cuddling changes lives

So its been awhile since we cuddled after sex. Him being the man and mars in scorpio, I take his lead. I figured his mind has been on other things.

He just got done skeeting on my bum and told me he wanted to cuddle and watch the Harry Potter marathon. So I cleaned up, he threw on his boxers, and I turned own th thermostat to 60 and grabbed the comforter. I didn't put on any of my clothes. I had on a bra top and lace leggings with the crotch cut out. He did that.

When he curls up next to me and moans as he gets comfortable in my grooves, it makes me feel so womanly. He intertwined his feetwith mine and he wraps his arms around me. I feel his body heat and telepathically I can feel the outpouring of emotion. Its unexplainable. Water moon cuddling and that moon/mars in scorpio connection, feels like a hot tub sitting in mount everest. A snowball in hell. Im melting.

Then I blissfully fall asleep.

3 hours later I wake up and a third leg is painting circles on my butt.

If he ever leaves me, I'll kill him.

Lets share cuddling stories. Cuddling changes lives.

I feel rejuvenated.

Posted by cunninglinguist
Cuddling is healthy for the psyche - as long as it's with the right person, because I think that's what makes women feel attached.

Yes, I dont cuddle with everyone. I will take down my guard and admit that cuddling can make a girl get attached.

I miss cuddles ;(

Oddly we never really have cuddled after sex. I think that's one of the things that attracted me to him is that the cuddles never were attached to sex. I felt that he really cared for me, because he cuddled me even before we ever had sex.

We just cuddle whenever. We were cuddling all night while watching TV. Then it got to be a habit and every time we sat on the couch to watch TV, it was like an automatic thing.

We actually had to stop cuddling so much over here. I was getting addicted and it was wearing him out.

Currently we cuddle in the morning before he goes to work.

Posted by DonJohnson
aw my girl is a mars in virgo too. i call her the cuddle monster.

even when i'm sitting in my chair doing work, she has to sit on my lap. just sit there silently like a cat. lol


sometimes it's too much tho. i feel trapped.

Yeah, this is how my boyfriend started feeling. He needed breathing room. I started sitting on the easy chair instead of the couch with him. He feels much better.

Posted by DonJohnson
aw my girl is a mars in virgo too. i call her the cuddle monster.

even when i'm sitting in my chair doing work, she has to sit on my lap. just sit there silently like a cat. lol


sometimes it's too much tho. i feel trapped.

Cuddle monster is gonna get cha. Get her a cat so she can cuddle with that.

Death by cuddle

I had been speaking into the universe that I could really really use a cuddle. And I got it from one of the only guys I would want it from.

I do enjoy turning down unwarranted cuddles. Get off of me.

You're DRUNK!!

Posted by DonJohnson
did you know you have the same placements as Mauricio Shogun Rua?

wow. the exact same.

Posted by yellowsweater
what do you think about cuddling and falling asleep with a one night stand?

go for it..if your lead to such a direction. i dont know why one night stands are so taboo. just because the person is a one night stand doesnt negate them from cuddling or whatever else.

the best adventures/nights if had have been with one nighters. its like a fantasy.

God, this is what I miss most about being in relationship. The cuddling! I'm glad you're in a loving relationship with lots of great cuddling! Good luck keeping the good times rolling!

Posted by xygeneration
I don't miss relationship for the cuddling. I have a nice stuffed pillow and if I want something soft and warm id adopt a dog.

Feck thay connection. Never ever again. Its worse than sex. Especially with someone you love and then it doesn't last. Yeah no thanks.

worse than sex? damn

Posted by xygeneration
Well yeah, the opposite would be cuddling is better than sex.

Ever had that feeling when you're having sex or cuddling and you just want to be one with the person? Or when you're kissing another and you kiss him so hard bc you want him to be inside you (not hos dick). Scorps are afraid of that shit and cant make a connection. Only once or twice it will happen in the relationship.

Or maybe im just too into it. I don't know I have a headache and woke up cranky ass feck.

yeah ive had that feeling once or twice. alas, it wasnt reciprocal.

Posted by DMV
Death by cuddle

I believe it.

I also read that babies can die without touch.

In regards to cuddling midday under a tree...eh its a bit much when I see it but probably because I never met someone who id cuddle I public in the midday with.

If you're cuddling after sex then you didn't do it right or it wasn't that good... hot, sweaty, sticky and cuddling just don't mix!

awwwww i

I love it, and realize I can probably cuddle all day. its new to me though, so now I often wonder if the feelings I have cuddling with him is just for him, or if it feels the same in every guy your into arms? not sure if that made sense lol.

Cuddling makes me feel safe. That protective arm does wonders.

Posted by DMV
Cuddling makes me feel safe. That protective arm does wonders.

😉