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I'm currently being punished by a Pisces for going on vacation. Really, how dare I go off and have fun without him so I've been getting the silent treatment.
It's only when I blew up a bit about it that I got a response. I guess he feels better now that he's invoked an emotional reaction in me so I may now have an understanding of what he's feeling.

Ya... that shit is real annoying.



Sweetheart, the least you could have done was talk to him about your plans.

I think the primary reason he is hurt and upset is over the lack of communication.
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You are sweet to respond Scuba, but I find this is a very fishy point of view. "If I had been more A... than the fish would have been B.." This is not the case.

The problem is he is jealous and consumed with his jealousy, just like he is consumed by many of his emotions. He'll be stone faced and play it off, but he's boiling from it inside.

He is also jealous because I have brought back little gifts for everyone and they are real, real excited about it. And not touristy, t-shirt crap either. I'm a gemini/cancer cusp, so when my switch is "on" I can make friends anywhere I go. When I travel I live, eat, talk, dance and socialize with The Locals only. I absorb the culture and live out another reality on my vacations, so my gifts are spices, art work where I've sat and talked to the artist for a few hours, frozen local fish, booze, recipes, things that you can only get when you know someone.

For the Pisces, because you fish have to feel like you are special and matter above everyone else, I found gifts loaded with sentiment and different. Something I saw that I knew he would like and developed a friendship with the shop owner, returning several times to get more stories from the guy because he was hilarious. Or a chance meeting, where a girl who sold a very unique form of art would never usually be and she happened to be leaving to return to her village the next day for 6 months. Things that weren't for sale, but I traded my own stuff for.

He may or may not see these gifts, depends on him. I'll mirror his actions so if he wants to stay silent and pout... whatever. I'll just ignore his ass until he snaps out of it. At least one of my Pisces girlfriends admits when she feels this
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Ugh this Venus in Pisces I know, she comes off (to those who aren't close to her) as soo sweet aw, so selfless, HELL NO!
You're so right about expecting things from others but won't say anything.
And something else that pisses me off is she thinks shes in love with like every guy she dates or talked to, but usually they don't get past the talking/getting to know each other part cause they see how clingy she is.
I hope this is a Pisces rant thread lol

But I don't think they are all bad. 🙂
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it's a "pisces, what the fuck is up with you" thread.

i think pisces is an awesome sign but like every sign, it has its vices and when vices clash, issues arise.

rationalizing with a wounded pisces/virgo is like hitting your head against a wall. i was finally able to get Catfish to step into my world and what i realized is, they remember events but not necessarily correctly. fish have short attention spans see. and virgos are dense so their "logic" filters out "unnecessary" details...like anything that's in your favor.

in general, the "web" i alluded to, challenge it. he was recalling events and where he had the general details correct, he summed it up in terms of "what you did to me," rather than truly recalling how shit went down. for a while there, i was letting him sit happily on this web because he had the basics right...and therein lies the manipulation. if someone can get you to believe/see the picture they've painted, they've got you.

i THINK the way to "destroy the web" so to speak is to not get defensive, not give in to the emotion but to say ok, wait, let's go over this together. let's start at the center and work our way outward. as you unravel it all, you'll find some truth in the pisces position and if their mature, they'll embrace the reality...you're not victimized, you never were, put the cross back in the attic.
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he was recalling events and where he had the general details correct, he summed it up in terms of "what you did to me," rather than truly recalling how shit went down. for a while there, i was letting him sit happily on this web because he had the basics right...and therein lies the manipulation. if someone can get you to believe/see the picture they've painted, they've got you.

i THINK the way to "destroy the web" so to speak is to not get defensive, not give in to the emotion but to say ok, wait, let's go over this together. let's start at the center and work our way outward. as you unravel it all, you'll find some truth in the pisces position and if their mature, they'll embrace the reality...you're not victimized, you never were, put the cross back in the attic.



How is getting one's partner to see your picture manipulation? You say your Fish's basics are right.. the only difference is how you two FEEL about it. Two different perspectives. The Taurus thing is they can't identify with a different perspective, therefore it's manipulation.

Just because water sees a situation differently, doesn't mean it is not THEIR reality...

