Venus in Scorpio people

Would you purposely make a girl that you like or love jealous? Would you intentionally act distant or silence or flirt with other female to gain some power in your part? If yes, what kind of responses were you expecting from it ? What will satisfy you? What have you done in love relationships that you think were manipulative. Examples please? and I read somewhere, you guys are vengeful.. ? also, do you communicate a lot in relationships?

A few of my friends have this placement. They like to flirt (look where mars is) but when they really like a girl, they won't make her jealous if they're serious about the possible relationship and if they think that she's being honest and not playing games. They don't like if you're trying to manipulate them or play mindgames, even though they themselves do that often cause they like to be in control. Yeah, they will be distant and careful if they don't trust you enough. It's ok for them to chitchat, but when some serious topics are on the table, they will analyse the person, see if she is trustworthy, and will not open up easily.

Don't play their game.. You'll lose. Just relax.. Idk about the other signs... But the ones with Sagittarius in sun and Venus in Scorpio together, kinda dangerous lol. Well I don't know... Just don't do anything to make them mad... I guess.

I'd say yes. Some maybe intentionally to make SO jealous/play games some maybe just because they like to flirt especially with someone desirable, even if they are already in a relationship.

Posted by saweetz1988
Would you purposely make a girl that you like or love jealous? Would you intentionally act distant or silence or flirt with other female to gain some power in your part? If yes, what kind of responses were you expecting from it ? What will satisfy you? What have you done in love relationships that you think were manipulative. Examples please? and I read somewhere, you guys are vengeful.. ? also, do you communicate a lot in relationships?

If I ever did any of this stuff, it was not intentional.

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Don't play their game.. You'll lose. Just relax.. Idk about the other signs... But the ones with Sagittarius in sun and Venus in Scorpio together, kinda dangerous lol. Well I don't know... Just don't do anything to make them mad... I guess.

We are good people til you try to fool us or something.

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I agree with this. I wouldn't start out with games, but if they start them, bring it on!

Scorpio venus takes relationships seriously until we have a reason not to. We're either all in or all out.

Here's a little bit about scorpio in venus from alwaysastrology.com

Scorpio Venus is intense and deep. They have a strong willingness to commit to a relationship, and they will only accept all or nothing. They are totally dedicated and focused on you, and they come across as being fearless. They crave intimacy, and are capable of loving someone very deeply. Scorpio Venus possesses their partner, and makes the partner want to be possessed.

They have the ability to give their partner their complete attention. This can be flattering to some people, while totally unnerving to others. While they probably won't admit it, a Venus in Scorpio person has a need to control their partner and the relationship. Their obsession may take all the fun out of the relationship. They take everything to the extreme, which can be attractive, but it can be overwhelming. While a person with a Venus in Scorpio will want to know every detail about you, they won't be so forthcoming with information about themselves.

If Scorpio Venus is upset, watch out. They can either explode with anger, or make you wish you were dead by the look they give you. They will probably become jealous of anyone else you spend time with, no matter what the reason, though they won't admit it. They are not afraid to manipulate a situation, and they are talented at seeing through any cover to what is at the heart. They may tend to be bored in a regular day-to-day relationship, though they thrive on crisis.

They appreciate someone who is loyal and committed to them. Let them have some control in the relationship if they are deserving of it. Some can take advantage of their partners on a very deep and subtle level, though not all of them will. They like to maintain their own secrets. Their feelings may prevent them from seeing the point of view of others. Suspicion is a natural feeling for them when they are unsure.
Scorpio Venus is a colorful person because of their intensity. They are often attracted to the mysteries of the occult, and they are good at playing detective or doing research. They can successfully use their sex appeal to get what they want. It is not uncommon for a person with a Venus in Scorpio to be cautious when meeting new people. They may take the opportunity to observe someone they are interested in several times before meeting them.

As a friend, they are insightful and able to understand their friends as plain as day. They may appear to be off in their own little world, but with a single comment, they can let you know that they notice every detail and they most certainly can keep your secrets.

Scorpio Venus likes someone who isn't afraid of commitment, emotions or intensity. They like a bit of surrender in the relationship. Don't play games with them, because they find it difficult to forgive. As wonderful as the Venus in Scorpio person can be when they

As wonderful as the Venus in Scorpio person can be when they love you, they can be equally bad when they have been hurt by you. Scorpio Venus likes change… even more; they thrive on the transformation that takes place during and after change. Whatever they put their passion into; it will mean everything to them.

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Don't play games with them, because they find it difficult to forgive.

I just wanted to reiterate that point. When the games start, we will play, but you can count on the fact that we're basically out the door. Oh, we'll stick around long enough to laugh at your game, but we're no longer taking you seriously.

