What are the biggest issue virgo have with scorpio

trust!!!

It's the other way around. Hard for me (scorp) to trust a virgo.

Virgo's are pretty trustworthy..You should check out a variety of sites on Virgo...When we're in a relationship that we love we're faithful and honest. Am I wrong?

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It is hard for Scorpios to trust anyone!!!!

Wow-- I always thought scorpios were faithful were they're actually "IN" a relationship they feel they want..Shit..I hope so..HaHa..

*My* scorp is incredibly faithful (to my knowledge), though I don't know if that's all scops or just mine. I have a huge trust problem either way though. As soon as I catch someone in the tiniest lie, or even something as stupid as an exaggeration, I second guess absolutely everything they say.

Another problem I have is the constant intensity. It can be incredible, but when I'm being reserved and trying to just relax and unwind.... You get the idea.

Control issues seem to be the only thing that creates trouble for them. They should take turns at it and should remember to stay out when it is the other's turn.

When we find somebody as compatible as you dy..We do't want to control and lead..some of actually like the man playing the "man of the house" role..

Trust does take a long time to build with us and can be done. Some secrets will always be secrets..

And I would be totally faithful to my man..I can't be unfaithful, just haven't got it in me to do so.

I agree with everyone else: TRUST.

The Scorp ex and I had some serious chemistry, very well suited in some areas, however in other areas, ok, he was just mentally ill and a pathological liar. Lied about everything. For absolutely no reason. It got to where I stopped asking him ANYTHING cuz I knew the answer would be a lie. Not even a, "how are you?" or "what's going on?". He would tell you it was night when it was day. I have no idea what that was about.

When a scorp tells you all the lies he has done to other people, is he opening up and being honest and loyal or he is telling you that he is a constant liar and will lie to you too— Trust is definately an issue!

competition. They will fight like animals over stupid shit. Other than that, the sex is sublime, and the intelligence factor is there to appease both parties.

I'm a virgo and my man is a scorpio..been together 4 years. His moodiness is a challenge, it took a bit to get used to--I ride it out now and give him space, try not too read too much into it--not an issue for Virgo's to give space but it IS an issue not to read into things--virgos tend to READ INTO THINGS..At least, I do...His issue with me is not affectionate enough.
I Love him and believe he loves me--he should have no issues with trusting me--VIRGOS are generally very loyal and trustworthy.

If scorps weren't so moody, we wouldn't be so suspicious! Understand cause and effect. Moods are caused by an effect of something. So what's eating at them? Got something to hide? Feeling guilty? Hmmm...

The list you made for the most part is very logically controlled. Death of a loved one and conflicts with someone you care about are more personal and may get to my emotions but all the other everyday stuff is no big deal to me. It's all a part of moving forward in life. And just how long does it take for a scorp to get over something I would not even snuff about? Geez!! Car repairs would be a prime example. We don't expect them to happen but when they do we must improvise, take care of it and keep going. Not let it drag you down to the point where you have to cancel your plans.

Can scorps really read virgos? I don't think they can read us as easy as the rest. I cannot read scorps as easy as the rest.

Wow, Mr. Nice-- I think you might have us Virgos down!

Not offended..I really think we Virgo's (or at least, me) are similar to what you pointed out..Hey, we've got to take the good with the bad, right?

my 2 cents:

some scorpios i met are the most aweosme caring people as friends!

however, some girls i have met in the past were a bit too forward in their intentions with me (even when i was in a relationship or they were in one) and the intense they brought up, scared me away a bit.

i'm still friends with them, i just don't know that i would persue more, unless they would show me a less possesive controlling side of them.

plus, who would want to date someone who hits on you when they have a relationship? c'mmon!

but please do know most of the most caring and sincere friends i have are scorpios.

i just think is the chasing they do after they really like someone (never giving up) that frigthens me a tiny bit =)

LOL..who chase, moi...neverrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr..chasing is for novices...

lol, i feel so silly now.

well, missmorals and anibling...i'm probably making too many assupmtions about the lovely scorpio ladies...just because of one. so i'm not being fair.

i know three other girls who are scorpio who are really awesome people.

i guess what i like more about them is:

1)they are willing to open up and share about their lives easily with me
2)they are into relationships and when they love they truly love
3)they are very protective and very caring

what i didn't like about the one, only one, girl that i mentioned above is just that...once she started liking me (while she well knew i had a gf and she was in a relationship too) is just that...she wouldn't give up.
i have to give her mad prompts because i did learn to care about her over time...lol...even though i would freak out at times and dissapear for days.

