Taurus and Aquarius chart info compat?

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BrownEyedTaurus
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Hey People,

My boyfriend is Aquarius, shock, horror and yes I am a Taurus and yes it's supposed to me a nightmare combination. However, it's turning out to possibly be the best relationship I've had so far...go fiqure! Actually, would anyone be able to figure this out by looking at our chart details below?

Him: Me:

Sun: Aquarius Taurus
Moon: Taurus Capricorn
Ascendent: Capricorn Cancer
Mercury: Aquarius Taurus
Venus: Capricorn Aries
Mars: Scorpio Scorpio
Jupiter: Capricorn Capricorn
Saturn: Scorpio Scorpio
Uranus: Saggitarius Saggitarius
Neptune: Capricorn Capricorn

Me:

Sun Conjunction Mercury
Sun Trine Neptune
Sun Opposition Pluto
Sun Sextile Ascendant
Sun Sextile Midheaven
Moon Sextile Mars
Moon Square Pluto
Mercury Trine Neptune
Mercury Opposition Pluto
Mercury Sextile Ascendant
Mercury Sextile Midheaven
Venus Square Jupiter
Venus Trine Uranus
Mars Square Midheaven
Jupiter Sextile Saturn
Jupiter Opposition Ascendant
Neptune Sextile Pluto
Neptune Opposition Ascendant
Neptune Sextile Midheaven
Pluto Trine Ascendant
Pluto Trine Midheaven

Him:

Sun Square Mars
Sun Square Saturn
Moon Opposition Mars
Moon Trine Jupiter
Moon Opposition Saturn
Moon Trine Neptune
Moon Opposition Pluto
Moon Trine Ascendant
Moon Opposition Midheaven
Mercury Square Pluto
Venus Sextile Mars
Venus Sextile Saturn
Venus Conjunction Ascendant
Mars Conjunction Saturn
Mars Sextile Ascendant
Mars Conjunction Midheaven
Jupiter Conjunction Neptune
Jupiter Sextile Pluto
Jupiter Conjunction Ascendant
Jupiter Sextile Midheaven
Saturn Sextile Ascendant
Saturn Conjunction Midheaven
Neptune Sextile Pluto
Pluto Conjunction Midheaven

If anyone can help with this, would be great!

Thanks

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fixed signs always allude a certain demeanour that keeps them attracted to each other... but the air and earth element in a romantic relationship is tough, not that it won't work...

the charts are quite compatible except for the sun, mercury and venus - might cause some friction but fixed signs work on things --- the problem seems to be they sometimes put all effort into the wrong things and ego makes it harder to let things go even when realistically it is not working.

It is not a nightmare combination as most are too polite to walk away - they just hang around 🙂
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BrownEyedTaurus
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Hmmmm interesting feedback, will let you know how it goes! I met an aquarian before and it really did not work but he's doing a lot of running which feels lovely : D if any disasters occur I will be sure to let you all know. Hopefully won't go down as Aquarian/Taurean stat in a bad way.

He pretty much knows all there is to me which is supposedly never good for an aquarian guy but weird. I read up on Aquarians and thought no...it won't work but pleasantly surprised thus far. Have been together since last October so still early days yet!

I don't know...I mean I thought it wouldn't work but so far it does. He's planning on coming away with me when I move abroad, he's bought me my birthday present for months away. He listens to me, is so affectionate with me. I keep thinking with Aquarian men that this will change. I hope not, I want to go and live a different life abroad, it's nice meeting someone who wants to share that with me.

Thanks ever so much for the feedback though, much appreciated : D
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BrownEyedTaurus
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I read this on astro.com:

With the square of composite Moon and Uranus, this relationship is not likely to be a stable, enduring, long-term one, at least as far as love is concerned. This is an aspect of emotional change and instability. A love affair with this aspect may flare up suddenly and then cool off with equal suddenness.

Nevertheless, considerable good may come from such a relationship, as long as you try only to find what it can offer rather than how long it can last. It will challenge your basic patterns of thinking on an emotional level. If you give it a chance, this relationship will expand your consciousness.
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taurus35
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i dated an aqua for about one yr....it started fast and furious,,it was a good match while it lasted..then he did the disappearing act,returned 2 wks later if nothing had changed..each time he disappeared i distanced myself..still caring but slowly realizing it will never fullful my need for a close consistant relationship..i did understand the need for the space as i needed space sometimes,just not as much as he did..he still calls and we still see each other from time to time..i know see him as a friend and he still talks like he is on the quest to get his self together so he can give me what i need,but i already know he has done that by continous disappearing so i could let go of the last romantic emotion i had for him.we are now good friends,i let him call when he wants to hear my voice and talk.in the meantime im out and about on another quest with my love interest...good luck it will only last as long as u wanted 2.because he has already moved on,u just havent realized it.....
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Actually, I told him that astrologically speaking we might not be a good match. He just laughed and said it was ridiculous. The only thing I can see being a problem is on a practical level. I'm saving a lot to go abroad and he's just started since making his decision to come with me. I do get concerned he's not going to save enough and then it will make moving abroad tougher. I think that could be something that could start to niggle. Like a man who's got his act together with his finances. What's interesting is I found out in one of my houses is Capricorn, and it said I'd go for a guy who is emotionally unavailable but who will be good with money and I will be attracted to them regardless of looks or age. I hate to admit it but it's true! I've gone for established older men who I couldn't get close to and always thought that was because I didn't have such a good relationship with my Dad growing up. However, that probably is the case if it's showing up on the type of man I usually go for.

