"How 'less of a person' was derived from 'you're 18' is still beyond me but Calthorpe's just hit the point I was trying to make with i'd advise you to keep your cool, get on with what you have to do and keep a friendly manner with him at all times, even when you're hitched."
People just seem not to listen after they find i'm "ONLY" 18. I don't use astrology to guide how I act toward him or anyone for that matter. I use it to further understand. I use that and psychology as well.
ooookay. the only reason all of them relate to this guy is because that's why/how I came across this website, and that is the only reason I got an account. I primarily use other websites for message boards.
I have realized too, that when they become aloof and distant that probably means that they have feelings towards you and might be confused by them. I have learned that my aqua does this when he is stuggling with wanting his own independence but doesn't know how to express it to me. You have to be quite independent and confident in yourself to be with this type of person, and like to have your own life and passions. I understand now that I like the challenge. Coupled with the intellectual conversation and physical chemistry, there can be a real spark if you know how to bring out a little bit more feeling and emotion from an aqua, little by little, over time. It does take a cup of understanding, a barrel of love and an ocean of patience. One thing I have been keen to are his patterns. If you are really intuitive, you can pick up on when he's lonely, when he genuinely wants to be with you, when he's totally into you, and when he needs his space. They are extremely communicative, just not emotional. Love the intellect and physical connection though -- a powerful combination for me.