she would text me at least 4 or 5 per day if i would respond AND almost every monring at 7 am (while i was still in bed!) one time she even texted me at 3:30 am :o

all this while she and i were only friends...so that's what i meant by a little to forward with her intentions...because i kept on saying that i liked her as a friend only, to which she replied..."sure you do" and then kept on going with the emotional rollarcoster for months and months...and i couldn't just avoid her bc she was friends of my friends...ah...and she was so funny...and she was cute...just a little too much for me...and i would never ever sleep with someone if i'm in a relationship or if someone is in one...not even a kiss...na ah.

she got me in trouble with her little text messages too btw with my girl at the time. even thoguh i never answered any.
i think it was more of challenge than true love, who knows...

Antibling: "a bit of a rantt,but these types of skanks really boil my piss!!!"

LMAO...Your choice of words crack me up...

Yeah there are some weird scorpio chicks out there..Thank christ I am not one of them bunny boiler types..eeeeeeeeeeek!..would rather die..

Trust is a big issue for me. Mostly, if a person is up front and honest from the start, I will trust them. With us Scorps though, we catch EVERYTHING, including little white lies (which aren't little at all, they're still lies) and that destroys trust and respect too. Went out with a guy who, from the start was honest and upfront, and I believed him because his honesty was brutal, but I respected him for it. The truth is hard to hear sometimes but for us Scorpio's we can take it all. From out of the ashes rises the phoenix! Hope this helps!

To add to that last comment I made...I married and then later divorced a Virgo. He lies when he feels threatened in some emotional way. It happened right from the very beginning but I didn't call him on it and then it all got swept under the marriage carpet, as so much can. Now that we're divorced I call him on his lies (if and when they happen). His lying really destroyed my trust in him and my respect for him. Hasn't changed much but we have a child together and we'd both do anything for our little boy. We've both learned a lot being with and without each other. Funny thing is, I said I'd never date another Virgo...but I just did recently. He was brutally honest and I respect him enormously. Some traits I love about Virgo- their neatness and earthiness. My moon and ascendant are in Virgo so I can relate to all of this. Thanks for the topic!

All the scorps I know are way too moody! I am very emotionally stable (happy) from day to day. And as much as I try to relate to other people's emotional problems, there has got to be a point when they should realize that the best answer (in most cases) is to come up with the most logical decision regarding the matter, do it, and move on! Spoken like a true virgo, huh?

Fear?? You got me on this one, I don't get it. I do not fear scorpios. The ones I know are moody and have depression problems. They need constant optimistic points of view to keep them from falling on their face too hard. Yeah, I'm sure not all of them are like that, but I have not met any yet.

I'm not neccessarily commenting on the messages, but on virgos period. I used to date a virgo when I was pregnant. He was very clingy, watching my every move. He claimed to have loved me. We still talk to this day. He is very different from the virgo I am dating right now, though. My current virgo has me going in circles. Beause I am a very strong believer in astrology, I have'nt left him yet. We are doing the long distance thing; talking every day, sending letters and what not. He just isn't sure of how to go about opening up to me on the relationship tip. So I guess I've had the virgin and the vixen you could say. One is very quiet, and likes to keep one guessing, while the other is more open to showing his feelings and marking his "territory".

the one thing i don't like about the scorpio i know is how when i say a term he always says it has many interpretations. For example the term "love". I mean it in the general way -lovey, dovey. he likes to be difficult. I also don't like how he doesn't say how feels. In a way i can kind of guess but then i think i'm overanalyzing and that it's in my head. I LOVE his moodiness for the most part. I just marvel at how he can go to happy and content one minute and then annoyed and pissed off the next.

Dissolved, are you a female virgo?

I am just the opposite, I love the interpretations and verbal expressions of male scorps but wish their moods were just a touch more stable.

Yes why?

I like it.
Why? I do the same thing sometimes.

I was just curious Dissolved. Your profile does not specify.

lol @ moodswings... cannon ball!!!!!!!!!

I'm a virgo female, and I dated a scorpio for 3 1/2 years. We have a child together. I have never cheated on anyone in my entire life. My ex scorpio lied and ultimatly cheated on me in the end. He was Mr. Perfect until he got me, then it turns out all that brown nosing wasn't him at all. They can't stand any negative reality in their life. They just ignore it as if it doesn't exist. They are very difficult and moody. However aside from the fact that he is a worthless father, and human being, we got along well with each other for a while. Almost married the guy, one of the best decisions of my life was getting out of that relationship! Now I'm smitten with a taurus, he doesn't have to brown nose to keep me interested.