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RoseAngel81
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12 Years

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Well you all win. The pisces guy I was dating in the summer / autumn. The one who acted like he really liked me and then vanished into thin air blaming it on work stress. It was someone else. Facebook updates showed that. He met her before he broke up with me.

It's to be expected I met him online and you're never sure how many others they are seeing.

Interestingly his new woman was leaving rude moaning and needy comments all over his facebook page and his friends pages too. I was never like that. I have a laid back live and let live attitude.

Well him and her have clearly broken up already facebook makes it clear: that's barely 4 months together.

He's not come back on the dating site.

Hope he's satisfied lol. He ended it with me for her. Maybe he likes a needy woman.

he's cheated before on his first girlfriend. I should have expected it.
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RoseAngel81
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Posted by djbuck1
Posted by RoseAngel81

He's cheated before on his first girlfriend. I should have expected it.



This would be a huge red flag to me, regardless of gender or sign.
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The fact that he told me about it, expressed remorse and took the blame made me less worried. He was in college so young and inexperienced.

I dont like internet dating as even when they find soneone they like, they keep looking as they've paid a subscription for x amount of time.

His new relationship broke down and he's not on the site now.
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RoseAngel81
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So glad to have blocked P Angel.

doesnt show up when I log in.

His online dating profile said that he doesn't want someone who is needy and depends on him. He made that clear in his online questions when we started talking. He said he sees friends and has his sports....as do I.

I have hobbies and see friends so I have my own stuff to do.

not saying im a better catch but it just seems illogical that he got what he said he wanted in me and then ends it for someone who did nothing but complain at him and his friends. It didnt last either.
Well I hope hes ok. He had a lot of problems when we met.

just out of a long term relationship and in a mess at work. He went through 4 jobs in a year and including his long term ex, and new girl that is 3 relationships in less than a year that broke up.

seems a little self destructive. Hope he sorts himself out. It is a shame.
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RoseAngel81
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No not making excuses. Cheating is an awful thing to do. Him being upfront about it made me less inclined to worry about it. Cheaters normally deny what they've done or wont admit it.

That is all. My gemini ex was remorseless. He found someone else and then found a way to conceal it and blame the break up on me. He was such a liar and couldnt handle it when I discovered the truth. He wanted to be the good guy on everyones eyes still so he blamed me.

pisces guy although I dont excuse what he did was honest and up front about it. But he wasnt with me so he is just as bad.
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first off.. why would you date someone after they cheated to be with you.. that is similar to having someone breaking into your neighbors house take their belongings and you letting them spend the night in yours. and furthermore... why does this matter to you. it is a relationship. some are shitty and others work out for the best. move on and stop lingering on here about it. it makes it seem like you need the attention and someone else' pity. if you have the live and let live personality you would go ahead and let live and never posted the first line.... i am not trying to be harsh and you can block me like you did P-Angel but i am just being honest with you as another adult. and stop going to dating sites. just do your thing and stop trying to force a relationship into your lap. that will never work out. relationships find you when you least expect it.
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earthonfire
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Posted by Pdemp33
first off.. why would you date someone after they cheated to be with you.. that is similar to having someone breaking into your neighbors house take their belongings and you letting them spend the night in yours. and furthermore... why does this matter to you. it is a relationship. some are shitty and others work out for the best. move on and stop lingering on here about it. it makes it seem like you need the attention and someone else' pity. if you have the live and let live personality you would go ahead and let live and never posted the first line.... i am not trying to be harsh and you can block me like you did P-Angel but i am just being honest with you as another adult. and stop going to dating sites. just do your thing and stop trying to force a relationship into your lap. that will never work out. relationships find you when you least expect it.



I agree...dating sites are the scourge of the single world. They encourage the attitude of "there may be someone better if I continue clicking".

I tried them when I was single and they are disgusting. Random men typing things to you that they would NEVER say in real life. I know so many women who are on them who have all slept with the same men and it's incestuous to say the least!

Get over the Pisces. Let yourself move on. Stop stalking him on Facebook and cheering when things stuff up for him.

When you are finished with that, then open your heart to the universe for the right person to cross your path. That person will appear when you least expect it and when the time is right for it.
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earthonfire
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Posted by Pdemp33
first off.. why would you date someone after they cheated to be with you.. that is similar to having someone breaking into your neighbors house take their belongings and you letting them spend the night in yours. and furthermore... why does this matter to you. it is a relationship. some are shitty and others work out for the best. move on and stop lingering on here about it. it makes it seem like you need the attention and someone else' pity. if you have the live and let live personality you would go ahead and let live and never posted the first line.... i am not trying to be harsh and you can block me like you did P-Angel but i am just being honest with you as another adult. and stop going to dating sites. just do your thing and stop trying to force a relationship into your lap. that will never work out. relationships find you when you least expect it.



I agree...dating sites are the scourge of the single world. They encourage the attitude of "there may be someone better if I continue clicking".

I tried them when I was single and they are disgusting. Random men typing things to you that they would NEVER say in real life. I know so many women who are on them who have all slept with the same men and it's incestuous to say the least!

Get over the Pisces. Let yourself move on. Stop stalking him on Facebook and cheering when things stuff up for him.

When you are finished with that, then open your heart to the universe for the right person to cross your path. That person will appear when you least expect it and when the time is right for it.
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RoseAngel81
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Umm did you read it right?

He didnt cheat to be with me. He had been single for a few months when we met.

The cheating on his first gf was many years before we met.he brought it up when we were discussing relationship history. He told me.about his first gf and how he shouldn't have done it and was sorry for it but it was years before we met.

btw relationships dont fall out of the sky when you least expect it. When you work full time you have to make some effort to go out and meet people.

He didnt cheat to be with me. I would never go out with someone who was seeing someone. The gf he cheated on was many years ago and he was single when he met me.

the next girl however he kind of cheated on me to be with her. But I doubt she knew that.
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Pdemp33
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oh sorry i just went back and read it again. now the cheating thing was not my main point. The point i was trying to get at is that there is no point coming on here to pity yourself. It will do nothing for you. And I work a full time job with overtime and i do not have a car so i know the hardship of being single and not finding the right person. It isnt easy but I have also realized if you just do your own thing and stop worrying about finding a relationship your life becomes less stressful and actually enjoyable. The relationship will come. It could be anything from grocery shopping to going to your local bank to deposit money. If you are clinging onto the idea of finding a partner it will be evident in social interactions and it will push people away. Just have fun with your life and stop lingering on this subject.
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Posted by RoseAngel81

The cheating on his first gf was many years before we met.he brought it up when we were discussing relationship history. He told me.about his first gf and how he shouldn't have done it and was sorry for it but it was years before we met.

btw relationships dont fall out of the sky when you least expect it. When you work full time you have to make some effort to go out and meet people.

He didnt cheat to be with me. I would never go out with someone who was seeing someone. The gf he cheated on was many years ago and he was single when he met me.

the next girl however he kind of cheated on me to be with her. But I doubt she knew that.







I see you are still making excuses for the cheater.

We all know it's because you think you are the better choice of girlfriend, for the cheater ... and you can't figure out why the cheater would rather have a different woman, when clearly, you believe you are the one who should win him.

Sounds like that's probably the type of guy you deserve, since you gauge him special ... keeping hoping with all your might, and maybe, just maybe, he will choose you, and then won't you feel special