Posted by Moonbutter5 going on 6 months we've been dealing, but see I'm not asking him to be decisive about what we are immediately, but I'm not about to just be doing relationship shit with someone who isn't going to claim me. Fuck that.
It depends how long you guys been together? I dated one guy who said he didn't believe in it but after a few months he started calling me GF... On the other hand there's a guy I know seeing a girl and he flirts with me cuz he says they have no label...?
Posted by Cg2016Have you guys met each other's family and friends? I mean how does he introduce you to others?Posted by Moonbutter5 going on 6 months we've been dealing, but see I'm not asking him to be decisive about what we are immediately, but I'm not about to just be doing relationship shit with someone who isn't going to claim me. Fuck that.
It depends how long you guys been together? I dated one guy who said he didn't believe in it but after a few months he started calling me GF... On the other hand there's a guy I know seeing a girl and he flirts with me cuz he says they have no label...?click to expand
Posted by MoonbutterI've met some of his. His parents don't live in the country. Mine live in another state...Posted by Cg2016Have you guys met each other's family and friends? I mean how does he introduce you to others?Posted by Moonbutter5 going on 6 months we've been dealing, but see I'm not asking him to be decisive about what we are immediately, but I'm not about to just be doing relationship shit with someone who isn't going to claim me. Fuck that.
It depends how long you guys been together? I dated one guy who said he didn't believe in it but after a few months he started calling me GF... On the other hand there's a guy I know seeing a girl and he flirts with me cuz he says they have no label...?click to expand
Posted by Cg2016And he says this is crystal lol...Posted by MoonbutterI've met some of his. His parents don't live in the country. Mine live in another state...Posted by Cg2016Have you guys met each other's family and friends? I mean how does he introduce you to others?Posted by Moonbutter5 going on 6 months we've been dealing, but see I'm not asking him to be decisive about what we are immediately, but I'm not about to just be doing relationship shit with someone who isn't going to claim me. Fuck that.
It depends how long you guys been together? I dated one guy who said he didn't believe in it but after a few months he started calling me GF... On the other hand there's a guy I know seeing a girl and he flirts with me cuz he says they have no label...?
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Posted by Cg2016You see a future with him? You guys ever talk about what u want?Posted by Cg2016And he says this is crystal lol...Posted by MoonbutterI've met some of his. His parents don't live in the country. Mine live in another state...Posted by Cg2016Have you guys met each other's family and friends? I mean how does he introduce you to others?Posted by Moonbutter5 going on 6 months we've been dealing, but see I'm not asking him to be decisive about what we are immediately, but I'm not about to just be doing relationship shit with someone who isn't going to claim me. Fuck that.
It depends how long you guys been together? I dated one guy who said he didn't believe in it but after a few months he started calling me GF... On the other hand there's a guy I know seeing a girl and he flirts with me cuz he says they have no label...?
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Posted by MoonbutterMhmm girl we just had an entire argument about it. He's an Aries btw. But I feel like he doesn't want me to leave him however he doesn't want to call me his girlfriend however he says we're in a relationship and godforbid I say we're not. But even still idk if that means we're exclusive... idk wtf the shit means. I told him if I can't have a title ever then ima move tf on. We both hung up mad.Posted by Cg2016You see a future with him? You guys ever talk about what u want?Posted by Cg2016And he says this is crystal lol...Posted by MoonbutterI've met some of his. His parents don't live in the country. Mine live in another state...Posted by Cg2016Have you guys met each other's family and friends? I mean how does he introduce you to others?Posted by Moonbutter5 going on 6 months we've been dealing, but see I'm not asking him to be decisive about what we are immediately, but I'm not about to just be doing relationship shit with someone who isn't going to claim me. Fuck that.
It depends how long you guys been together? I dated one guy who said he didn't believe in it but after a few months he started calling me GF... On the other hand there's a guy I know seeing a girl and he flirts with me cuz he says they have no label...?
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Posted by Cg2016I see... Well I think you did the right thing. Ball is in his court and what he decides may alter the course of your relationship. Or, maybe nothing drastic will change right away but I have to wonder why he is so against it.Posted by MoonbutterMhmm girl we just had an entire argument about it. He's an Aries btw. But I feel like he doesn't want me to leave him however he doesn't want to call me his girlfriend however he says we're in a relationship and godforbid I say we're not. But even still idk if that means we're exclusive... idk wtf the shit means. I told him if I can't have a title ever then ima move tf on. We both hung up mad.Posted by Cg2016You see a future with him? You guys ever talk about what u want?Posted by Cg2016And he says this is crystal lol...Posted by MoonbutterI've met some of his. His parents don't live in the country. Mine live in another state...Posted by Cg2016Have you guys met each other's family and friends? I mean how does he introduce you to others?Posted by Moonbutter5 going on 6 months we've been dealing, but see I'm not asking him to be decisive about what we are immediately, but I'm not about to just be doing relationship shit with someone who isn't going to claim me. Fuck that.
It depends how long you guys been together? I dated one guy who said he didn't believe in it but after a few months he started calling me GF... On the other hand there's a guy I know seeing a girl and he flirts with me cuz he says they have no label...?
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Posted by tizianiWhat do you mean by "and you only lose intimacy?"Posted by Cg2016I agree with him. I've done the "girlfriend" thing to death, it means nothing anymore. And you only lose intimacy.
