Share your story! of how you met your partner/spouse. And what their Mars and Venus sign?

If you don't mind share your story of how did you met your spouse/partner (ex-partner is okay too), just story about you guys meet. And what their Mars and Venus sign (Sun sign too if you want). I'm in the mood of want to read how did you met your partner story, please share! TIA!

I'm more into want to know their Mars sign, because Astrology said this: [ Mars is the planet of sex, drive and action. In a man’s natal chart, Mars is how he shows his strength, his masculinity, how he might go about impressing a potential partner. ] So please comment me their Mars sign, because it their drive, it how they go after what they want to get what they want.

I guess I go first, please skip the below if you not want to read rambling (I'm Gemini Sun, so I'm chatty, added on with Mars and Saturn in 3rd house of mental/communication, so my mind is a mess, lol). But please share yours!

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I'll guess I go first.

Long term marriage. Met my husband over a decade ago, never parted a single day since.

We lived in the same neighborhood, his apartment was 5 min within walking distance from my apartment.. We first were acquaintance. I guess he noticed me first, because he purposely chose the public stairs that closest to my apartment, quietly sit there and wait for me. Day by day gone by whenever he back from work or have the freetime, he would come back to this same stairscase wait and wait. Alot of patience. And when he saw me walk by, he just stood up STARE and STARE at me. Day by day was like this, the stares and the quietly waited outside my stairscase. he such a love-idiot, lol.

He never come near my door or bother me. He just quietly sit outside the stairs to wait for me. In cold weather of winter time, he still came back to this same staircase sit and wait for me.. He confessed that he wants to get to know me more. So he choose the public staircase closest to my apartment to sit outside and wait, hope to see me when I came home. This was some Determination.

Then we became friends. So many nights he carried me on his back (he piggyback me) and walked slowly around the neighborhood and talk. Many times when he carried me on his back walk slowly, and he said things weird things like: "He just wants to carry me on his back like this, he wants this moment to never passed. So he can be by my side. So he doesn’t have to find ways to see me, find ways to bump into me. So he doesn’t have to sit outside my staircase wait and wait for me."

It wasn’t hard to get to know him due to our close distance (lived in same neighborhood), we saw each others day in day out and spend time together day in day out. I was touch by his persistent, so I gave him a chance. And that how it started. And here we are, it been 11 years and counting, he still loves me just like back then and still just as obsess with me, lol. If there anything he loves me MORE after married, Not any less. He is an awesome husband, he dotes on me alot.

No regrets for me, if there anything I should have married him sooner instead of him keep wait for me for 4 years before I said yes! (but those years with him day in day out, it only help us build a stronger foundation before I agreed to married him, lol). he has so much patience with me.

You can guess his Mars if you want, but I think my last thread I said what his Mars is, lol. Please share yours!

For the young men reading the above, please do not stalk and wait outside your crushes home. This is cringe and restraining order worthy behavior.

She won’t be ‘touched by your persistence’ she will be severely creeped out, potentially threatened and worried for her safety. Approach and speak with women like they are fellow human beings, not prey you are hunting. Ty for coming to my Ted talk.

I didn't know wait at once place is considering stalking, stalking meaning you follow them around, waiting at the same staircase, at the same spot everyday is not stalking. He could have follow me to my work and wait for me get off work to ese me, but instead he chose to quietly sit outside my staircase wait for me to come home so he can bump into me.

I don't consider that as stalking, stalking you need to move around/follow someone.

And it the public staircase anyways (anyone entitle to sit out there to wait for anyone anything they want to), it has lights on and sidewalks and was facing the parking lot, huge apartment neighborhood in San Francisco.

But to each of it own, thank you though Miss. for your comment.

My ex, the love of my life, has a Scorpio Mars and Capricorn Venus.

We went to the same University. He dated one of my class mates and showed no interest in me whatsoever. We barely exchanged a few words. One time I came drunk to her house and started calling him a fag. Fast forward to a year later, all of my closest mates decided to switch cities and Universities and I remained at the same on. He was among them. One day I was minding my own business, shopping for shoes I think, and my phone rang while I was at the store. It was him, a mutual friend gave me his number and he was returning to the old University because of then reasons unknown to me and wanted to see if I needed a flatmate. We met for drinks occasionally ( even though he didn't become my flatmate ). Sometimes I would refuse, sometimes I went. I thought nothing of it at the time. I'd been in a dead-end relationship with an older Capricorn for years and was drained and clueless about most things in life. He would find reasons to come over to my place, we would watch That '70s show. I would prepare for that moment...wear my best pyjamas and smell nice. One night I decided to kiss him, and we tried having sex, but he didn't have a condom so we just went to sleep. The morning after we had coffee in a cafe nearby and I went on to travel home for the holidays.

