What the H*ll?!

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Hey Y'all,
It has been nearly 3 years since I've last initated a post on here. I guess its because I've gotten tired of the drama and tricky situations that I've grown more evasive to potential troubles. I have a question: When someone reveals that they have a crush on you and you never knew or suspected it and you're in total shock by it. . . . God, I don't even know how to word this. . . I just think it is so unfair for people to just spring this up on you and expect you to feel the same way with the same intensity, when they see that you never expected this, so it's obvious that you never given thought to it. I guess my question is: Why does it have to be an all or nothing deal? This has happened to me soooo many times and I wasn't rejecting them, as a matter of fact, I wanted to just try it out and see where it goes, hoping that they'll be patient enough to let my feelings develop to the same level and intensity as theirs, but all of my crushes would assume heartbreak and then they alienate me comepletely. Why does it have to be like that? What the h*ll?! Any thoughts?

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Hello Anthony, nice to see you back 🙂


It's the gay thing .. for some reason people who view people who are homosexual do so with a promiscious gauge, as if to believe that if a person is gay, then they have no discernment or judgement of a person on moral levels and automatically assume that if you're a gay man, then you care about nothing except sex.


For this reason, I detest that people are labelled to be gay ... because to do so, is essentially saying that your sexuality is your definitive factor .. and it's not, you're also a person.


Hope life is treating you well.
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Ian,
I know, but its alright. 🙂


P-Angel,
You haven't lost your edge, I see. It's good to see that there are still some veterans around, now I don't have to start all over in a introduction. Alot of crushes view me as "promiscious" when I'm really not and that is becoming a HUGE problem for me. It's not just a gay thing, because I have this problem with women & men alike. They would be attatched in a relationship already, but its like they want to play with me on the side and its not going to happen. I have morals and I would never want to play 3rd wheel to anyone elses relationship. It's just not my style . Currently, I have a Scorpio male on my job giving me grief just because I switched my job position to something that deals less with the public. He's mad because just as I switched, he switched job positions to get closer to me, but the funny part is. . . we don't even talk like that and we're not friends, but all of a sudden now, he has so much mouth calling me selfish and revealed himself that he was trying to get closer to me. I gave him the cold shoulder and now he's even more resentful of me, but I really don't give a shit because I'm not interested in him. Love is patient, love is kind. . . Love does not harrass, to become a pain in my royal ass.

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P-Angel,You haven't lost your edge, I see.

They would be attatched in a relationship already, but its like they want to play with me on the side and its not going to happen. I have morals and I would never want to play 3rd wheel to anyone elses relationship.






I tell the truth, always ... the only way to lose that is to die.

See, you jusst confirmed what I said. People view gay men as purely sexual beings, and forget to remember that they are also human beings.

As for the Scorpio ... you seem to do a lot of side stepping with men, if memory serves me correctly about Virgo, Capricorn, and I think there was another co-worker a couple years ago. It seems to have become customary that men are getting wrong signals, and acting on them.

Perhaps, that would be worth a self check.