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Would you purposely make a girl that you like or love jealous? Would you intentionally act distant or silence or flirt with other female to gain some power in your part? If yes, what kind of responses were you expecting from it ? What will satisfy you? What have you done in love relationships that you think were manipulative. Examples please? and I read somewhere, you guys are vengeful.. ? also, do you communicate a lot in relationships?

So basically, applying the above description...and from my own experience....

When I'm into someone, I will make an effort to guarantee that they don't feel jealous or have any doubts about anything. If I'm not into someone, I really don't care how they feel about what I'm doing. So if you're jealous or feel like he's trying to make you jealous, well, sorry to say this but he probably isn't doing it on purpose. IF he's flirting with someone else, then he's not into you.

It's more me probing for questions from him. our relation is somewhat extremely xomplicated. but the most recent well 3 weeks ago I asked him if he slept with someone and he said wud I get upset if he says yes? I told him I wud but I will prefer honesty.. He says he did and didn't wanna hurt me n apparently it was like a one night thing n he didn't noe how it even happen (let's laugh ) lol so he said he's very very confused blanbla blanbla.. anyway, I gave into him as he wanted to c me the following day.. so we did.. Later later I asked him what we r to each other n he cudnt answer me that... it's been 2 weeks now so instead of me telling him how I truly feel and that I wanna b in a committed relationship with him..coz the baby is due in 5 weeks... instead I asked him bout his sex life... now he Wundt tell me.. He says, why do I wanna know really bad? in all honesty, I wanted to know so I can somehow stop loving this man .. as I promised myself we will b strictly just friends n no sex once our baby is born... he's curious as to why I want to know really really bad? Instead of me telling him the truth I am trying to play his game by saying it's intriguing as I am a bi sexual woman myself.. but I don't know how much of it he will believe... now.. I'm scared to tell him I wanna b with him n b exclusive n start a family with him coz I dun wanna seem pushy but at the same, me asking n talking bout other girls in a joking way might confuse the crap out of him... so yay I'm at a lost end...

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Posted by arose32
Don't play their game.. You'll lose. Just relax.. Idk about the other signs... But the ones with Sagittarius in sun and Venus in Scorpio together, kinda dangerous lol. Well I don't know... Just don't do anything to make them mad... I guess.

We are good people til you try to fool us or something.

I agree with this. I wouldn't start out with games, but if they start them, bring it on!

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What kind of game are we talking about here? Examples please. I who do not play game struggle understanding when games n power play r being played lol.

Making someone jealous on purpose is a game.
Waiting purposely to contact back is a game.
Hard to get is a game.
For example

Posted by truecap
Making someone jealous on purpose is a game.
Waiting purposely to contact back is a game.
Hard to get is a game.
For example

What about withdraw true feelings of jealousy and making it seem like it's all ok. Is that a game too? lol wud u prefer someone to tell u they r upset coz of whatever rather than pretend it's all ok? (The wall )? Since I feel you guys do the same

Stop trying to play their game... And just relax. You don't have to do all of that for someone to love you...

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Don't play their game.. You'll lose. Just relax.. Idk about the other signs... But the ones with Sagittarius in sun and Venus in Scorpio together, kinda dangerous lol. Well I don't know... Just don't do anything to make them mad... I guess.

Ew. I loathe that combination. I dated someone with sag sun and Venus & Mars in Scorpio. Worst combination...even with my gem sun and Mars in Scorpio. That man liked to play games! Said he only dated one woman at a time...but I do my own testing sometimes too and totally caught him in a lie. Plus after I broke up with him he wanted to hook up even though he had just told me he was seeing someone and was "in love". He would say things to rile me up and then tell me I should just relax. "Happy happy" was always his words of choice. Super egotistical, arrogant and manipulative. I think I pissed him off my breaking up with him so he would text to say hi, acting like he was my friend but then would call me names. Ugh would never date a Sag again, especially with Scorpio placements

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Yeah they will make you pay for stuff you don't even know you did. But it's up to you to be Sad over it ... They're two people in one.

Posted by arose32
Stop trying to play their game... And just relax. You don't have to do all of that for someone to love you...

I'm not exactly trying to play his game... I just don't wanna come across as weak or vulnerable by expressing deep true feelings. I'm dealing with a sag sun Venus in Scorpio after all.

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Don't play their game.. You'll lose. Just relax.. Idk about the other signs... But the ones with Sagittarius in sun and Venus in Scorpio together, kinda dangerous lol. Well I don't know... Just don't do anything to make them mad... I guess.

