How to save friend from a Sagittarius obsessed with him?

This topic was created in the Relationships & Astrology forum by deckedandecker on Saturday, July 24, 2021 and has 14 replies.

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@deckedandecker
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One of my friends is a Leo and he matched with this one woman on a dating app, a Sagittarius in her late thirties. Now my friend is in his mid-twenties and things were going smoothly to where they were being strictly casual, sex itself. Lately, he says that the woman has taken over every aspect of his life, slowly but she has almost possed him.

He told us he could not come out last week because after he was done screwing her, she kept him on the bed with her and all sweaty and naked. When I caught up with him for drinks during the weekday, he says that she is sexually obsessed to where she does not even go home on weekends, just sleeps around naked with him. Says some days he shoots blanks because she has sucked him so dry.

Now she shows up whenever we want to hang out with him and has even told us that we need to "back off" because he is hers. Friend says that he cannot move and she gives him no space, pushing in on all areas of his life and even getting into a habit of turning his apartment into a nudist colony because they just walk around and do everything naked.

He says he wants to leave but she has a lot of dirt on him.

How do I save my friend?

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@Lostthoughts
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Your post sounds like a 19 year old bragging about his friend's sex life.

Sorry not sorry but I don't believe your friend is totally against this.

If she is going too far for him then HE needs to talk about it.

Don't drag this out by just holding it in. The longer it goes on the harder it will be change and chance of passive-aggressive shenanigans and hard feelings.

HE can talk to her about it. Discuss needing to have time with friends and etc..

You know a adult conversation!...

If they can hash it out great 👌

Otherwise let her go...as in stop sleeping with her lol. Guarantee there is someone out there who would appreciate this more then your friend lol

Sounds like he is just making excuses to you guys. Oh ya mostly likely she wasn't be nefarious with saying " he is mine" probably making a joke about the situation at your expense🙃

Seriously though, a relationship were most of the QUALITY TIME is on the WEEKEND were you have sex multiple times, lay around Naked in bed and walk around the house naked?

Add in a House by the beach, cabin by the lake, or in the mountains, and you literally have most 30+ MENS fantasy.

Do they go out to eat, take long walks at night, go to vacation spots, and watch movies with popcorn and a bottle of wine too—

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@DMV
15 Years25,000+ PostsSagittarius

Posted by deckedandecker

One of my friends is a Leo and he matched with this one woman on a dating app, a Sagittarius in her late thirties. Now my friend is in his mid-twenties and things were going smoothly to where they were being strictly casual, sex itself. Lately, he says that the woman has taken over every aspect of his life, slowly but she has almost possed him.

He told us he could not come out last week because after he was done screwing her, she kept him on the bed with her and all sweaty and naked. When I caught up with him for drinks during the weekday, he says that she is sexually obsessed to where she does not even go home on weekends, just sleeps around naked with him. Says some days he shoots blanks because she has sucked him so dry.

Now she shows up whenever we want to hang out with him and has even told us that we need to "back off" because he is hers. Friend says that he cannot move and she gives him no space, pushing in on all areas of his life and even getting into a habit of turning his apartment into a nudist colony because they just walk around and do everything naked.

He says he wants to leave but she has a lot of dirt on him.

How do I save my friend?

She said what she said.

Back Off!

Why would we save your friend from erections and orgasms?

So he can go to a sausage party with you?

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@Lostthoughts
6 Years1,000+ Posts

"He told us he could not come out last week because after he was done screwing her, she kept him on the bed with her and all sweaty and naked. When I caught up with him for drinks during the weekday, he says that she is sexually obsessed to where she does not even go home on weekends, just sleeps around naked with him. Says some days he shoots blanks because she has sucked him so dry. "

Oh ya, pretty sure he is the one getting screwed not the the other way around.

Don't worry your friend will make time for you and his friends if he really wants, when he wants too.

Something similar happens with or without the fantasy scenario when you get into a serious relationship. You have to learn to balance your relationship and social life.

Seriously dude. When you get older you will appreciate those days with someone you can relax and act like that.

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@CuddleBug1288
14 Years1,000+ PostsSagittarius

This 'friend' needs to be an adult and tell this chick he's not into anything more than casual sex - if she can't handle that then he needs to tell her peace out.

You're just sticking your nose in their business, he can figure it the F out if he really wanted to. He could call the authorities if she's truly like, unhinged.

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@virgoking
17 Years1,000+ PostsVirgo

Posted by deckedandecker

One of my friends is a Leo and he matched with this one woman on a dating app, a Sagittarius in her late thirties. Now my friend is in his mid-twenties and things were going smoothly to where they were being strictly casual, sex itself. Lately, he says that the woman has taken over every aspect of his life, slowly but she has almost possed him.

He told us he could not come out last week because after he was done screwing her, she kept him on the bed with her and all sweaty and naked. When I caught up with him for drinks during the weekday, he says that she is sexually obsessed to where she does not even go home on weekends, just sleeps around naked with him. Says some days he shoots blanks because she has sucked him so dry.

Now she shows up whenever we want to hang out with him and has even told us that we need to "back off" because he is hers. Friend says that he cannot move and she gives him no space, pushing in on all areas of his life and even getting into a habit of turning his apartment into a nudist colony because they just walk around and do everything naked.

He says he wants to leave but she has a lot of dirt on him.

How do I save my friend?

it's over that's how sag women are. They control you with sex fuck you until you are shooting blanks. You want to leave but then you remember other women are not as freaky as her. And you stuck in the trap. He is done my friend only god can save him.