Earth reality is based on logic. Water reality is based on emotion.

This is interesting...


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he was recalling events and where he had the general details correct, he summed it up in terms of "what you did to me," rather than truly recalling how shit went down. for a while there, i was letting him sit happily on this web because he had the basics right...and therein lies the manipulation. if someone can get you to believe/see the picture they've painted, they've got you.

i THINK the way to "destroy the web" so to speak is to not get defensive, not give in to the emotion but to say ok, wait, let's go over this together. let's start at the center and work our way outward. as you unravel it all, you'll find some truth in the pisces position and if their mature, they'll embrace the reality...you're not victimized, you never were, put the cross back in the attic.



How is getting one's partner to see your picture manipulation? You say your Fish's basics are right.. the only difference is how you two FEEL about it. Two different perspectives. The Taurus thing is they can't identify with a different perspective, therefore it's manipulation.

Just because water sees a situation differently, doesn't mean it is not THEIR reality...

Earth reality is based on logic. Water reality is based on emotion.

This is interesting...


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you're about as deep as that orb i shat out a few hours ago.

the basics - something happened.

pisces interpretation of the basics - something happened and it was aimed to hurt me...victim

reality - something happened, it hurt you, but it wasn't aimed at you.
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he was recalling events and where he had the general details correct, he summed it up in terms of "what you did to me," rather than truly recalling how shit went down. for a while there, i was letting him sit happily on this web because he had the basics right...and therein lies the manipulation. if someone can get you to believe/see the picture they've painted, they've got you.

i THINK the way to "destroy the web" so to speak is to not get defensive, not give in to the emotion but to say ok, wait, let's go over this together. let's start at the center and work our way outward. as you unravel it all, you'll find some truth in the pisces position and if their mature, they'll embrace the reality...you're not victimized, you never were, put the cross back in the attic.



How is getting one's partner to see your picture manipulation? You say your Fish's basics are right.. the only difference is how you two FEEL about it. Two different perspectives. The Taurus thing is they can't identify with a different perspective, therefore it's manipulation.

Just because water sees a situation differently, doesn't mean it is not THEIR reality...

Earth reality is based on logic. Water reality is based on emotion.

This is interesting...




you're about as deep as that orb i shat out a few hours ago.

the basics - something happened.

pisces interpretation of the basics - something happened and it was aimed to hurt me...victim

reality - something happened, it hurt you, but it wasn't aimed at you.
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I'm not trying to be deep... it's just my perspective, which you don't see, therefore it's wrong. Classic Taurus.
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I'm not trying to be deep... it's just my perspective, which you don't see, therefore it's wrong. Classic Taurus.




your issue is that you read a general statement, without details, and attempt to reason a cause/source.

what you don't get my little shit is that it doesn't matter what happened between my fish and i. i could have forgotten to pick up his dry cleaning or i could've broken the antique statue of neptune being sucked off by venus that he gave me for valentines day. point is, that aint got a damn thing to do with what i said.

issues vary by person. the end result however, is the same. a fish/virgo that feels victimized...who feels as if THEY sacrificed, THEY martyred themselves by virtue of dealing with others who don't understand their depth of feeling/thought.

ALL signs have a negative side and this thread is about exploring that negative with respect to pisces/virgo. what does one do when a pisces/virgo plays victim and centers their emotion/thoughts in spite of the reality. reality is logical/emotional...it just is.
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I'm not trying to be deep... it's just my perspective, which you don't see, therefore it's wrong. Classic Taurus.




your issue is that you read a general statement, without details, and attempt to reason a cause/source.

what you don't get my little shit is that it doesn't matter what happened between my fish and i. i could have forgotten to pick up his dry cleaning or i could've broken the antique statue of neptune being sucked off by venus that he gave me for valentines day. point is, that aint got a damn thing to do with what i said.
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oh, ok... i did get a bit floaty there 🙂
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sorry the tag didn't work...


What do you do ?

You stand aside and let them feel whatever they are feeling...it is not up to another to tell us Pisces that what we are feeling is not reality...nor that we play a victim...we don't play anything..we simply feel what we are feeling...

