Virgo/Libra women problem

We lived together just shy about one month from our 2 years together (dated sort of 8-9 years ago when freshman in high school) I’m a Taurus and I believe she’s a full blown Virgo but she says she’s a libra, born September 24. It’s been about 5 months now the first 4 we had little to no contact then she brought me back for about a month and it was like we were dating all over again, kissing, holding hands, spending the night. But then again one day tells me to not wait for her, hates that she felt the decision was all on her, didn’t want me to prove I had changed my ways, wants me to keep doing my thing and find myself but she’ll be there for me if I need a friend to talk to. She still texts/calls/snapchats atleast once a day everyday. My question is, will she come back again? And I mean come back to stay? Friend of mine said she’s probably unhappy with herself right now.

Yes she is definitely a Libra and scared to commit because she feels there's something else out there she needs to explore.

Posted by DonnaLibra
Yes she is definitely a Libra and scared to commit because she feels there's something else out there she needs to explore.

That’s what I’ve been thinking, I don’t want to lose her but I feel like I should step back and give her all the time and space she may need, I feel like if I do that though she’s not coming back. Who knows?

Sounds like a Virgo to me. I’m a Libra. If I like you I like you. If I don’t I don’t drag you along for a long time. Maybe for a bit til I find something better. But if you are saying you felt something and then they pulled away. That’s a Virgo for you. My ex was a Virgo.

Posted by Lexie87
Sounds like a Virgo to me. I’m a Libra. If I like you I like you. If I don’t I don’t drag you along for a long time. Maybe for a bit til I find something better. But if you are saying you felt something and then they pulled away. That’s a Virgo for you. My ex was a Virgo.

Yeah I feel like she’s a bit more Virgo but carries traits of both signs, we came back for a month and it was great joking, having fun, holding hands kissing and then she got upset and pushed me away filled her head with every reason why things wouldn’t work. Then just recently brought me back again for like a week and got upset over me asking her how she felt about a few things, said how is she supposed to build a friendship with me if I keep assuming more. Haven’t talked since it’s only been a few days tho so who knows, I hope we can figure it out I love her and was planning on marrying her):

What are the reasons it won’t work in her mind? Fill us in.

Posted by LadyNeptune
What are the reasons it won’t work in her mind? Fill us in.

Her biggest reason was feeling disrespected because I lied to her twice, same situation, I had smoked pot with my grandfather and that’s something she is not ok with at all, I came clean after the arguments because I felt bad. The other was a bit of lack of communication on my part throughout the day while we’d be at work she was understanding more so of this because I can’t be on my phone at work told her only to call if it was emergency I’d try and text when possible. Other than that a few disagreements that turned into small arguments, and I was acting immature for awhile and I knew I was never gave myself the kick in the ass I should have. She thinks everything will go back to how it was and that I’ll smoke again and lie about it

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Posted by LadyNeptune
What are the reasons it won’t work in her mind? Fill us in.

Her biggest reason was feeling disrespected because I lied to her twice, same situation, I had smoked pot with my grandfather and that’s something she is not ok with at all, I came clean after the arguments because I felt bad. The other was a bit of lack of communication on my part throughout the day while we’d be at work she was understanding more so of this because I can’t be on my phone at work told her only to call if it was emergency I’d try and text when possible. Other than that a few disagreements that turned into small arguments, and I was acting immature for awhile and I knew I was never gave myself the kick in the ass I should have. She thinks everything will go back to how it was and that I’ll smoke again and lie about it click to expand

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Why is she so against pot tho? Sounds like she could use some thc

Posted by LadyNeptune

Posted by Taurus_mn

Posted by LadyNeptune
What are the reasons it won’t work in her mind? Fill us in.

Her biggest reason was feeling disrespected because I lied to her twice, same situation, I had smoked pot with my grandfather and that’s something she is not ok with at all, I came clean after the arguments because I felt bad. The other was a bit of lack of communication on my part throughout the day while we’d be at work she was understanding more so of this because I can’t be on my phone at work told her only to call if it was emergency I’d try and text when possible. Other than that a few disagreements that turned into small arguments, and I was acting immature for awhile and I knew I was never gave myself the kick in the ass I should have. She thinks everything will go back to how it was and that I’ll smoke again and lie about it click to expand

Why is she so against pot tho? Sounds like she could use some thc click to expand

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Funny thing is she wanted to smoke with me one time and we did and she was a totally different person, we always have a great time together but when we smoked it was like we clicked even more it was crazy. But she was against it after that until like a few months later she wanted to smoke herself regularly at night (I’m talking like a hit) to help with her anxiety and stress. Didn’t last long she’s been against it since because of her dad, he hates it with a passion. She is very high strung though and has a crazy go-go attitude and takes everything way to the extreme, friends of hers have ended the friendship because of it, I still love her though