fixing to return?

my virgo ex and I broke up a little over a month ago. We would of been together a yr by now. Broke up a month short...anyway, this entire time, he's been the one to text me. I haven't been responding until last week when said he still loves me. However, when I tried to talk to him about it, it's almost as if he was hesitant. So I told him to just leave it as it was. I guess my question is if he's fixing to come back, or is he just checking if I'm still there to stroke his ego?

Ego stroke? Is that a joke?


According to you, you broke up with him because he was too boring for you, and you said that he didn't have the courage to break up with you, so you did it.

Then he argued with you because he didn't want to break up, which means = he wasn't a coward for not breaking up with you, he just didn't realize that you didn't want to be with himm and probably didn't realize you already had him in ex-category, like the Leo.


He's contacting you now because he still doesn't want to break up with you. It has nothign to do with his ego.


I would suggest you come down off your high-horse and give him closure.

You say he's been texting you the whole time ... well yeah, because you just decided one day you were finished with him, and blind-sided him.


Now you insinutate that because of his ego, he must want to run back to you .... I hate it when Scorpio women play with men like that. The ego boost is actually for attention whorish ways ... because you never gave him closure, so naturally he's going to keep texting you trying to understand what the hell is going on.


Fucking bitch

Posted by P-Angel
You say he's been texting you the whole time ... well yeah, because you just decided one day you were finished with him, and blind-sided him.


Now you insinutate that because of his ego, he must want to run back to you .... I hate it when Scorpio women play with men like that. The ego boost is actually for attention whorish ways ... because you never gave him closure, so naturally he's going to keep texting you trying to understand what the hell is going on.


Fucking bitch

Ya I mean it just sounds like you don't like him at all.....

@ pangel... Ok so I did say that stuff but we had JUST broken up and he was the one that said 'things weren't working out' but couldn't bring himself to break it off officiall. I did try... I told him I did want to work things out last week when he text me that he still loved me. I said I loved him back. He just never replied. And I've heard from him once a week... 75% of them were at 2 am... Do those really constitute as him trying...??

I'm sorry... I made a mistake. 😢 I just thought this is what HE wanted. I even told him a week later I didn't want this. He said he wanted to be able to go out and have fun and not feel bad. Exact words... Verbatim. I didn't give him a hard time when he would go out... I do miss him. I've given him his space... I made a mistake and I don't know how to fix it. Now I don't know if I'm too late or if it's even repairable.

and just so you know... That's the second time I've told him how much I miss him and love him and he won't respond to what I've said. :/

and just so you know... That's the second time I've told him how much I miss him and love him and he won't respond to what I've said. :/

crap. Now I feel like you're right. What if I did jump the gun... I was just going by how he was acting.... I'm confused.

Posted by sweetscorpio84
@ pangel... Ok so I did say that stuff but we had JUST broken up and he was the one that said 'things weren't working out' but couldn't bring himself to break it off officiall. I did try... I told him I did want to work things out last week when he text me that he still loved me. I said I loved him back. He just never replied. And I've heard from him once a week... 75% of them were at 2 am... Do those really constitute as him trying...??

I'm sorry... I made a mistake. 😢 I just thought this is what HE wanted. I even told him a week later I didn't want this. He said he wanted to be able to go out and have fun and not feel bad. Exact words... Verbatim. I didn't give him a hard time when he would go out... I do miss him. I've given him his space... I made a mistake and I don't know how to fix it. Now I don't know if I'm too late or if it's even repairable.

Whenever I hear " This isn't working out" I usually think uh oh, the next thing that is going to come out is " We are over"

So I'd usually say something like okay fine bye!

Who wants to be dumped? Hurts alot. Mine as well prattle on.

But I also I am not sure on how much men ever really want to " Work on things" anyway. Like I think when they think it isn't working anymore, than they just think it isn't working anymore.

They just want to go. I don't know. It's confusing.

@sag... That's what I thought when he said 'its not working out.' if that's the case, why send the 'i still love you texts' and all the other one's? It is confusing. 😢

Posted by sweetscorpio84

Do those really constitute as him trying...??

I just thought this is what HE wanted.

I even told him a week later I didn't want this.

He said he wanted to be able to go out and have fun and not feel bad.

I didn't give him a hard time when he would go out... I do miss him.

I made a mistake and I don't know how to fix it.

Women, for the most part, would do anything for a man. I laugh at the thread asking women if they would stay with a man who cheated. One only has to look the stories women post in here to see that women will do anything for a man ... anything.

Even try to accommodate one she doesn't even like.

You want to fix something you don't want because you thought it was what he wanted.


::: sighs :::


A woman would even hurt herself for a man, would even lower her own sense of self-worth for a man.

You know, we hear stories all the time about how women get caught in love to where they feel so desperately for this guy who led her on and captured her heart, and she feels so helplessly in love and alls she can do is hope like hell that one day he will grant her her wish of him loving her. Those may not be her words, but, that is what she is implying.


When I'd bet you that even from day one, he was giving her signals that he wasn't into her, but, she so desperately wantst to be loved that she would take his crumbs and delude herself into believing otherwise.


You two broke up for a reason. Do you honestly think that he has suddenly changed and now he fits the man you have idealized in your head as being the man you want ??