It's quite normal for others to not understand what we are feeling at any given time...what is normal is that *we* understand ourselves...what you think is head scratching moment..we think that yes you still don't understand how we *feel*...

Yes it's all about deep down how we feel...for we have to nurture ourselves first in order to nurture those around us...

Do I make sense ? lol





WRONG!

it's quite natural for others to tell you what you are otherwise what the fuck is astrology about?

in the positive, sacrifice. in the negative, it's PLAYING THE VICTIM/martyr when aint nobody lit a match to your ass.

in the positive, empathy/sympathy. in the negative, whiny ass, complaining fucker.

you take the good, you take the bad, you take them both...unless you're a pisces/virgo and then, you only take the positive because neither can stand criticism.
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Posted by piranhaparadiise
actually I wasn't talking about the astrology board I was talking about in real life with dealing with a Pisces person...

Let me ask you this...what are you doing with a Pisces if all you have to say is negative —

Creating this thread is the same whiny ass that you call Pisces...






newflash bitch! your shit does stink. you don't walk on water. and your last fucking name aint CHRIST.

it's amazing to me that a sign that proclaims to be so self-aware is surprised that it has faults.
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This thread is about Tubby having an emotional moment with her Pisces, and because she is an Earth person, she can only "talk" about how the feelings are in place to trap her emotionally ... she describes how she has been victimized by the Pisces.


Once she has "thought" her way through the issue, she will be fine ... however, will still feel that she is being misunderstood by her man who knows how to feel his way through life, which she doesn't and is the thorn in her side.


Good Luck, Tubby ... you will be fine, take a deep breath !!!!!
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^typos

*I* do not feel misunderstood. *I* was trying to understand why the hell the same shit kept coming up. now *I* get it. you fuckers (pisces/virgo) don't know how to let go of shit, cause you can't let go of shit and the only way to deal with your inability to let go of shit, is to call you on your shit.

any *normal* person would recoil in the face of extreme criticism(virgo)/emotionality(pisces). it's why both signs catch so much flack. both your stances is to blame others for their inability to accept your immature responses conflict.

so for you folk here, your individual abilities to be honest about the fact that you drown yourselves in self-pity and perceived victimization aint got shit to do with me. sounds like a bunch of immature sun signs that refuse to embrace the negative side of themselves. which of course isn't surprising because hey, as i said, neither sign can take criticism well.

at the end of the day, *I* am wise enough to know that to better myself, i have to learn how to master both the positive and the negative. pisces/virgo choose to deny it. your opposite by definition is a fucking psychopath and by virtue of that, what do you think that makes you? is it any wonder your sign rules insane asylums?

what i like about my fish is his ability and desire to grow as a person. to recognize where he can be better. together, we better one another...even when we're divergent and seek understanding. but as i said, aint about me. the issue with my fishy was squashed the day i posted. at this point, this is merely exercise.
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Posted by TyDyed

phooey85: TyDyed youre awesome man- using her contradictions against her... glad you have the patience for it.

Well, Tubby makes it easy for me. And, I've sparred with Taurus Gals in RL, so this is nothing new.

She's definitely a Taurus. Her mind is made up, and that's the way it is. Period. End of story.

She created a thread on the Pisces Board, and then gets pissed-off when the Pisces actually respond, because they don't all kowtow (or, in her case, Cow-Tow!), and admit they're a bunch of whiney wimps.

I really don't see this thing lasting between her and the Pisces - a point I tried to make with the example of my Scorpio Brother and his failed relationships with Earth Gals.

But... c'est la vie!



this part about her having made up her mind is true. i recall telling her the same thing a while ago before i deleted my old account.. but all she did was abuse and say that i was like any other wimpy fishy lol. what i dont get is that if she continues to have so many issues with fish folk then why does she bother to associate with them? i just think that shes a conflict junkie + attention whore and goes sour when her arse is handed to her (aka baby syndrome). best part is that she tells every1 that they need to mature hahaha

wish there was like a thumbs up/like sort of thing for posts just like they have in fb... makes it so much easier to acknowledge rather than to quote and reply.
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Posted by caligula

*I* was trying to understand why the hell the same shit kept coming up. now *I* get it. you fuckers (pisces/virgo) don't know how to let go of shit, cause you can't let go of shit and the only way to deal with your inability to let go of shit, is to call you on your shit.








