First date with Pisces man - What to wear.

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AnonIza
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So I am a capricorn woman, and i've been talking to a picses man for about a week or so now, and I'm starting to like him. So I asked him out (No surprise that i had to take the first move 😛 ).

We are going out for coffee next week, but i have no idea on what to wear.. I don't know if i should go with jeans or a dress or is that too much.. Idk. But I want to impress him 🙂.. Any ideas?
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I agree.

If you are going to be this manipulative over a cup of coffee than you must be hell trying to date.
It's hardly manipulation, P-Angel.
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That's exactly what it is.

She is going to wear certain clothes, with intentions of having a certain outcome.

That's manipulating the situation.

You must also be a manipulator, since you are incapable of recognizing it.
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How is it manipulation?

This question has been asked a zillion times

We've all asked our chickie friends for advice on what to wear for first dates/Special events- etc

OP have you checked to see what the weather will be?

It's hot here- So i'd suggest...shorts/keds(tennis shoes) a tank/or cami- with NO words! :p

Maybe bring a cardigan if it gets cold/windy

I def wouldn't do a dress or anything fancy smancy- it's just coffee

Simplistic/Cute/Casual

GL on your date op! 😄
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Posted by P-Angel
Posted by LillyPetal
Posted by P-Angel
I agree.

If you are going to be this manipulative over a cup of coffee than you must be hell trying to date.
It's hardly manipulation, P-Angel.


That's exactly what it is.

She is going to wear certain clothes, with intentions of having a certain outcome.

That's manipulating the situation.

You must also be a manipulator, since you are incapable of recognizing it.
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Your words are emotionally manipulative because you're insinuating that if I don't agree with you that that, somehow, makes me manipulative.
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Posted by LillyPetal
Posted by P-Angel
Posted by LillyPetal
Posted by P-Angel
I agree.

If you are going to be this manipulative over a cup of coffee than you must be hell trying to date.
It's hardly manipulation, P-Angel.


That's exactly what it is.

She is going to wear certain clothes, with intentions of having a certain outcome.

That's manipulating the situation.

You must also be a manipulator, since you are incapable of recognizing it.
Your words are emotionally manipulative because you're insinuating that if I don't agree with you that that, somehow, makes me manipulative.

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My words don't insinuate that at all. Here, let me explain to you then ...



My words are saying that if you cannot see how trying to make false impressions of people are wrong, then obviously you would also do it and not realize it is in error.

If you meet someone, and everytime you see this person you are in your style , your fashion, you are being your natural self, and this natural self is what has gotten the attention of someone else.

And they looked at you, and they liked that this is who you are.



Then one day you show up with an outfit on, a different way of presenting yourself ... you will then look false, you will look deceptive .. you've changed.



This will stick out to the Fish like sore thumb, and the Fish will recognize that you're faking it, you're not being you. And the Fish will also realize that the only intention you could possibly have to not be you is because you want something, you're looking to change the parameters.



You are attempting to manipulate ... and again, whether your little feelings can handle it or not, I don't give a rats ass, but, again ... if you are incapable of recognizing that, then you are also a manipulator, because an honest person would recognize that this is a ploy that has an ulterior motive



You are more than welcome to back and cry some more.