
i just read that possibly anywhere from 10 - 50% of women climax during that experience..would you think this is possible or no?



Posted by DAMEN VI
i just read that possibly anywhere from 10 - 50% of women climax during that experience..would you think this is possible or no?


Posted by PiscVirgAquaFish
The body responds to stimuli whether or not its wanted. It has nothing to do with whether the person is enjoying the experience,...

Posted by ianthepisces
good way to get the victim put in jail...
best to shoot to kill..

Posted by ninjutsu
Lmao the range of 10-50. Quite a jump there.
But yes it is possible to receive 'positive' physiological stimulation when being compelled to do something that you don't mentally/emotionally want to be doing. This is a common reason for guilt amongst sexual trauma victims, including children. Natural physical reactions can't be helped, it doesn't mean that it ceases to be abuse.
Posted by Jahlia
http://www.thenation.com/blog/169474/how-body-reacts-sexual-assault#<div class="bqfade">click to expand

Posted by PiscVirgAquaFish
This is a strange question but I suppose its possible. The body responds to stimuli whether or not its wanted. It has nothing to do with whether the person is enjoying the experience, the body responds
involuntarily to physical arousal. This can be very confusing and cause guilt in victims. If you've ever worked with sexual assault victims, especially children, they often express confusion and shame because their body became aroused even though the attack was unwarranted. 😢 I'm assuming this post was a tongue in cheek question but really...why?
Posted by enfant_terriblePosted by PiscVirgAquaFish
The body responds to stimuli whether or not its wanted. It has nothing to do with whether the person is enjoying the experience,...
Getting wet is "the body responding to stimuli" which is common during rape... but actually getting "aroused" is something else!click to expand

Posted by cowpuncher
I can only imagine this topic would leave a woman with even more emotional scarring from the experience than she would otherwise have. Honestly it's a pretty awful topic, and every rapist alive deserves no better than a quality 185 grain to 200 grain .45 caliber hollow point to the head, chest, or groin... and probably all three. I prefer the old Winchester Black Talons myself when you can get them, but the Federal Premium stuff that costs like $ 40-50 for a box of 20 works just as effectively.



Posted by cowpuncher
So which societies are those Enfant? Back up what you're saying.. make your case.



Posted by juke
'The Girl With The Dragon Tattoo' (2004) and its two sequels begin with some blank statistics that raised an eyebrow:
1. Eighteen percent of the women in Sweden have at one time been threatened by a man.
2. Forty six percent of the women in Sweden have been subjected to violence by a man.
3. Thirteen percent of the women in Sweden have been subjected to aggravated sexual assault outside a sexual relationship.
4. Ninety two percent of women in Sweden who have been subjected to sexual assault have not reported the incident to the police.
http://www.shmoop.com/girl-with-dragon-tattoo/epigraph.html</a>

Posted by tiziani
You're saying a lot of things without actually saying anything at all. What is the most effective way you see for a woman to stop a larger male assailant?

Posted by cowpuncher
Numbers, from a reliable source. Cite them. Do your homework.
Posted by cowpuncher
Also, do you believe women shouldn't have the right to choose to defend themselves with deadly force if attacked? Does it go for men too? Curious.click to expand

Posted by Jahlia
I was going to remain silent but when he used that argument it irked me a bit. How does everybody forget about Switzerland? The fact that guns are available IS NOT what makes a large mass of people shoot/attack/kill each other.

Posted by tiziani
I don't like guns, but that doesn't deter the truth that a trained woman with a gun will be more effective at stopping any assailant than anything else. Realistically I don't see any more effective solution than that.




Posted by ianthepisces
this girl i used to date was shot in the head over a disagreement at a dinner table..
people are crazy, and they are armed...
id rather not bring a stick to a gun fight..

Posted by Piscescorp
I swear, I am a nice woman but when it comes to this, I will turn into the biggest shark of the sea with no feelings.
1) Trust no one
2) Trust your gut feelings, usually when there is danger your Aura picks up on it, don't ignore it.
Animals don't ignore it, if you ever notice, cats and dogs pick up on it and don't want to get near a certain area or simply do not want to go out of the house.
I used to walk at this park near my place every night, and suddenly I had this strange feeling, and never went back there again. I rather drive to a near by place where lots of people go for long walks at the time I like to go myself. This reminds me to get pepper spray again.