Of course.

How many pages long is this where you've been exercising your need to hold onto the Pisces need to hold on to issues? What day was this thread started?

Take a deep breath ....
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are you that whiney brown mofo? you got your ass handed to you the last time because you're a defensive little prick. now here is where you wonder...why are you a defensive little prick? oh! that's right. criticism.

most of you lil bitches with dicks are just like your opposites in the virgo forum. i swear between this forum and that one, the real bitches in your sign have bigger cocks than most you wannabemale fuckers.

i swear to GAWD! if my pisces was half the bitch you were there wouldnt be shit to complain about because i'd be OUT!
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*I* was trying to understand why the hell the same shit kept coming up. now *I* get it. you fuckers (pisces/virgo) don't know how to let go of shit, cause you can't let go of shit and the only way to deal with your inability to let go of shit, is to call you on your shit.








Of course.

How many pages long is this where you've been exercising your need to hold onto the Pisces need to hold on to issues? What day was this thread started?

Take a deep breath ....
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hold your breath! i'll let you know when to exhale.

and dear, it's my thread. people post. i choose to respond. i could carry it into 2012 and what concern is it of yours?

oh wait. here's an idea! i could create a thread and randomly delete it for no other reason than to be an annoying bitch but hey, you have that territory covered.

it's bedtime for me.

nitenite you bellyups
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at the end of the day, *I* am wise enough to know that to better myself, i have to learn how to master both the positive and the negative. pisces/virgo choose to deny it. your opposite by definition is a fucking psychopath and by virtue of that, what do you think that makes you? is it any wonder your sign rules insane asylums?

what i like about my fish is his ability and desire to grow as a person. to recognize where he can be better. together, we better one another...even when we're divergent and seek understanding. but as i said, aint about me.



you sound like you are in a position to *save* your pisces and help him see *your light*

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^typos

you fuckers (pisces/virgo) don't know how to let go of shit, cause you can't let go of shit and the only way to deal with your inability to let go of shit, is to call you on your shit.

but as i said, aint about me. the issue with my fishy was squashed the day i posted. at this point, this is merely exercise.
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then you say pisces/virgo don't let go of shit... then say this issue was squashed with your pisces the day you posted...

contradiction much?


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are you that whiney brown mofo? you got your ass handed to you the last time because you're a defensive little prick. now here is where you wonder...why are you a defensive little prick? oh! that's right. criticism.

most of you lil bitches with dicks are just like your opposites in the virgo forum. i swear between this forum and that one, the real bitches in your sign have bigger cocks than most you wannabemale fuckers.

i swear to GAWD! if my pisces was half the bitch you were there wouldnt be shit to complain about because i'd be OUT!

lol who's complaining u retard? in fact, i agree with a lot of stuff u say - about pisc having screwed up emotions and what not. i just find u really annoying because ure one of the biggest hypocrites ive ever come across. all u is repeat the same old shit day in and day out on the pisces board of all places and about 99% of the time u contradict yourself. all your explanations to whatever are so convoluted that u convince yourself that youre right. lol why dont do u yourself a favor and get a life?
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Posted by JayDee33
I think we would all be enlightened if Caligula described what exactly happened..Instead of this bitching-to-eternity,sign-slammin' contest we could make some real ground and work on soloutions to the problem.





The problem isn't what the Pisces did or didn't do .. in fact, there isn't an actual problem.

She merely cannot "think" her way through an emotional situation, and she's with an emotional man ..... instead of understanding that this is a fundamental difference, she, like all Earth people, decide to make it an issue because if it's a problem, then they no longer have to grow any emotional intelligence ... and heaven forbid that an Earth person gains any emotional maturity.


Kind of like the whole god delusion .... so long as the devil made you do it, you are free as a bird to use that excuse and then you are scott-free at having to practice tolerance or acceptance.
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Well, I hope that he is nice to you Shellster, and that he appreciates your kind and warm thoughts about everything.

Yes, Crabbies always mimic the emotional value of the fishies in their lives.

This has always been the case with every single Crab in my life.

