Weird Aquarian

I was with an aquarian for 2 years and we broke up 2 years ago. Im in a relationship now and so is she, and then she just blocked me one day from facebook. I dont really get the point, I was trying to be friends with her and not get back with her.

"Weird Aquarian"


Yes.

Yes, but it doesn't make sense. why did she even add me then?

@justmeh: im not sure. Its been almost a year to more than a year I think thats too long to just to check.

Posted by justmeh
Yeah definately to long to just check.
There are a lot of possibilities and i would be just guessing so wont bore u with my theories lol.
I can`t answer as someone that knows much about star signs but i do know that the aquarians that i know don`t play games and are pretty straightforward.
Have u or are u able to ask her why she blocked u?
If u have and she wont respond then just forget about it.
I do know that the aquarians i know would tell u straight but am sure there are different types as we are all unique individuals at the end of the day regardless of when we were born.
Ur in a new relationship now(a happy one i hope) and i know it can sometimes be a mind f*ck when u cant figure out another persons actions or know why they did/do certain things but if u really wanted just to be friends with her then forget about why she blocked u and put all that focus on ur new lady

-I have not. and I believe she wont tell either. yes, thats true. I don't know if its common among them aquarians but this one wont say anything unless you're really pissed off because she wont say anything. Yes, I think this one is a lot better than her. Thank you very much for the help. 🙂

Chances are she has a strong opinion on this matter; feelings she is uncomfortable divulging to you. Unless you suspect other likely possibilities as to why she blocked you without any clear reason in doing so, i.e. due to unfinished business pertaining to the relationship you once shared.

I don't think so. We had our closure 2 years ago.

Another feasible guess would be she regretted breaking up with you, and the feeling never subsided despite her/your current commitments to other parties. Accessing your facebook may be a negative reminder of what she passed up, especially because you are off-the-market. Therefore, her blocking you provides a successful means of further dissociation.

Isn't it too late for her to react on that (if this is the reason)

All of which I say under the assumption you would be able to suspect her motive in cutting contact, if there was a specific purpose behind it--for instance, something you said or did in the past or more recently--that might've put her off.

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Nope... I even greeted her on her birthday.

Posted by size zero superhero
Chances are she has a strong opinion on this matter; feelings she is uncomfortable divulging to you. Unless you suspect other likely possibilities as to why she blocked you without any clear reason in doing so, i.e. due to unfinished business pertaining to the relationship you once shared.

Not to come off negatively but objectively; I find such behavior is typical of many Aquarians. At times they consciously tune-out as to ignore interpersonal problems rather than taking minimal initiative in resolving the issue, which appears the 'easy way out'.
Even while it genuinely bothers them...when acting like the problem doesn't exist is an option, some will choose this route.

On that note, I had an Aqua friend of many years who claimed to everyone we were sisters and who in the end 'blocked' me in life because my daughter was being rebellious... too much stress on her.

Aquas are not weird, they may have weird idea's but most of them are actually pretty conservative in their day to day life, etc. They love trying to shock people with things they say, not things they do. They remain pretty middle of the road in the things they do. Air sign trait.

Absolutely(in my opinion anyway) but it cannot be determined whether or not seeing your facebook is negative stimuli from her POV. Especially if her current relationship is in the crapper, any reminder that she gave up on a better prospect is probably unsettling.

Hey, you said she was weird, so I'm not holding back on possibilities here. haha



Last time I checked, she was happy with her relationship and I also greeted her for that. Anyway, our relationship was a toxic one, to the point where she started hitting me and blaming me for her mishaps. Hahaha!

Note: I have never laid hands on her.

Absolutely(in my opinion anyway) but it cannot be determined whether or not seeing your facebook is negative stimuli from her POV. Especially if her current relationship is in the crapper, any reminder that she gave up on a better prospect is probably unsettling.

Hey, you said she was weird, so I'm not holding back on possibilities here. haha



Last time I checked, she was happy with her relationship and I also greeted her for that. Anyway, our relationship was a toxic one, to the point where she started hitting me and blaming me for her mishaps. Hahaha!

Note: I have never laid hands on her.

Aquas are not weird, they may have weird idea's but most of them are actually pretty conservative in their day to day life, etc. They love trying to shock people with things they say, not things they do. They remain pretty middle of the road in the things they do. Air sign trait.

- I disagree with them being conservative. some of them maybe, for me they just pretend to be conservative. And there are things that they do that can be pretty shocking or unbelievable for some because they seem conservative.

This is true, although words and ideas are self-defining in addition to actions. Especially considering Air signs are known to talk so damn much.


- hahaha! I thought I saw a like button here somewhere. 😄

i block all my exes too lol

Posted by aquarius21
i block all my exes too lol

this is easier to understand than what she's doing shell add you then block you then unblock again, so its really weird.

Posted by Starfish225
My advice is dont react to it. Dont mention it to her, go about it as if you hadnt even notice. She may be trying to see if you still care, and by mentioning iit to her may give her the answer.

Nope, I just act as if nothing happened, we're friends again. lol..

Maybe she just wants to be friends w/ people on FB she's actually friends w/ in real life?

I don't think its assuming to be curious about this behavior. I like being friends with my exes and it doesn't mean I'd like to rekindle our past. Life is too short to be bitter about things like that plus the fact that we've been together for quite some time. this behavior is just not right. She's been doing this since friendster I just dont react to this til now.