A Real Man???
@DeeLovesRed — August 26, 2016 12:35am — 20 replies
What do you all think??
Agree or Disagree?- Definitely disagree..
If my SO decides to spend his money on me fine.
If we're married, not expecting anything more than his share of the bills. Anything else is a plus.
Demanding kind of takes away for me.
And I'd need for my man to have his own. It's an indication of stability and responsibility.
I have my own bank account. - we're married, and we're joint on everything, so I guess this applies to us both by default, making me a real man too. :p
- It's called legal prostitution
Posted by Silvuh
Definitely disagree..
If my SO decides to spend his money on me fine.
If we're married, not expecting anything more than his share of the bills. Anything else is a plus.
Demanding kind of takes away for me.
And I'd need for my man to have his own. It's an indication of stability and responsibility.
I have my own bank account.
See the way I took it at first was..
Well sometimes you have those men who aren't great with managing money and they're very impulsive.. For instance: If the kids say they want a new bike, and the water bill hasn't been paid yet.. He'll buy the kids a new bike...
So When I seen it, I was like well I know I am a very responsible female.. I organize my money, I pay things in advance, I save A LOT, and I'm not an impulsive shopper/spender...
So off first thought, I said agree.. b/c I wouldn't want my SO to be impulsive... ESPECIALLY w/ $ $ $ $ $
But you brought up a good point, A Man who has a sense of responsibility, Someone who will think twice before being impulsive... & Now you I'm reevaluating my answer..Posted by DeeLovesRed
Posted by Silvuh
Definitely disagree..
If my SO decides to spend his money on me fine.
If we're married, not expecting anything more than his share of the bills. Anything else is a plus.
Demanding kind of takes away for me.
And I'd need for my man to have his own. It's an indication of stability and responsibility.
I have my own bank account.
See the way I took it at first was..
Well sometimes you have those men who aren't great with managing money and they're very impulsive.. For instance: If the kids say they want a new bike, and the water bill hasn't been paid yet.. He'll buy the kids a new bike...
So When I seen it, I was like well I know I am a very responsible female.. I organize my money, I pay things in advance, I save A LOT, and I'm not an impulsive shopper/spender...
So off first thought, I said agree.. b/c I wouldn't want my SO to be impulsive... ESPECIALLY w/ $ $ $ $ $
But you brought up a good point, A Man who has a sense of responsibility, Someone who will think twice before being impulsive... & Now you I'm reevaluating my answer..click to expand
Yeah i wouldn't want my dude buying compulsively either i get that haha
But ultimately, there's gotta be some trust factor there. I should trust you're responsible enough to decipher whether or not you've got financial leeway to buy the babe a bike.
I don't want to ration the money you make. I have no desire for control that way.
It's actually emasculating to me, I find that kind of incompetence gross ?? haha- When you're married and have children it's no longer his paycheck or her paycheck...it's the family's paycheck.
Posted by DeeLovesRed
What do you all think??
Agree or Disagree?
to be very honest, I like that my husband keeps a SECRET stash for himself away from myself
hahaha.
I need him to FEEL SECURITY to the max.
and he knows i'm gonna inherit a lot. lol
ok, seriously, it all goes into the family pool anyway.- Unrelated. I love this song.
