Scorpio has got my so confused .. Is this a test?

Long story short him (Scorpio) and I (cancer) dated for a few months. Everything started amazing .. I love you came quick plans to move in together came quick etc. During our relationship we did break up once but got back together a few days later. Anywho about 2 weeks before we were supposed to move in he broke up with me saying we fight too much and that he didn't see a future and that he wanted me to date someone with less problems (He lost both parents, has bad relationships with his Siblings, basically he's all alone). Since then we've still been seeing each other .. He still says "I love you" and really has opened up to me quite a lot with personal issues. Recently he's said that he truly doesn't want a relationship with anyone because he mentally expects too much. I accept that as the truth because I know to him honesty and loyalty are huge. But yesterday we were talking and he told me that he hates how much pain he has caused me since the break up and that sometimes he "wished that I'd tell him to "f*** off" and leave" but every time I don't and sty by his side he's so thankful.

I'm insanely confused is this a test of loyalty?

smfh

Hmmm, nope. Not for me.

Women need to ban this bullshit "test" term from their vocabulary as it is NOT an okay thing for a guy to do.

If someone is going to fuck around and play games, WHY would you want to be in a relationship with someone who pulls that shit?

Any time I catch a guy "testing" me, I see right through it and don't bother giving them the reaction they seek. I also don't stick around for long or remain interested for long. Such a huge turn off.

If he wants you, he will take responsibility for that. I don't think he is testing you. I think he honestly doesnt want a relationship with you because of his own issues. Sounds like he wants you around as a friend because you know him and are comfortable with each other.

If you feel that you are capable of being just friends forever with him, then forget about romantic possibilities and be there for him as just a friend, help him grow as a person. BUT if you think that you can't ever be just friends, then maybe it's time to start to distance yourself from him.

Why are you fighting?

I had a similar situation happen like this with a sag...I got fed up quick..he had mom issues and money problems. Great guy but that up and down shit piss me off. One minute he love me then the next minute we should be friends because I deserve more because he has financial problems..I accepted him being broke and having issues and I got tired of the feeling sorry for your dam self attitude. Yes he was insecure as hell but I learn this..when a man really want you he going to push to have you..I took control of the situation and let him know I like him alot but will just remain friends because he is too confuse for me and he has issues with himself to resolve. Before I put my foot down...he had me on a roller-coaster. One minute he love me and we planning for the future the next minute he saying I need more and we should be friends..also he was insecure about his looks..he had a accident when he was younger and his face on one side was mess up..the guy was crazy because he was still fine as fuck. I had to hear shit like.. you soo pretty and look at me..omg I could have smack his ass over the idea of him thinking that he wasn't attractive. We talk as friends off and on for a few weeks after I told him how it's going to be..my point is sometimes you have to set the rules and see how it play out.

This doesnt look like a promising relationship.. He knows he's messing up your head and emotions and still keeps doing it..

What is wrong with him?? can you live with such guy? I dont think he would stand such actions from you.. so why do you tolerate this from him?