Do you believe in the boyfriend and girlfriend titles when in a relationship? Why? Or why not? My guy thing says we're in a relationship but he doesn't like titles. I don't like it because I feel like that leaves it open to invite others in. I feel like a title presents respect? Hell he calls his friends "friends" lol. So what am I? He says he thinks titles are childish, but I think he's being childish. But I could be wrong. Help.click to expand
Posted by MoonbutterIs my point. All he said was what he sees in todays world with having titles and it's childish and idk to me all that shit aint got shit to do with me. I told him idgaf about today's world I'm talking about me here lol. Like I'm going to feel like I deserve to be claimed at some point and that's what I'll want. So if he can't give me that then I feel like it's time to go...but maybe I'm old school.Posted by Cg2016I see... Well I think you did the right thing. Ball is in his court and what he decides may alter the course of your relationship. Or, maybe nothing drastic will change right away but I have to wonder why he is so against it.Posted by MoonbutterMhmm girl we just had an entire argument about it. He's an Aries btw. But I feel like he doesn't want me to leave him however he doesn't want to call me his girlfriend however he says we're in a relationship and godforbid I say we're not. But even still idk if that means we're exclusive... idk wtf the shit means. I told him if I can't have a title ever then ima move tf on. We both hung up mad.Posted by Cg2016You see a future with him? You guys ever talk about what u want?Posted by Cg2016And he says this is crystal lol...Posted by MoonbutterI've met some of his. His parents don't live in the country. Mine live in another state...Posted by Cg2016Have you guys met each other's family and friends? I mean how does he introduce you to others?Posted by Moonbutter5 going on 6 months we've been dealing, but see I'm not asking him to be decisive about what we are immediately, but I'm not about to just be doing relationship shit with someone who isn't going to claim me. Fuck that.
It depends how long you guys been together? I dated one guy who said he didn't believe in it but after a few months he started calling me GF... On the other hand there's a guy I know seeing a girl and he flirts with me cuz he says they have no label...?
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Posted by yupvirgoo24 *rolls eyes*
He's such a dumbasss.
How old is he?
Posted by SeraphlightLmaooo I'm saying right?
How does he feel about calling you his ex girlfriend?
Posted by SeraphlightGood point!
I have noticed that ...those that don't call women the girlfriend still call them the ex girlfriend. Weird. lol
Posted by Cg2016I accept whatever she tells me we're in. I try not to make a fuss...or noise...or breathe...
Do you believe in the boyfriend and girlfriend titles when in a relationship? Why? Or why not? My guy thing says we're in a relationship but he doesn't like titles. I don't like it because I feel like that leaves it open to invite others in. I feel like a title presents respect? Hell he calls his friends "friends" lol. So what am I? He says he thinks titles are childish, but I think he's being childish. But I could be wrong. Help.
Posted by yupvirgooWomen always see themselves as the victims huh...we're the hostages in this situation ?Posted by bricklemarklol yupPosted by Cg2016I accept whatever she tells me we're in. I try not to make a fuss...or noise...or breathe...
Do you believe in the boyfriend and girlfriend titles when in a relationship? Why? Or why not? My guy thing says we're in a relationship but he doesn't like titles. I don't like it because I feel like that leaves it open to invite others in. I feel like a title presents respect? Hell he calls his friends "friends" lol. So what am I? He says he thinks titles are childish, but I think he's being childish. But I could be wrong. Help.click to expand
Posted by Cg2016Titles define things.
Do you believe in the boyfriend and girlfriend titles when in a relationship? Why? Or why not? My guy thing says we're in a relationship but he doesn't like titles. I don't like it because I feel like that leaves it open to invite others in. I feel like a title presents respect? Hell he calls his friends "friends" lol. So what am I? He says he thinks titles are childish, but I think he's being childish. But I could be wrong. Help.
Posted by bricklemarkNah. I just wanna know what's this all about.Posted by yupvirgooWomen always see themselves as the victims huh...we're the hostages in this situation ?Posted by bricklemarklol yupPosted by Cg2016I accept whatever she tells me we're in. I try not to make a fuss...or noise...or breathe...
Do you believe in the boyfriend and girlfriend titles when in a relationship? Why? Or why not? My guy thing says we're in a relationship but he doesn't like titles. I don't like it because I feel like that leaves it open to invite others in. I feel like a title presents respect? Hell he calls his friends "friends" lol. So what am I? He says he thinks titles are childish, but I think he's being childish. But I could be wrong. Help.click to expand
Posted by Cg2016Posted by bricklemarkNah. I just wanna know what's this all about.Posted by yupvirgooWomen always see themselves as the victims huh...we're the hostages in this situation ?Posted by bricklemarklol yupPosted by Cg2016I accept whatever she tells me we're in. I try not to make a fuss...or noise...or breathe...
Do you believe in the boyfriend and girlfriend titles when in a relationship? Why? Or why not? My guy thing says we're in a relationship but he doesn't like titles. I don't like it because I feel like that leaves it open to invite others in. I feel like a title presents respect? Hell he calls his friends "friends" lol. So what am I? He says he thinks titles are childish, but I think he's being childish. But I could be wrong. Help.
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Posted by SsupermanI don't think that's his point here lmao
Once labels are given, people become comfortable and complacent.
Posted by Cg2016Ok, I'll simplify for you.Posted by SsupermanI don't think that's his point here lmao
Once labels are given, people become comfortable and complacent.click to expand
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