't have the empathy to correctly address an emotional issue with your Pisces.
IOW: It ain't all his fault. You are to blame, too. Since you obviously cannot accept it, you need to move on, and stop punishing this poor guy.


Posted by phooey85Posted by caligula
a. yeah i know you agree with me. yet why do you protest so much?
b. convoluted and yet you agree with me? i guess i was right, some pisces reside in the asylum cause even when they claim you talk crazy, they clap their hands in glee.
echo: get a life? LMAO! you are commenting on MY "boring," "convoluted" thread and *I* need to get a life? fuck outta here!
it's simple - if u choose to state every single thing on the planet, every1 has to agree with something. and i used the words convoluted because i find that if u combine all your arguments then most of them nullify each other. so at the end of the day you cannot sort anything out and u repeat the same shit all over again. if u have all the answers then why do you this?
and i read your stupid a $ $ topic because i was curious to see if youve changed at all... and apparently u havnt. ive been inactive for months and i hardly post even if i am... unlike u. all u do is post abt your pis dude and complain... why dont u just leave him or complain to any of your real friends if u have any. also, wanted to let u know that just because hes a fish that doesnt mean hes like all the other fish in the world... so dont think its very "mature" to come here and start some thread titled "Selfish, Self-absorbed treetrunkers" just because he refused to whip out his cock for u one night. besides, no1 really gives a f*ck about your relationship after a certain pt so get over yourself.click to expand

Posted by shellshocker
What I meant is this issue (different situation, same issue) is going to happen again. If you are correct, your Pisces will not let it go... so to say that is was squashed is a load of bullshit.



Posted by Scubafish
Well, I hope that he is nice to you Shellster, and that he appreciates your kind and warm thoughts about everything.
Yes, Crabbies always mimic the emotional value of the fishies in their lives.
This has always been the case with every single Crab in my life.
When I am angry, then they respond with anger.
When I am sweet and kind, then they usually respond the same.
It's true!!!!
Snap snap!!!



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