Ew. I loathe that combination. I dated someone with sag sun and Venus & Mars in Scorpio. Worst combination...even with my gem sun and Mars in Scorpio. That man liked to play games! Said he only dated one woman at a time...but I do my own testing sometimes too and totally caught him in a lie. Plus after I broke up with him he wanted to hook up even though he had just told me he was seeing someone and was "in love". He would say things to rile me up and then tell me I should just relax. "Happy happy" was always his words of choice. Super egotistical, arrogant and manipulative. I think I pissed him off my breaking up with him so he would text to say hi, acting like he was my friend but then would call me names. Ugh would never date a Sag again, especially with Scorpio placements

Yeah they will make you pay for stuff you don't even know you did. But it's up to you to be Sad over it ... They're two people in one.

Oh he tried to make me pay but I don't get sad I get pissed and give him a piece of my mind...which made things worse I'm sure lol. Bad to put two Mars in Scorpio together lol. Ironically I got texts from him today after we hadn't talked for a long time. Told him I'm seeing someone and he tells me how he's jealous, thinks about me all the time and that even though I have a boyfriend now he knows I know that he and I "connect". I went off on him and he starting apologizing for a bunch of shit and telling me there is a reason we keep coming back to each other. Fucker just doesn't like that I'm with someone else now.

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Why does he n mine sounds like a night mare !

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Posted by truecap
Making someone jealous on purpose is a game.
Waiting purposely to contact back is a game.
Hard to get is a game.
For example

What about withdraw true feelings of jealousy and making it seem like it's all ok. Is that a game too? lol wud u prefer someone to tell u they r upset coz of whatever rather than pretend it's all ok? (The wall )? Since I feel you guys do the same

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Of course I'd prefer someone tell me they're upset.

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Posted by arose32
Stop trying to play their game... And just relax. You don't have to do all of that for someone to love you...

I'm not exactly trying to play his game... I just don't wanna come across as weak or vulnerable by expressing deep true feelings. I'm dealing with a sag sun Venus in Scorpio after all.

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Expressing feelings is never weak. They are what you feel and you should express it.

It the approach in expressing them that would be interpreted as weak.
Emotionally crying and blubbering - weak.
Calm, rational, logical statements - not weak.
Whining and accusing "you always.." "why do you have to treat me." - weak
Stating "you piss me off and here is why" - not weak.

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Posted by arose32
Stop trying to play their game... And just relax. You don't have to do all of that for someone to love you...

I'm not exactly trying to play his game... I just don't wanna come across as weak or vulnerable by expressing deep true feelings. I'm dealing with a sag sun Venus in Scorpio after all.

Expressing feelings is never weak. They are what you feel and you should express it.

It the approach in expressing them that would be interpreted as weak.
Emotionally crying and blubbering - weak.
Calm, rational, logical statements - not weak.
Whining and accusing "you always.." "why do you have to treat me." - weak
Stating "you piss me off and here is why" - not weak.

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Yeb that make sense.. I used to be emotionally expressive but now that there's a child involved I'm trying to find the best way to deal with the situation... and be more patient etc... Ask questions instead of accusing etc.. and if I'm upset or anything that bothers me I either write them down or just cry on my own... I guess after so long I'm just tired of expressing my true feelings all the time.. I hate to b seen vulnerable now... can a Scorpio Venus see through that—

Posted by arose32
Don't play their game.. You'll lose. Just relax.. Idk about the other signs... But the ones with Sagittarius in sun and Venus in Scorpio together, kinda dangerous lol. Well I don't know... Just don't do anything to make them mad... I guess.

Why so dangerous ? lol

Can they read our mind without saying it? lol they r like psychic at times and maybe they are playing those games coz of insecurity and they don't trust your love for them?

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Stop trying to play their game... And just relax. You don't have to do all of that for someone to love you...

I'm not exactly trying to play his game... I just don't wanna come across as weak or vulnerable by expressing deep true feelings. I'm dealing with a sag sun Venus in Scorpio after all.

Expressing feelings is never weak. They are what you feel and you should express it.

It the approach in expressing them that would be interpreted as weak.
Emotionally crying and blubbering - weak.
Calm, rational, logical statements - not weak.
Whining and accusing "you always.." "why do you have to treat me." - weak
Stating "you piss me off and here is why" - not weak.

Yeb that make sense.. I used to be emotionally expressive but now that there's a child involved I'm trying to find the best way to deal with the situation... and be more patient etc... Ask questions instead of accusing etc.. and if I'm upset or anything that bothers me I either write them down or just cry on my own... I guess after so long I'm just tired of expressing my true feelings all the time.. I hate to b seen vulnerable now... can a Scorpio Venus see through that—

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i would say that scorpio venus can see genuinity. If it's genuine, we know. If it's not genuine, it's not.
I have a scorpio rising, too, so I could be blurring the placeements. Scorpio rising has a gift, they say, for seeing through BS.

