Pisces -- what turns you on in a relationship?

Hi, and bear with me, it's my first time posting. I'm crazy about a Pisces boy who laid it on really thick and seemed to really like me, then just as he'd managed to get his hooks into my heart swam away. Maybe I simply took too long letting myself like him (this was the first time I'd been at all attracted to someone since my divorce, so yeah, I was a little skittish. Now part of me is wishing I'd stayed skittish!)

So I'm really curious -- what do you find appealing in a partner? Not what's going to get you in bed with someone for one night, but seriously, what qualities do you look for? What things turn you off? Do you prefer being wooed/chased/charmed or left alone till *you* decide you want to pursue? Help a girl out, here! Please?

I'm not a Pisces, but I was two long term relationships with Pisces men. They were VERY similar...or maybe it was me. I was very hard to pin down and I required a lot of space. All I can tell you is that those two were all over me like white on rice ALL the time. They were both bigtime pursuers and very loving and both very giving. Really, they were the nicest guys...very good boyfriends although a little obsessive.

Welcome to the boards...better put on your hardhat. 😄

Sense of humour(with the ability to laugh and be natural!)intelligence and honesty but don't smother me, give me space and you'll have my respect

The Pisces men I dated wanted NO space...at all.

Actually, their desire for no space may have been brought about by my need to have it.

Humans. I'd never break up with a dog.

I'm telling you they both drove past my house all the time and left notes on my car or on my door. Then they'd call to make sure I got the notes. They'd leave me snickers and coke and whatnot. Like I said, it felt like they wanted to be glued to my hip. It may very well have been different if I was different.

But they were sweet as hell...really good, caring guys. I'm still friends with both.

LOL! I'd never break up with a dog, either. Still miss my last one -- fifteen years, eight months, and twelve days of the best canine companionship ever. Shadows, maybe I just simply became too available? I don't know.

humor, intelligence, chasing, space

all those ^^^^^^^ things mentioned don't really matter, by themselves, for themselves



What matters is being real ... if you're really intelligent, if you're really funny ... then that is what matters.


We don't take anything at face value because we cannot even if we wanted to ... we percieve the energy you are projecting so that we can feel the impulses which prompts/movivates you into doing/saying everything .. what that means is = we already know what you are feeling before you even open your mouth.

For this reason, I maintain and always will that a Pisces cannot survive in an LDR .. we HAVE to be there physically ... because we base everything about the relationship on feelings. And I'm not talking about how we feel, like in our emotions ... I'm talking about how YOU feel, because we can sense these things in you. Our intuition is everything to us.


So this all boils down to ...... if you're trying to act smart to make an impression, we know you are faking ..... if you aren't a sensitive person but trying to act like it, we know you are faking .... the only thing you HAVE to do is be real.

Aww, impromptu...thats sweet that you know exactly how many days. I have the names of two of my dogs tattood! Shhh..dont tell anyone!

Nah, id never advocate games. It may appear as if i had a good thing, but they werent happy with me. Alot of guys like a challenge, but youre better off in the long run just being yourself.

So in other words, basically I shouldn't do anything because he already knows how I feel, and if he returned the feeling he'd act on it?

Yeah, it was rough to lose him, Pisces Princess. He was the best companion ever, and I miss him horribly.

What exactly was the last contact you had with him? What did you talk about?

@ impromptu
awww...
as I saw in your other post, you re a fellow gemini 🙂
With all our alleged aloofness and non-committal ways, when sb sneaks his way into our heart,
we turn all lovey-dovey and soft as the next cancerian...

I fully concur with being yourself and not try to put on airs/an act - pisces pick up on moods and feelings
in an uncanny way. I sense that you re quite nervous about the approach and outcome, and thats ok, dont try to 'act' too cool or detached...he's probably perceived your interest already, so dont fake anything - yet it d be better if you dont blurt out your feelings either;
they can be the most romantic/sweet creatures but a. most pisces I know retreat fast whenever they perceive any kind of clinginess/coming on too strong on the other, b. they are not that direct themselves so its ok to make a move yourself but dont overwhelm him, c. he s still a man...hint, show you care, but dont *pursue* yourself...
and if i recall you posting your charts' info, he has mars and venus in aries? feisty right there and more assertive than, say, one with different placements - definitely in his approach to romance...
and btw, with aries there he is a bit impulsive, forward AND looks for excitement/loses interest quickly...(and being a pisces thats hard to catch already, I d say there s no point running after him...but INSPIRE his excitement for you)
you have a sweet cancer venus and a sensual taurus mars - you d feel more at 'home' leaning back most of the time...

*AND his mars, venus fall into your 5th house of romance...nice....no wonder you re smitten 🙂

Oh man, I totally forgot I posted this one! PP, Lilith, and everybody, thanx for your responses. Things are going really slow, if they're going anywhere, and ya know what? If they don't go "anywhere" anywhere as in back into bed, that's okay. It's all good. Simply being fairly comfortable around each other is a good thing. If there's more connection to come, it'll come. I hope so, but we'll see ;p I'll give an update sometime soon!

Posted by Shadows
Actually, their desire for no space may have been brought about by my need to have it.

lmao

Someone who is sexy, honest, witty, confident, intelligent and not an asshole. That about covers it. 🙂