How to snag Mr. Virgo?

I need some advice,

So I am a Leo lady, and began dating a Virgo man about 6 weeks ago. However, we don't really have the best timing. Since we began dating he's gone on several trips out of town, both for work and fun. He even invited me to drive up to one of his local trips, about an hr away for a night. I went, and we had a great time! He contacts me every day, usually by call/text. He's also invited me over to his house to watch a movie (he still lives at home), so I met his mom already. In addition, I've met his friends, and they loved me. Things seem to be going great. He talks to me every day. It definitely seems like he is interested.

But I have noticed doesn't express his feelings as openly as I do. Getting so much as a simple compliment out of this guy is like pulling teeth! When we are out together he seems more open though, he shares a lot from his past. He is officially done with all his traveling for now. Should I just wait to see if things pick up now that he's back? I just want to see him on a more regular basis, and I hope he wants the same thing. Also, do Virgo guys have a hard time committing to an exclusive relationship? When I asked him what he's looking for, he replied, "Basically a girl who can be my future wife. I want to meet the right girl for me now, date her a while, then marriage." Judging by that statement, it's obvious he isn't looking for something casual. Any advice on what I can do/say?

Thanks All!

Hi,

I met 3 Virgo guys and they all were different. I think that you should wait and let him make the moves to the next level. Virgo guys do not like drama, they like women that are secure of themselves, smart and easy to deal with. They like to be friends and lovers - not just lovers. they need to feel you more like a friend outside the bedroom - inside the bedroom is a different story 🙂.
I am a cancer woman and I made a lot of drama with my last Virgo even if I didn't want to make all that drama - but he didn't understand why do I need to know more or why did I want to take the relation to the next level - the fact is that I lost him because of all the drama and now I regret it. Don't make the same mistakes - read between the lines and go with your gut 🙂.

Still living at home. How old is your Virgo?

Doesn't sound mature to me if he's still living with his mama and a lot of mama boys say the exact same thing regarding what they are looking for in a relationship but in all reality they just want another mama.

Being a fire sign I think you'll be too much for the Virgo but you can give it a good try.

Posted by tiki33
Still living at home. How old is your Virgo?

Doesn't sound mature to me if he's still living with his mama and a lot of mama boys say the exact same thing regarding what they are looking for in a relationship but in all reality they just want another mama.

Being a fire sign I think you'll be too much for the Virgo but you can give it a good try.

While maturity is always something to be concerned about I think its also important to consider the background/culture of the subject. Not every man who lives at home with parents wants a mama.

If he's over the age of 21, he's content with his mama being all up in his life, cooking, cleaning, doing the laundry or he'd been out of there as soon as he hit 21. I understand circumstances and background/culture, any man still living at home over the age of 21 is dealing with some issues and can't cope it alone, differences in culture of course I get that but they all have one thing in common, they passively want their women to be mama because he's content with a woman playing that role, some mama's need to cut the damn cord and let her son live. If he doesn't have a plan to move then hes' a mama's boy and that could work as an advantage for her if she can show him she can take up were his mama left off.

If you want to know how to win his heart, observe everything that's important to him and mimic those qualities, this can't be all that hard to do.

I must disagree with the suggestion to mimic the qualities important to him if she must change herself to do so. Down the road she may slowly revert back to her real self, just as everyone does after their best, pretty foot has been set. It might get ugly.

Yep I said and suggested that and I stand by what I said, many women do it and have done it, of course there are consequences but she's a grown woman, she can deal with that if need to, if she want to know how to snag her Virgo then it won't hurt if she added some of those qualities that he find endearing to her behavior, she asked and I suggested, of course I don't recommend changing her whole self but it won't hurt her to add some positive qualities that a man like him will find attractive, she has to do it in a way that appears authentic and doesn't reek of approval seeking, it's been successfully done, that's part of the game of love, men do it as well, men don't get high powered jobs and buy fancy suits, cars and islands to just hunt and gather, they want females--women motivate men to excel to be what's desirable, I see no difference in her asking than all the countless men that live on pick up artist sights and sights that are dominated by men that want to know how to be more attractive.

She's a leo and leo women typically get the man they want.

I find it really difficult for me accept this way of courtship. I feel theres something terribly wrong.

These kind of questions pop up on DXP all the time, people in real life wonder the same thoughts, it's life, this kind of courtship is going on every day whether we agree with it or not it still exist, she didn't ask to be judged nor did she ask to be talked out of anything, she asked a question and I gave her an answer.

tiki talking out of her ass again when referencing that she "gets" another culture, and then critisizes the cultural life style by proclaiming that it must adhere to the life style of her culture.


What a dipshit

that post is 3 years old

LOL@P I didn't know my ass talked, maybe if you'd get your head out of my ass you wouldn't know that much about me but you know what you can kiss my ass since you know so much about it.