Synastry Sspects vs. House Synastry

What shows the woman a man is attracted to? Venus and Moon sign placements or woman's planets in the man's 5th, 7th, and 8th houses. I ask because I have a 9 orb sun conjunct a guy's venus, my mars square his venus, and my venus conjunct his ascendant (12th house side). He has his moon conjunct my ascendant in the 12th house side as well. I'm curious to know if I'm the one with one sided attraction.

Yes, this does help! Thanks. I myself noticed that I am attracted to Gemini in the fun sort of way, not necessarily long term. I have Mars in Gemini RIGHT on my 5th house cusp. I am also physically attracted to people who have a lot of Virgo or Libra planets, which is in my 8th house.I guess this is why I was really curious what effect I must have on the guy, especially when none of my planets fall in his 5th, 7th, or 8th house.