How does pluto feel in synastry?

I have sun conjunct pluto nattily
And my venus conjunct his pluto
My moon trine his pluto
I am pretty obsessed, was wondering is pluto obsessed too..
Or is he just a player..
What does it mean this is a soul, deep relationship. Does pluto feel like that too...

Yes he is trying to play cool, he knows how to upset me, I think he quietly knows how to drive me crazy about him. Uhh!!

Awww! I don't want him hurt, why can't it be done peacefully. On my part the intensity is too much, hard for me to handle I don't know about him.

Impulsv are you pluto, is it with venus?

There is not much about pluto, it's what pluto does to you. What about pluto.
Do they go through transformation?
Or do they feel the intensity?

Hmmm!

We have:

My Pluto squares his Venus (as part of a grand square/ cross!)
My Pluto squares his Sun (as part of a grand square/ cross!)
My Pluto trines his Mercury
My Pluto conjuncts his North node

My Pluto does not aspect any of my personal planets.

His Pluto opposes my Sun
His Pluto opposes my Moon
His Pluto squares my ascendant

His Pluto aspects all planets in his chart, except those aspected by my Pluto.

Our 18 months relationship is quite pleasant. He is treating me very well and meeting me regularly as planned, so what I would obsess about? I reciprocate. I would most likely undergo "the transformation", if I choose to move in with him.

If Pluto is all about change, here is a glimpse of would happen to me: "stepmother to two teenager", "change my workplace", "become more organized", "wake up earlier", —go to bed earlier??, "eat more pies", "get fitter", "learn to dance salsa", "learn Spanish", "invest in shares instead of buying clothes", "learn to ride faster", "keep up with all the popular news in science and economy", "learn UK history", " learn gardening", etc.

No idea how he will change, I'm quite easy going. The only thing I would ask him is to get rid of the junk in his dinning room and refurbish it to its former glory. Spend more time in the nature, apart from cycling and running. Eat more greens. Cook more diverse foods for your boys, even if they protest initially. Lol, I'm speaking like a Taurus, and I'm not even hungry 🙂!

Awwww! I think about the same, I don't want to hurt him but at the same time I want him to be obsessed wih me.
I am intimidated by him, although he is a petite guy, other wise not my type, but now I am deeply in love with him,But very scared.
We get very nervous around each other, I know I have fear of hurting or losing him, and I am obsessed, just wondered how he felt.
Does he feel entertained by my nerveousness for him, or does he get butterflies too.

And yes I keep going back, not an obvious move, and I have lost a a lot of weight..

Undine!
very interesting. I have made almost all those changes in my life to impress him. I don't how he has changed, but I see him dresse better now..

Speaking about dressing..... Last time he informed me that he is giving all his wardrobe content to charity and goes on a buying spree 🙂

He also straighten his teeth recently...hmmm...and made a lot of new Facebook friends!

Haha, good job my Aqua Venus doesn't get jealous easily or consistently!

Yes a lot, a lot, that's the problem and the fear. Because I push him away or ignore him he might get fed up. I would die if that happens

My soul is gonna die if he hates me ever for Putin him through this.
May be loveing me is not easy
My sun conjuncts my pluto, does that help or not.

He never made me nervous, just a bit unsettled by his diverse hobbies...

I haven't seen him nervous...except for the first time we slept together.

He seems quite in control, and likes to be in control of himself, but it may be due to his Capricorn rising. He doesn't try to control me.

Funnily, we both have a temper (I know his only from his stories) not surprisingly, since be are both Aries Mars...However we are quite naturally gentle with each others and never felt the need to argue, only to debate.