However, this guy fulfills my emotional needs and he's an aqua! Maybe it's just the outward appearance they project, have met plenty that I've really liked when I've sat down and talked to them and found them a lot warmer than the generalisation of them.

Back to my boyfriend, the only reason it's gotten this far is because he's proven to me how much he wants to be with me. I've never been with a man that made me feel really good before, he thinks I'm beautiful and lovely even when I wake up in bed with him with panda eyes from smudged make-up and hair all tangled with a hangover. He even calls me a natural beauty ha, ha! My friends would laugh and say man, he really likes you : D He's also there for me when I need to talk about the good and the bad stuff.

I wonder why all the things in our charts say it wouldn't work?

What are the weak points I wonder? Or does everything just verge on the platonic in our charts with regards to each other?
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each time he disappeared i distanced myself..
yea this happens a lot especially when people define relationship by the vicinity of the partner... disappearing with no word breeds something else...

but they don't seem to want to hear about my problems or anything.
actually, this depends on deliverance because I could say the same about Taurus - depending on how palatable the deliverance of problems are, each sign may or may not be receptive.
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he's more an earth sign than an Aqua. All that Taurus and Capricorn stablize him a great deal. although I wonder how he feels about that. It might feel a little like he got his wings clipped. Aquas like to fly and fly high.
My closest friend at the moment is Aqua with Taurus moon and rising. So all in all it's probably a good match. What ever the chart says though, Aquas need a lot of space (air). Even if your in the same room.
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BrownEyedTaurus
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Yeah...you know sometimes I do wonder whether he feels like his wings have been clipped. I get the impression that he won't go out there and enjoy it because something is holding him back. I don't know what that is. I'm glad he's going abroad with me though. I think most times in life you enter someone's life for a reason. I've felt for a while with him that it's to get him just to show him a different way. I don't know, I could be wrong. He does need his space though, although he definately doesn't protest it but just goes and does his own thing. I feel terrible for aquarians if they should feel like their wings are clipped! I feel like that most days and I'm a Taurus
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Oh know, what's happened...we had a disgreement and sorted it out but suddenly I'm questioning being with him. This whole Venus retrograde thing is hitting me hard. I'm so confused. We've stopped planning on going abroad in 6 months. I know I still want to go. We're just working on the here and now. We both talked everything over and we both are wondering whether we disagree on too many things. I'm kind of feeling like this is the beginning of the end. Like I want to enjoy what we have while it lasts and that we are really learning a lot for each other but I just don't see a future with him and I can't seem to get away from that. Last night I dreamt I was pregnant. I've had this dream before and this was when my boyfriend said he wanted to come away with me when I leave to go try living abroad. I dreamt this dream after contemplating going alone. I woke up and in the dream I was so happy I was pregnant, ecstatic. I interpret that as meaning I'd rather go abroad alone. I don't know whether to just see how it goes but honestly part of me is holding on and it's driving me nuts, sos
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That's cool to know about the moon signs....however, the scorpio stuff. Honestly speaking, I seem to be more for getting down than he is. I don't know if this is because this he's not so confident in that department. I've tried talking things over but I guess his nerves are brushing off on me and makes me less receptive to him. It takes away the sexiness. That's work in progress. I don't know, he's lovely and we have a good but I really don't know if he is enough....
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We're now on a break. I don't know, I feel like the decision I'm making is to break up with him. It still hurts though and I feel terrible that a guy that makes me feel so special I can't see a future with. I don't know, maybe I'm the one with the issues. I want to go and live abroad and the people closest to me don't understand that. I don't know what I'm looking for. Once upon a time I didn't really live my life and now found the strength to go and do that. However, my best friend worries about why I need to do all this soul searching, why I have to go far away. Can anyone else relate to that? I lived in Italy and now a friend who lives in the south of francet has said I can go and stay with her and I'm tempted. I'm going to end up going back to Italy anyway. I have friends who are stable in their lives, settled job, houses already. I'm the one that's different but sometimes I feel that I'm made painfully aware of that. I try and explain that everyone has a different way of doing things but it seems no-ones convinced. I feel like I'm going against the grain and always have and somehow I even enjoy it. I'm scared though, of leaving and starting a new again but I did it before. At this moment I've just suddenly lost my courage
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sorry 2 hear you are questioning your relationship with your aquarius.i hope that in the end if there is one you all can still be friends..that is what is important.my aqua and i are still friends.good friends i can call on him for anything,i just realized early that as someone said earlier they require a lot of mental stimulation,i require mental stimulation also but not on a constant basis..i need a break because too much is draining for me..good luck i hope it works out best for you all