Plutonian relationships really are this awful, made me quit my job!

So I had to work closely with this one woman who had a Pluto-Mars double whammy, within 1 degree orb, with me as well as a Pluto Moon double whammy too. Now we also had a Venus and Mars square at 1 degree, she was the Mars. Thankfully she lived on the other side of the country so I did not have to see her in person but in my year of working with her, it was just so draining. She would intentionally do things to get under my skin at work and it is like she knew exactly what hurt me and went at it. She went out of her way to affect my paycheck and when I called her out on it, she went from the usual bubbly smiley blonde to full on rage like some angry Asgardian.

It was like confrontations, rage, and drama at every turn. Never once a smile out of her towards me even though with everyone else she was super nice. Yet, whenever I tried to change teams or break away, she would rage and shout at me on a Zoom call asking why I am such a team player. I also noticed that whenever she was on a Zoom call with me, it was as if she was holding in her temper with that intense look of a killer in her eyes. Day in and day out, I was just so drained that even when I quit working with her, I had to quit my job because she ruined basically the whole company for me.

I was a walking zombie at work after we stopped working together.

Then, come to find, she posts on her LinkedIn about her being in my city for a client visit and then asks if anyone knows any good spots to eat or check out in my city. I ignore it and then a week later, come to find that she is at the same bar I go to for Happy Hour! I ignore her yet again and look up to see her with that intense look on her face just looking at me but looking away slowly with an angry scowl. Bartender tells me "dude, that woman has been looking in your direction a lot!". I say I know and walk away.

WTF!

Hard Pluto aspects are the 👿

I don't know what the op want from us posting this. I suppose it's ok to vent. I don't understand all that my pluto and her mars or my Mars to her pluto blah blah blah. Sad I will never understand all that. I just know I agree with Spinks that pluto is something people have to work out on their own and not in a relationship.

Having read all that op (which I can't believe I red all those texts) there's only 3 words I got to say. A likely story.

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Posted by MyStarsShine

Hard Pluto aspects are the 👿

Fully agreed. Fuck that nuisance.

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Can be very challenging?

What are your experiences with the planet?

Ohhh... so scary... won't stop til it's all burned into the earth.. I don't have such an intense aspect, just the ever prevalent Venus square pluto in all my relationships. Relationship after relationship ends in crash and burn hoping each other will go to hell but I've noticed that feeling of tending to want to Win still inside even when walking away and letting go of them. If I can get over my own feeling of wanting that I can sometimes avoid the super destructive endings and it will leave me alone. The only way I've learned so far how to do that is to think about how hurt they are to be like this and I end up feeling sorry for them.

Seems like gross exaggerations. I am sure none of this would exist (the words typed in the OP) had you not done a synastry. I don’t need to do synastry on people I know/meet. Seems like people who do synastry are usually looking for the bad anyway. You can do that without reading a synastry chart. Waste of time.

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Posted by MyStarsShine

Hard Pluto aspects are the 👿

Fully agreed. Fuck that nuisance.

Can be very challenging?

What are your experiences with the planet?

Did you forget about my thread about mars square pluto synastry? 😛

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No i just blocked it out of my mind

😂😅

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Posted by MrNobody

Posted by MyStarsShine

Hard Pluto aspects are the 👿

Fully agreed. Fuck that nuisance.

Can be very challenging?

What are your experiences with the planet?

Did you forget about my thread about mars square pluto synastry? 😛

No i just blocked it out of my mind

😂😅

I'd say it was traumatizing of that synastry.

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I found hard aspects ie opposition and square totally traumatizing in synastry

I also learned i was in it to heal but also to make me feel alive .... i needed the other person to activate this.

Am so over Pluto...all that obsessive stuff, push and pull etc can be so unhealthy and draining .... just look

at Burton and Taylor who had Pluto synastry...one of the most dysfuntional couples in showbusiness😬

I think you either learn from those experiences and move on to a healthier way of life or stay and prolong the agony🥴