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Stop trying to play their game... And just relax. You don't have to do all of that for someone to love you...

I'm not exactly trying to play his game... I just don't wanna come across as weak or vulnerable by expressing deep true feelings. I'm dealing with a sag sun Venus in Scorpio after all.

Expressing feelings is never weak. They are what you feel and you should express it.

It the approach in expressing them that would be interpreted as weak.
Emotionally crying and blubbering - weak.
Calm, rational, logical statements - not weak.
Whining and accusing "you always.." "why do you have to treat me." - weak
Stating "you piss me off and here is why" - not weak.

Yeb that make sense.. I used to be emotionally expressive but now that there's a child involved I'm trying to find the best way to deal with the situation... and be more patient etc... Ask questions instead of accusing etc.. and if I'm upset or anything that bothers me I either write them down or just cry on my own... I guess after so long I'm just tired of expressing my true feelings all the time.. I hate to b seen vulnerable now... can a Scorpio Venus see through that—

i would say that scorpio venus can see genuinity. If it's genuine, we know. If it's not genuine, it's not.
I have a scorpio rising, too, so I could be blurring the placeements. Scorpio rising has a gift, they say, for seeing through BS.

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I know exactly how you feel. With my sag sun VIS I would be VERY expressive through the mind games but we have children now so I try not to blow up because I know in the end it's all a lil game because of his insecurities.

He enjoys getting a rise out of me though. I can't play the "why do you treat me like this.." Game lol he will look at me and say something even more hurtful just because I'm acting weak

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Stop trying to play their game... And just relax. You don't have to do all of that for someone to love you...

I'm not exactly trying to play his game... I just don't wanna come across as weak or vulnerable by expressing deep true feelings. I'm dealing with a sag sun Venus in Scorpio after all.

Expressing feelings is never weak. They are what you feel and you should express it.

It the approach in expressing them that would be interpreted as weak.
Emotionally crying and blubbering - weak.
Calm, rational, logical statements - not weak.
Whining and accusing "you always.." "why do you have to treat me." - weak
Stating "you piss me off and here is why" - not weak.

Yeb that make sense.. I used to be emotionally expressive but now that there's a child involved I'm trying to find the best way to deal with the situation... and be more patient etc... Ask questions instead of accusing etc.. and if I'm upset or anything that bothers me I either write them down or just cry on my own... I guess after so long I'm just tired of expressing my true feelings all the time.. I hate to b seen vulnerable now... can a Scorpio Venus see through that—

i would say that scorpio venus can see genuinity. If it's genuine, we know. If it's not genuine, it's not.
I have a scorpio rising, too, so I could be blurring the placeements. Scorpio rising has a gift, they say, for seeing through BS.

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Yay it's a very strong placement. even with the cold exterior he noes when I'm upset when sometimes I think I hide it so well... he seems to *know* what to say and how to say things to make me happy without me demanding it. If that make sense... sometimes I feel is it that we think the same and just want the same thing? I don't noe but small simple little words make my heart jump so high.. like * everything will be great !! * or * you will be a great mother * etc.. Those things catch my heart n I hate him for knowing what I wanna hear ! to the point where I wonder if it's manipulation on his part lol... Intense individuals .. I believe in all or nothing aspects.. n trust is a massive problem for them... I feel they test the water so much to c if u will stray n leave them if they act badly etc... n if u prove u don't go anywhere they come closer to u stronger... they r wired placements lol... consistency seem to work well with them.. and time lots of time n patience... phew

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Posted by arose32
Stop trying to play their game... And just relax. You don't have to do all of that for someone to love you...

I'm not exactly trying to play his game... I just don't wanna come across as weak or vulnerable by expressing deep true feelings. I'm dealing with a sag sun Venus in Scorpio after all.

Expressing feelings is never weak. They are what you feel and you should express it.

It the approach in expressing them that would be interpreted as weak.
Emotionally crying and blubbering - weak.
Calm, rational, logical statements - not weak.
Whining and accusing "you always.." "why do you have to treat me." - weak
Stating "you piss me off and here is why" - not weak.

Yeb that make sense.. I used to be emotionally expressive but now that there's a child involved I'm trying to find the best way to deal with the situation... and be more patient etc... Ask questions instead of accusing etc.. and if I'm upset or anything that bothers me I either write them down or just cry on my own... I guess after so long I'm just tired of expressing my true feelings all the time.. I hate to b seen vulnerable now... can a Scorpio Venus see through that—

i would say that scorpio venus can see genuinity. If it's genuine, we know. If it's not genuine, it's not.
I have a scorpio rising, too, so I could be blurring the placeements. Scorpio rising has a gift, they say, for seeing through BS.

