Hi everyone.. Need some help. I have been seeing my allergist for past 2 yrs... We are mid age, he is Aries and I a Taurus woman. With my first visit I noticed the stares but he kept it cool and professional. I seen him later down the road at a grocery store and stopped what he was doing and he took a double take and stared and I pretended not to notice him. Well fast forward... About 6 months ago I have had to go more often and he would stare,brush against my hand at times and then he sort of reached for my finger and my reaction was move my hand quick... I just played it off... He was upset from that day on...about a month or two..when I finally came back in.. He said in front of his patients in waiting room this my gf?!? I was shocked,didn't expect it and had no expression and pretended I didn't hear...his face got serious and went into room. By now I feel as if I am liking him? He knows nothing of that. He soon started to treat me hot/cold,sarcastic and no convo but I just play along and get to the point of my visit then he walks out...then when I don't go in and he sees me he will by me and stare at me and what I have on... Even would look at my nails? But I found out he has a gf ?!? I can't see another doc bc next one is 2 hrs away... I feel as if I am in a relationship or grammar school... Never met a Aries before help!!!
Help! Confused by Aries doc

1. He has a gf
2. Would you want a man that openly flirts with another woman while in a committed relationship?
3. It's just one big game for him, he has an ego, you bruised it and he wants validation. He isnt into you per say but the validation, the knowledge that he could "have you" if he wanted.
2. Would you want a man that openly flirts with another woman while in a committed relationship?
3. It's just one big game for him, he has an ego, you bruised it and he wants validation. He isnt into you per say but the validation, the knowledge that he could "have you" if he wanted.
@malloyor ...No def not ..I just found out about the gf and I know crush will pass..would do nothing ...but just puzzled by this when I never let on to anything...was just a patient...

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@malloyor ...No def not ..I just found out about the gf and I know crush will pass..would do nothing ...but just puzzled by this when I never let on to anything...was just a patient...
Does there have to be a reason for why someome finds another attractive?
Don't overthink it. I think you want it to be more than it is. It's just an ego. He sounds like a royal douche to be honest, and very unprofessional.

I've had that happen to me to with an Aries. It's fucked up. They can play wonder if you should play and move on to one that doesn't have a gf.
I swear he introduced me to his friend out loud and said the same thing. In front of people. I looked and said wtf too. Lmao. It's cool you are new object for now. You will get over him he isn't compatible for Taurus.
I swear he introduced me to his friend out loud and said the same thing. In front of people. I looked and said wtf too. Lmao. It's cool you are new object for now. You will get over him he isn't compatible for Taurus.

So she saying drive 2 hours away the hell from him.

omg, lol
The "stares" from your doctor are nothing more than observation of you as a patient to assist in a diagnosis.
The "stares" from your doctor are nothing more than observation of you as a patient to assist in a diagnosis.
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