Posted by JahliaPosted by enfant_terrible
Look, all I'm saying is that the societies where people don't think of fire-arms as an option when it comes to self-protection are also the societies where gun-violence is practically non-existent.
I wonder how often it happens that a person actually gets to use their firearm in self-defence? Violence is not suspenseful like in movies.... it doesn't creep up on you.... it's happens quickly and it's over quickly.
One word: Switzerland.click to expand





Posted by enfant_terrible
I doubt that the Swiss walk around packed because they feel threatened. That's the difference between the US and Switzerland... and it's a difference between life and death 🙂
Posted by enfant_terrible
What we have here are a bunch of gun-enthusiasts with a overly active imagination who are praying they will one day get to use their gun for more than shooting tin cans.
I never had to worry myself about bringing a stick to a gun-fight because where I live, people don't have gun-fights over an argument unless we're talking about motorcycle gangs and such. That's another of my points, if you have a gun in your house for self-defense, it is more likely you will shoot a family member or acquaintance "over a disagreement at the dinner table" or by accident, than actually getting to shoot at a burglar. ...
Anyway, I'm getting out since no one cares to elaborate on some of my points, everyone just thinks that women should basically carry guns with them at all times just in case they happen to get jumped on at some point in their lives. What a silly fantasy.click to expand

Posted by cowpuncher
Everywhere enact Stand your Ground laws and CCW laws in the USA, violent crime decreases. Everywhere guns are banned or further restricted, in the USA... violent crime increases, every time, without fail, and I defy you to find one exception to that.


Posted by Piscescorp
Honestly I don't like this thread, specially how it was named.
I wished you would have made it *How to prevent being attacked/rape* something like that.
But the topic was just weird, Damen are you alright in your mind man?
I just think it brings really bad memories to the victims, and keeping this thread up just keeps bad memories alive.
I wish it was removed.



Posted by PiscescorpPosted by DAMEN VI
Are you sensitive to people that go thru pleasure too? Like does your crotch area automatically get moist whenever you watch porn or listen to your neighbors having sex?
You are for sure an idiot of a man, and this is not the only thread where I have read you act like one. You do have a very small brain. How sad.
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Posted by Piscescorp
And Damen VI,
I am going to answer your question and explain why I find this thread offensive in some form.
#1) this thread -subject is to be handled only by experts who have the brains and are capable of giving support to victims and any information collected is always confidential.
2) This is not a simple thread / subject like a simple question >> you like chocolate or cookie better.
come on man, you can do better than that.
And 3)
I was not sexually abused luckly- but I will tell you something that this thread reminded me of.

Posted by Piscescorp
informative? you really find this informative?
you guys wanting to know if a raped victim orgasms? WTF / ONLY a sick frick asks that question.
I am disappointed.

Posted by PiscVirgAquaFish
I don't know, this topic was doomed the minute Damen hit post. If I thought this was an attempt to gain a better understanding of issues faced by sexual assault victims, I would be the first one to embrace this topic, and would go out of my way to post literature concerning issues that cause guilt and emotional trauma for sexual assault victims, as well as ways to cope and absolve guilt. But my intuition tells me that the real reason for posting this topic is the OP saw an opportunity to make a point. And that point is that some women actually enjoy rape, which is why they had orgasms. I'm not convinced of this theory, and neither are most of the women posting. In fact I adamantly disagree with the theory. So at this point all I can do is kind of side eye the OP, because he knew this topic would cause drama, and he is getting exactly what he wanted.

Posted by EusiveSoulll
Speaking for myself.... the above is indeed very true!
Which raises question of a possibility/probability of achieving an orgasm via solely mental stimulation.. but I'm digressing
Posted by Piscescorp
No it was of no help for me sharing that story, but it may be of help to parents to watch their little ones closely and to not trust so easy in other people around their children. so many abused children out there - it's not funny.
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Posted by PiscVirgAquaFish
Well you left it wide open for speculation. But since you stated your intent here is my answer:
I think the orgasm is physical, not mental. The mind may be mentally checked out, but the body still responds to what it considers to be pleasurable. Think of pain and pleasure being on opposite ends of the same wavelength. You don't have to think about pain, to experience pain. Pain is pain no matter how its caused. Likewise, maybe an orgasm is a similar response to pleasure for the body. Anyways I'm just theorizing. I don't think it really matters why. It doesn't make a difference in the outcome. **Kanye shrug**

Posted by SatoriFierce
and omg about what enfant said about gun nuts fantasizing about having to use their gun on someone... lol so scarily true. ugh

Posted by SatoriFiercePosted by MontgomeryPosted by SatoriFierce
and omg about what enfant said about gun nuts fantasizing about having to use their gun on someone... lol so scarily true. ugh
Right-- why bother with facts when you have frothy, emotional appeal?
wtf enfant and i are the only ones recognizing the facts. u stupid.click to expand
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