When I am angry, then they respond with anger.

When I am sweet and kind, then they usually respond the same.

It's true!!!!

Snap snap!!!
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are you that whiney brown mofo? you got your ass handed to you the last time because you're a defensive little prick. now here is where you wonder...why are you a defensive little prick? oh! that's right. criticism.

most of you lil bitches with dicks are just like your opposites in the virgo forum. i swear between this forum and that one, the real bitches in your sign have bigger cocks than most you wannabemale fuckers.

i swear to GAWD! if my pisces was half the bitch you were there wouldnt be shit to complain about because i'd be OUT!

lol who's complaining u retard? in fact, i agree with a lot of stuff u say - about pisc having screwed up emotions and what not. i just find u really annoying because ure one of the biggest hypocrites ive ever come across. all u is repeat the same old shit day in and day out on the pisces board of all places and about 99% of the time u contradict yourself. all your explanations to whatever are so convoluted that u convince yourself that youre right. lol why dont do u yourself a favor and get a life?
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a. yeah i know you agree with me. yet why do you protest so much?

b. convoluted and yet you agree with me? i guess i was right, some pisces reside in the asylum cause even when they claim you talk crazy, they clap their hands in glee.

echo: get a life? LMAO! you are commenting on MY "boring," "convoluted" thread and *I* need to get a life? fuck outta here!
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at the end of the day, *I* am wise enough to know that to better myself, i have to learn how to master both the positive and the negative. pisces/virgo choose to deny it. your opposite by definition is a fucking psychopath and by virtue of that, what do you think that makes you? is it any wonder your sign rules insane asylums?

what i like about my fish is his ability and desire to grow as a person. to recognize where he can be better. together, we better one another...even when we're divergent and seek understanding. but as i said, aint about me.



you sound like you are in a position to *save* your pisces and help him see *your light*

Posted by caligula
^typos

you fuckers (pisces/virgo) don't know how to let go of shit, cause you can't let go of shit and the only way to deal with your inability to let go of shit, is to call you on your shit.

but as i said, aint about me. the issue with my fishy was squashed the day i posted. at this point, this is merely exercise.



then you say pisces/virgo don't let go of shit... then say this issue was squashed with your pisces the day you posted...

contradiction much?



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so *I'm* in the position to save my Pisces because he's not deluded enough to think he sprang forth from Neptune's balls fully evolved? mmmmm....kay.



and actually no, no contradiction at all. newsflash...

shhhh...don't tell nobody...

but uhm...

the people behind the computers are real! *gasp*

guess you missed the "exercise" part or then again, you are my little shit so you probably thought i meant situps.
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Posted by JayDee33
I think we would all be enlightened if Caligula described what exactly happened..Instead of this bitching-to-eternity,sign-slammin' contest we could make some real ground and work on soloutions to the problem.




slammin contest? oh you're so sensitive. *waa waa waa✨ i'm right and you hate me! you shall now hate me forever!...literally.



it's about YOUR sun sign and the issue is that some of you fail to realize the REALITY that exists within you otherwise you wouldn't protest so much.
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Posted by JayDee33
I think we would all be enlightened if Caligula described what exactly happened..Instead of this bitching-to-eternity,sign-slammin' contest we could make some real ground and work on soloutions to the problem.





The problem isn't what the Pisces did or didn't do .. in fact, there isn't an actual problem.

She merely cannot "think" her way through an emotional situation, and she's with an emotional man ..... instead of understanding that this is a fundamental difference, she, like all Earth people, decide to make it an issue because if it's a problem, then they no longer have to grow any emotional intelligence ... and heaven forbid that an Earth person gains any emotional maturity.
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*tsk* you're really not this dense.

when feelings are used to manipulate/control, empathy and understanding in the feeling arena stop.

maybe you missed the OP? if the hurt feelings were dealt with a year ago, 8 months ago, 5 months ago, 1 month ago, why the fuck are they being dealt with again today?

as i said, pisces/virgo relate ALL slights into one big ball of "look what you've done to me." deny it if you want but i guarantee that 99.9% of you bring up old shit in CURRENT arguments. you start out arguing about the fact that he/she was late and end up talking about how it was so callous of them to not call you when you were sick 6months ago.

