my Cancer sister has been dating my exes!!

So, in my mind it is generally not right to date your siblings exes, or your exes siblings.. none of that. It's weird and uncomfortable even if I am now happily with someone else.

This is not her first time snagging one of my exes, but this ex of mine that she is now after was someone special to me.. my sister knew this very much. I am happily with someone right now, over a year, but this really rattles me that she would even go there. It's gross. She is sleeping with guys I was once intimate with in romantic ways. I would never do that!

All in all, I know my sister well, and all my life I have been very hesitant to trust her. She managed to really show me why not to trust her. She lied to me for months saying she had met this new guy from out of town and lying about his name. I found out who it was through my current boyfriend. She somehow thought she could share her nasty business to him and tell him to not to tell me. my current boyfriend! Jeez!

So far my Cancer sister has showed me some traits of being very sloppy, sneaky, untrustworthy, unreliable, crazy, promiscuous, selfish and being a crappy sibling.

What is your take on siblings dating your exes or vice versa?

I have a cancer younger sister. She is pretty much on the prudish side for now, but I have deffinitly noticed where she would talk to someone that her friend once dated or liked..... For the most part she is usually stuck on one guy for 100 years LOL so...That's my experience.

Have u ever dated or talked to ne one of her exes? What happened the first time she did it?

Posted by Sagtastic1
I would be FLOORED if I found my sister dated one of my ex??es. I don't care if I said he was the devil himself, within family/friend relationships, that is a —OH Hell NO??! It's such a shame that it is your own sister stabbing you in the back and face for that matter.

A soon as I started to read this, all I could think of was Jealousy, she is picking up your scraps to prove something to herself. Maybe it is that she is just as good as you? I have to question, has there been a history of sibling rivalry?

+ one million

Jealousy aside, there are certain boundaries that should not be crossed. I would not date a friends ex, let alone a siblings. SMH

weird weird weird weird ...and also very weird

if it seemed like they really really liked each other... genuinely... not just some flight of fancy for two people young dumb and full of come ...then they'd have my blessing. why not? i dont own anyone.

as for me... i did once when i was younger, but we approached the mutual friend. she didnt take it so well. that guy and i dated very seriously for a few years, and the two of them didnt actually date. she just liked him. and she totally came down hard on me for it. kinda not cool if you ask me.

if i dated someone and things didnt work out... who am i to step in the way of their happiness or a friends or siblings happiness if they find it in each other?