What the hell is up with these ridiculous moods?

I've about had it with my Pisces friend and his mood swings. I've tolerated them for far too long and it's gotten to the point where I'm sick of them being taken out on me. He gets short, kind of rude, and ignores me when he's having his little bouts. A few days later, he snaps out of it and is fine.

Before, at least I knew wtf they were about. He has a crush and any time I mention some guy or talk about any guy woes, he'd do this. So I backed off on that a bit. I slipped up recently, and had the same response from him (again). But for the most part, I cut back on talking to him about any of it.

But the last few times, I have no idea what's bringing them on. It's getting to the point where I feel like I have to tip toe in how I behave, what I talk about, whatever, to avoid getting the silent treatment. If he's going through something else and not sharing, fine. It's still not right to be taking it out on me. He's 37 years old and needs to get over it.

Overall, I've grown tired of it because it feels like he's just emotionally abusing me in a sense. I'm just trying to get some understanding why the fuck Pisces guys are like this and wtf should I do at this point? I usually just leave him be and he comes around and sometimes apologizes. It's just the frequency in which they've been happening lately is starting to really bug.

Can you please write in legible English?

No need to write like a 12 year old teeny bopper.

You have issues if you think that was "upset." :/

And in regard to your initial response, what makes it all the more confusing is that he's the one who wants to keep hanging out regardless.

It could be something else, for all I know. But him taking it out on me all the time isn't right, either.

Posted by MissFisk
He's still crushing on you it seems. Even though he's "cool" with just being friends, it seems that is not the case. He's trying his best to hide it from you... but he can't hide it from himself. Maybe he's hanging on to some hope that you'll eventually come around.

I have a feeling that every time he disappears or goes silent, he's trying to reason with himself.

What I notice from my experience with Aries women is that when you ladies are friends with men, it's just that, cut and dry. And some of these men do not necessarily understand this. "If she hangs around me and gives me attention, she must like me... maybe it can lead to more."

If you think this is the case, you'll eventually need to bring it up with him and ask. And set clear boundaries in your friendship. It has to sink in. In short, you have to kill that hope he's hanging onto.

Or like you said, he might be going through other personal issues that he's not sharing with you.

Yeah I've wondered that too. I thought we'd made it clear and I've been patient and not led him on and kept everything strictly friends. None of that dumb bitch mixed signal shit, you know? I've been in his shoes and I'm not about to do what a lot of people do in situations like this and make the one with the crush feel awful for feelings that they have.

Though a serious talk may be in order because it's absolutely childish to be taking out his crap on me. :/

Impulsv's answer was good and get over yourself.

The moment he made clear that he likes you, is the moment this stopped being a "friendship" in the conventional use of the term.

He wants more than friendship with you, and he is torturing himself by allowing you to be "just friends" with him.

If he were a wise man, he would have walked away the instant you tried to trap him in the FRIEND ZONE.

I know I sure as hell would have.

Posted by hydorah
Impulsv's answer was good and get over yourself.

Her response was full of 12 year old text lingo, which is hard to read, and she's 39 years old. It just makes her look fucking retarded. Nobody can take you or your advice seriously if you're a full grown adult typing like some small child with a cell phone that cannot construct 3 letter words.

I had no problem with what she had to say. Just how she wrote it.

Now kindly fuck off, dipshit. The only one that needs to get over themselves is you, thinking you're captain save a ho (no offense, Impulsv).

Posted by geminicandIe
Rocky, you need to cut emo vampires from your life.
I had to do this recently with someone who emotionally manipulated me, hence draining me.

If he has a crush on you, it will be hard to establish healthy friendship boundaries.

It's funny that you say that because recently I've been reevaluating a lot of people that I've had in my life and am cutting the crappy ones out of my life one by one.

Stop pestering the poor boy, you are not even his girlfriend 🙂!

Posted by fishinamaize
Rockyroad, are you a capricorn?

That's more of a ram behaviour 😈!

Posted by fishinamaize
Rockyroad, are you a capricorn?

Nope