I need help in understanding this

Why does Gem keep texting me making small talk about random stuff but also, not being very direct at all as to why she's back in contact with me or what she wants from me.

She's today asked me this ( how is ypur love life can I ask that 😆)

I replied ( yours is probably better 😉 )

She replied ( So you have one then ? 🤔 )

I replied ( I told you the other day I am concentrating on myself )

She replied ( I'm not bothered about sharing nothing to hide this end )

So where do I start....

Smashed my first blind date out few weeks back all about ticking boxes me.....

Lovely guy, lots of laughs but he wasn't for me, he went as far as holding my hand and I cringed 😄

I swear he was wearing fake tan aswell 🤢.

He wanted a second date said im pretty awesome but was generally nice about me not wanting another.

Had a few people wanting to take me out for food but I freaked and not replied 🙃.

I don't know.... am I just finding faults in everyone. In all honesty I think in just kidding myself on thinking im ready to move on.

Why is she telling me this..... ?

Also, for any of you that do not know I told the Aries we are better off as friends ( my reason is because of the way she's been acting when we are out I.e spitting on the floor while dancing or sitting down letting her skirt come up to her waste her butt and front butt hanging out in front of my family and friends shouting at the top of her voice falling off her chair can barely stand up it's disgusting.

I know this is another post about Gem and its very boring but why does she keep on messaging me if she doesn't want anything from me also, texted me after that message saying she likes "leave your life"

"Love in slow motion" visiting hours" plus the ones I said by Ed sheeran songs .

When I am single and bored, I text some old flames to fuck around a bit. She texts you for the same reason. Plus, say whatever, but good sex is hard to find.

You’re a Flake Magnet. She’s not interested in you without competition.. she values herself too highly to commit to you because you can’t be honest with her or yourself.

Why didn’t you tell her about the Aries? You were secretly hoping she would do her psycho pop up Hoover and here you are entering into another cycle of chronic time wastage.

Posted by GammaArietis

You never told her about the Aries so you can lie and say you didn’t date anyone while you were broken up. And you’re lying to her by saying you’re concentrating on yourself because the Aries was just in your bed last week. So you’re a liar. I’m beginning to think you’re the manipulative one

I told the Gem I have been on a date and had other offers I came clean and just replied to her message to say I have also been on a date.

🤦‍♂️

She may not think you’re good looking enough..Geminis always punch above their weight.

Ugh.. round and round we go on the merry go round 😂🙃

Posted by Centaur12

Why does Gem keep texting me making small talk about random stuff but also, not being very direct at all as to why she's back in contact with me or what she wants from me.

She's today asked me this ( how is ypur love life can I ask that 😆)

I replied ( yours is probably better 😉 )

She replied ( So you have one then ? 🤔 )

I replied ( I told you the other day I am concentrating on myself )

She replied ( I'm not bothered about sharing nothing to hide this end )

So where do I start....

Smashed my first blind date out few weeks back all about ticking boxes me.....

Lovely guy, lots of laughs but he wasn't for me, he went as far as holding my hand and I cringed 😄

I swear he was wearing fake tan aswell 🤢.

He wanted a second date said im pretty awesome but was generally nice about me not wanting another.

Had a few people wanting to take me out for food but I freaked and not replied 🙃.

I don't know.... am I just finding faults in everyone. In all honesty I think in just kidding myself on thinking im ready to move on.

Why is she telling me this..... ?

Answer this… Tell us, Why do you think she is telling you this….?

She's now told me she wants a relationship with me to start fresh lol I'm not sure how I feel about this tbh .

Posted by Hypnotoad

I suggest you keep a bottle of hotsauce nearby at all times.

😆 Why ?

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Posted by Centaur12

Posted by Hypnotoad

I suggest you keep a bottle of hotsauce nearby at all times.

😆 Why ?

Google drake hotsauce and you'll understand.

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Oh Dam 🤣😅

does it hurt to be this stupid, @Centaur12 ?

This dude is really considering a relationship with a female who shows no love to his daughters, who plays with his emotions, and has him on a yo-yo string...Tell me Centaur 12, Do you think you have won?

I give up....if this is what you are aiming for, go for it!

After all, I'm the product of a similarly stressful, drama-filled relationship which lasted till "death do us part", a few months ago. I never worked out why my father stayed in it... My latest hypothesis is that he might have come to suffer from Stockholm syndrome! Oh, and us girls ended up fine, only a bit real life drama-adverse...

On a side note, my parents were very fixed (triple fixed) and you two are mutable...for you, "till death do us part" might translate to "till I cause your death, so I could finally escape".

Posted by GammaArietis

Posted by Easha23000us

This dude is really considering a relationship with a female who shows no love to his daughters, who plays with his emotions, and has him on a yo-yo string...Tell me Centaur 12, Do you think you have won?

Don’t forget she is not supportive of him co-parenting his kids with their mom! Doesn’t want OP around his ex or ex to be around his family who his family seems to like more.

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Trust me, if they do reconcile, it will be only a matter of time, before she wants to break up with him again...We all could tell by his online personality that he is missing a few cells in his brain. He cannot even fathom being treated poorly, and still offering himself up to be used some more...I feel sorry for his daughters. Their father is too whipped to put their needs in front of his own, and would place them in a situation to where as they would not be comfortable, just because, he will not do better for himself. That Gemini knows exactly what she is doing. She is only coming forth, cause she senses that he is pulling away a bit.. Once she gets him back tightly into her clutches, she will tire of him, and throw him straight in the trash. But the sad thing is that she won't completely get rid of the trash, she will just store it in a place, where she could reach it, when she has nothing or no one better to do.

I bet that he is showing her all of these posts about her, hoping that she would change... I am taking this way too personal.. Only because he left his Sag ex for this grimy Gem..... This is definitely his karmic cycle.