feeling therefore aint got shit to do with it. it's about your inability to move beyond old shit instead of self-pitying and playing victim. are you entitled to hold onto it, sure? but what partner wants to serve a life-sentence? what partner wants to be forever shadowed by a dark cloud or buried in criticism?

the question therefore is, WHY the repetition...not understanding of feelings because at some point, it's not feeling/thinking, it's immaturity and pathology...that of you and your opposite.
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a. yeah i know you agree with me. yet why do you protest so much?

b. convoluted and yet you agree with me? i guess i was right, some pisces reside in the asylum cause even when they claim you talk crazy, they clap their hands in glee.

echo: get a life? LMAO! you are commenting on MY "boring," "convoluted" thread and *I* need to get a life? fuck outta here!



it's simple - if u choose to state every single thing on the planet, every1 has to agree with something. and i used the words convoluted because i find that if u combine all your arguments then most of them nullify each other. so at the end of the day you cannot sort anything out and u repeat the same shit all over again. if u have all the answers then why do you this?

and i read your stupid a $ $ topic because i was curious to see if youve changed at all... and apparently u havnt. ive been inactive for months and i hardly post even if i am... unlike u. all u do is post abt your pis dude and complain... why dont u just leave him or complain to any of your real friends if u have any. also, wanted to let u know that just because hes a fish that doesnt mean hes like all the other fish in the world... so dont think its very "mature" to come here and start some thread titled "Selfish, Self-absorbed treetrunkers" just because he refused to whip out his cock for u one night. besides, no1 really gives a f*ck about your relationship after a certain pt so get over yourself.
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Posted by TyDyed

Tubby: the question therefore is, WHY the repetition...

Not only are you a fat ass, you're a dumb ass as well.

If the Pisces keeps bringing the same issue up, it's because it never got resolved - because you don't have the empathy to correctly address an emotional issue with your Pisces.

IOW: It ain't all his fault. You are to blame, too. Since you obviously cannot accept it, you need to move on, and stop punishing this poor guy.



Hey, I got distracted and didn't refresh the page before I posted. I just said the same thing you said! *jinx*


this is fun... 🙂
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Posted by caligula


a. yeah i know you agree with me. yet why do you protest so much?

b. convoluted and yet you agree with me? i guess i was right, some pisces reside in the asylum cause even when they claim you talk crazy, they clap their hands in glee.

echo: get a life? LMAO! you are commenting on MY "boring," "convoluted" thread and *I* need to get a life? fuck outta here!



it's simple - if u choose to state every single thing on the planet, every1 has to agree with something. and i used the words convoluted because i find that if u combine all your arguments then most of them nullify each other. so at the end of the day you cannot sort anything out and u repeat the same shit all over again. if u have all the answers then why do you this?

and i read your stupid a $ $ topic because i was curious to see if youve changed at all... and apparently u havnt. ive been inactive for months and i hardly post even if i am... unlike u. all u do is post abt your pis dude and complain... why dont u just leave him or complain to any of your real friends if u have any. also, wanted to let u know that just because hes a fish that doesnt mean hes like all the other fish in the world... so dont think its very "mature" to come here and start some thread titled "Selfish, Self-absorbed treetrunkers" just because he refused to whip out his cock for u one night. besides, no1 really gives a f*ck about your relationship after a certain pt so get over yourself.
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so you've been inactive for months and this is the thread you decide to post on? yes dear, i AM that interesting. kills you dunnit?
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Posted by shellshocker
What I meant is this issue (different situation, same issue) is going to happen again. If you are correct, your Pisces will not let it go... so to say that is was squashed is a load of bullshit.






you're exhausting-ly ignorant. i have my resolution. yall not getting that resolution is because yous all a stupid. so let me recap...

at the start of the thread i was resolved that this pisces/virgo regurgitation of past events was an inevitability. i also stated that it's foolish to venture into their web because at that point, you're trapped...you're the spider's prey and they will drown or bury you.

after talking to my fish, i realized that the way to stop the cycle, is to get inside their heart/head. this is where they reside and an unwillingness to venture into the web is natural...who would want to? there's a creepy spider in there!! but if one doesn't, prepare for an ever expanding cycle of victimization and martyrdom.