Long thing short, we were together for almost 10 years. He changed my life and my being. We were toxic, but a love of a lifetime. He got married recently. It was hard for me to move on, but I had to.

I am a Pisces Venus, Aquarius Mars.

Not exactly my partner I wouldn't say that but I met her prior to taking her away from her alcoholic ex boyfriend. Actually we've known each other for quite some times now and we met each other's fams too. I would have to relook back at her chart again whenever I get some time I guess. Last time I look she was mostly all capricorns.

Ex husbands - 1st one was a blind date. It was set up by my roommate at the time ( a friend of her boyfriends & they thought we’d get along) one date and then relationship, engaged at a month and a half 😂😂 yes we got married but it only lasted 2 1/2 years…

#2 husband - a so-called friend invited me to a get together with some mutual friends. Met him there, went on a date and then was gone for 20 years (as the so-called friend would put it after I got divorced).

I’ve been divorced awhile now & the world is so different & so am I. It doesn’t work this way anymore. Maybe I’m jaded or maybe I’ve learned 🤷‍♀️🤪

Went to high school together and he was Mr. Popularity, but super sweet. I liked a friend of his (a Scorpio) that didn't like me, and he and I started hanging out as friends at first, then he started wanting to see me daily and it went from there.

We had a very solid friendship, and still do.

He's a Virgo mars/ Gemini Venus

THANK YOU GenericUsername, Jan12girl, don'tgiveup, Antiphates, JumpinJupiter, PuzzlePieces, saggurl88 for sharing your story! I love read it all! Really appreciated.

If anyone come across this thread, if you don't mind please share your story too. TIA!

Oh I forgot to mention mars.

I’m Cap venus/Cap mars

First ex is Taurus venus/Pisces Mars

I had to look this one up since it was so long ago. I’d say the Pisces mars is surprising.

2nd ex is Gem venus/Aries mars

Aries mars was a much better match.. or maybe I just like the fire 🙃

I met the Virgo (Venus Virgo, Cancer Mars) on okcupid🙈. He messaged me. I thought his picture was hot so I responded. We met face to face I'm not sure how long after that. It wasn't planned. I was driving for uber back then and in-between fares we were messaging. Anyway all of a sudden he tells me to pick him up 😂 so I asked where he was. He sent me his home address and it just so happened that I had just dropped off these people at this bowling alley around the corner from his place. So I said fuck it and went to his townhouse. I warned him I has a taser and if he tried anything funny I'd taser his ass. So we went to find a place to get something to eat and then went back to his place and had sex. The rest is history.

I have Leo Venus and Cancer mars as well.

Thank you PuzzlePices, AURIQA, SeaLion for sharing! I enjoy reading these stories so much. If anyone come across this, please share your story too.

was about to flake on a dude then changed my mind. just one of those days i change my mind thrice. we somehow end up exchanging our baby pics and spending the weekend together. spent another weekend together just now and he met some of my aunts. though we've known each other only 3 weeks, his mom's super supportive and sent us new pillows and will be sending new curtains lol. and we got these matching vans and this frog welcome mat he insisted on getting coz he thought it was super cute ☺☺

but sometimes i feel like things are going way too fast 🤔🤔

Posted by virgoOPPP

was about to flake on a dude then changed my mind. just one of those days i change my mind thrice. we somehow end up exchanging our baby pics and spending the weekend together. spent another weekend together just now and he met some of my aunts. though we've known each other only 3 weeks, his mom's super supportive and sent us new pillows and will be sending new curtains lol. and we got these matching vans and this frog welcome mat he insisted on getting coz he thought it was super cute ☺☺

but sometimes i feel like things are going way too fast 🤔🤔

His mum sounds keen too 😂

Are ye living together already?

Posted by MyStarsShine

Posted by virgoOPPP

was about to flake on a dude then changed my mind. just one of those days i change my mind thrice. we somehow end up exchanging our baby pics and spending the weekend together. spent another weekend together just now and he met some of my aunts. though we've known each other only 3 weeks, his mom's super supportive and sent us new pillows and will be sending new curtains lol. and we got these matching vans and this frog welcome mat he insisted on getting coz he thought it was super cute ☺☺

but sometimes i feel like things are going way too fast 🤔🤔

His mum sounds keen too 😂

Are ye living together already?

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i'm a little hesistant about that but it seems to be going that way

i asked a question on social media and three people (who didn't know each other) pointed me to this one person.

taurus sun, cancer mars (i know), taurus venus