I know exactly how you feel. With my sag sun VIS I would be VERY expressive through the mind games but we have children now so I try not to blow up because I know in the end it's all a lil game because of his insecurities.

He enjoys getting a rise out of me though. I can't play the "why do you treat me like this.." Game lol he will look at me and say something even more hurtful just because I'm acting weak

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Hands up for X pressing feelings that way too * why did u treat me , bla bla bla * been there done that the fight wasn't worth it in the end we lose haha.. So now I'm a lot more calm n rational.. works much better.. it's almost like he can't really win coz he can't really get a reaction out of me... so it's still a mystery? I don't noe lol

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Can they read our mind without saying it? lol they r like psychic at times and maybe they are playing those games coz of insecurity and they don't trust your love for them?

Yes they are psychic!! lol. I seriously don't even lie to him. Because he always fuckin knows anyway it's not worth it.

No serious or genuine person will make his lover jealous intentionally!
It's stupid.

Even if their lover plays games with them...no serious/genuine person will get down to playing games in return. Its very silly. I see this happening with friends and it's really foolish.

My ex was like this. I wasted years playing in to his manipulation and insecure ways at getting "power" over me. He always used other women to try to make me feel less. Now that I gave him the boot I don't deal with the crazy toxic mind or heart. He got a kick out of playing with my head and heart and it took so much away from having any type of good love in the relationship. He would have this "happy" charismatic mask that he puts on when hes baiting and oce he thinks he caught you the mask comes off and then he degrades you and spreads it around. Sad. I would never put myself in a position like that again.

He would try to starve me for love but show fake ass attempts at affection and love but then turn around and blame me for not loving him.....all the while playing the jealousy game. I had to step back and take a good and long look at him without my emotions and I was able to see him for what he really was. No love just games and war. When I took myself out of his manipulative hands I was able to see the things I fell in love with about him were either never there or long long gone. Only a shell was left with a monster hiding in it.

I see how evil he is and how easy it is for him to throw up that mask and roll on to the next victim just like nothing. Unless mature and secure Ill never date this type EVER again.

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I see how evil he is and how easy it is for him to throw up that mask and roll on to the next victim just like nothing. Unless mature and secure Ill never date this type EVER again.

I assume he shares the same placement. ? Venus in Scorpio? Sounds intense

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I see how evil he is and how easy it is for him to throw up that mask and roll on to the next victim just like nothing. Unless mature and secure Ill never date this type EVER again.

I assume he shares the same placement. ? Venus in Scorpio? Sounds intense

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Intense with mind games and power plays? Yea. Intense in any type of loving way? Naaaa. If you want to be driven insane and put on emotional roller coaster, this is the way to go. My ex always knew just what to say or do and when to say or do it when it came to making me feel like he really loved or cared about me. All tricks. I see how he is with other women and he does the same things. That's when I knew for sure it wasn't me.

He even went as far as to tell me about how he plays other women, how worthless hoes are who give it up quickly and how he loves to smash and pass these types, how he gets everything he could out of them before he passes, I mean...I saw some of his conversations with them and he came off as Prince Charming with the great "connection" and sincere care. What the fuck was I thinking right? That's how bad he ripped through my self esteem at the time.

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I see how evil he is and how easy it is for him to throw up that mask and roll on to the next victim just like nothing. Unless mature and secure Ill never date this type EVER again.

I assume he shares the same placement. ? Venus in Scorpio? Sounds intense

Intense with mind games and power plays? Yea. Intense in any type of loving way? Naaaa. If you want to be driven insane and put on emotional roller coaster, this is the way to go. My ex always knew just what to say or do and when to say or do it when it came to making me feel like he really loved or cared about me. All tricks. I see how he is with other women and he does the same things. That's when I knew for sure it wasn't me.

He even went as far as to tell me about how he plays other women, how worthless hoes are who give it up quickly and how he loves to smash and pass these types, how he gets everything he could out of them before he passes, I mean...I saw some of his conversations with them and he came off as Prince Charming with the great "connection" and sincere care. What the fuck was I thinking right? That's how bad he ripped through my self esteem at the time.

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How did u see those conversations— Man U have no idea how badly I wanna c his phone conversations at times... so maybe i can open my eyes a bit more lol... well I have a baby with him so not so sure which ride I will take.. maybe he'll and heaven all in one day ...T-T