the key is starting at the center and working your way out. start with the FIRST issue and then move to the 2nd, 3rd...end. in other words, if you start with the current issue (issue 10), you're starting on the outskirts of the web. even if you "resolve" that issue, the spider will lead you deeper into the web. "what about issue 9? then what about issue 8? issue 7?" next thing you know, you're fighting 10 battles at once and it's an effort in futility. you get frustrated, the argument is dropped and the figurative web remains intact...only to expand the next time an issue arises (issue 11).



pisces/virgos remembers events with respect to how it made them feel/think. their feelings/thoughts are legit, they have the basics down but if you love them, how could you ever truly intend to harm them to the degree that they perceive?

in short, if you forget pisces'/virgos's bday, that's shitty right? for the fish/virgin, they will remember the pain associated with that. they probably however will have *forgotten* the fact on that day, a close fam member was sick.

reminding them of what REALLY happened doesn't negate their feelings/thoughts. it merely puts events in a REAL perspective and gives them the opportunity to lay their cross down.
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it displayed funky^

since many of you don't read too good, i figured a picture is worth a thousand words. and i'm bored. catfish no home yet and since i can't talk to him, i shall further my agenda 😉

i find it surprising...this denial of self-victimization/martyrdom with respect to pisces/virgo. it would be akin to my denying that taurus is stubborn. sheer foolishness and everyone knows it's a damn lie.

i think overall that immature people have difficulty recognizing faults within themselves. immature people who can't stand to be criticized REALLY have trouble recognizing the faults within themselves. i mean after all, both signs sacrifice for others so how could they therefore be anything but good, innocent and pure? the reality is, an evolved you maybe, but you don't come into this world that way and many of you won't exit that way either.

part of growth is being honest with who you are but hey, escape to your hearts and heads...it's safer. in terms of growth, your sign, by definition, is one of cowardice. WHY pray tell? if you're unwilling to hear harsh words, if you recoil, get your feelings hurt in the face of an honest assessment, how can you grow? how can you become a better person? how can you ever realize that your self-sacrifice is not for another but mainly to please yourself?

oooooooo PICTURES!!!!!...



http://www.skyviewzone.com/astrology/piscessign.htm<BR>


http://www.russiansabroad.com/astrology/Zodiak.asp?Page=Zodiak-All&ID=12&nPage=2<BR>



http://members.fortunecity.com/alberteinstein/e=mc2/zodiac_signs/pisces.htm<BR>



http://www.astrology-of-personality.com/PiscesPersonality.html<BR>



and i LURVE this one...

http://www.twixtearthandsky.com/astrology/EAS_Astrology_Signs_Pisces.htm<BR>


MUAHAHAHAHAHHA!
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Posted by Scubafish
Well, I hope that he is nice to you Shellster, and that he appreciates your kind and warm thoughts about everything.

Yes, Crabbies always mimic the emotional value of the fishies in their lives.

This has always been the case with every single Crab in my life.

When I am angry, then they respond with anger.

When I am sweet and kind, then they usually respond the same.

It's true!!!!

Snap snap!!!



I know!!!!

snap snap!
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breathe some oxygen? really? do you people have the ability to think on your own or do you just enjoy mirroring? check a few pages back bitch.

as far as my obsession, again, MY thread...you're still here. apparently, YOU can't get enough.

trust sweetie, this is merely an extension of my understanding of astrology. that's why we're here after all.

the sad part is, you're all so dense, so defensive, so resistant to criticism that as predicted, you make YOUR issues about the other.

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NOPE!

clearly you don't pay attention and presume that i don't. i have a clear idea of what's going on here. some of you *special* folk are unable to receive a message because you don't like the messenger. i'm not here to make friends so fuck ya feelings.

i also have not expressed or held onto "what [i] don't like." the reality is, i lurve my Catfish and i came here to cipher through what had resulted in an impasse. pity the fool that thinks this is about anger/piscean loathing.

oh and you stupid! of course no one has disagreed with me. i'm right. i'm always right. that's the nature of being a taurus. didn't ya know?