Advice need on an emotional affair...

I'm a Libra, easily dazzled and easily falls in love, well 10 years ago I swear I met the man of my dreams (Taurus). We dated for 2.5 years and I pushed him away when I went through some family crud. He dated and married another girl and they were together for about 6 years. I have a 3 year old child with a Virgo man that I just married 4 months ago. 2 years ago, me and Virgo split up and Taurus and I reconnected. I was so unbelievably happy and in love, but Virgo threatened suicide and I made the decision for my child to have a father and break my Taurus's and my own heart. Now I'm pregnant with Virgo's second child but I can't seem to get over my Taurus. I would do anything to be with him again, but I don't want Virgo to commit suicide or hate his children... and Taurus won't even give me the time of day.

I hate being an overly emotional sign... it's ridiculous...

I have tried reaching out to Taurus with no response, he has been in a relationship with 3 women, one his age, one 12 years old and now one 6 years younger. He wouldn't unblock me from social media, the last thing he said to me was that I emailed someone pretending to be someone else to ruin his life.... totally not true but he wouldn't let me prove it. Now I'm stuck, crying, hurt, the lump in my throat constantly, dreams that never end, I just want my dream man back.

Any advice on what I should do?

JFC

in all fairness I believe she meant 12 years older

however

the rest is fvcked up

out

Posted by shelbsuee
I have tried reaching out to Taurus with no response, he has been in a relationship with 3 women, one his age, one 12 years old and now one 6 years younger.

Leave the pedophile Taurus alone. Stop chasing scum that would use your innocent babes.

You have two children to prioritize and protect.

Also this isn't an emotional affair. This is a misguided one sided affair. He's blocked you and isn't responding to your attempts at communication.

Your romanticizing what you had with him as a distraction from life. Your a mother now. You can't afford to be distracted.

Firstly, your husband and yourself truly need some therapy and think about a divorce etc...

Secondly, why MARRY someone you don't love? WTF! I despise people who get married for the hell of it! ? Just out of convenience! yeah it is sooo convenient now... isn't it? ?

Forget the Taurus. Seriously, it's a ruined and uncertain future!

Do right by the kids, think of the kids and go to therapy with your husband! All the best!

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Posted by Isabeau90
Firstly, your husband and yourself truly need some therapy and think about a divorce etc...

Secondly, why MARRY someone you don't love? WTF! I despise people who get married for the hell of it! ? Just out of convenience! yeah it is sooo convenient now... isn't it? ?

Forget the Taurus. Seriously, it's a ruined and uncertain future!

Do right by the kids, think of the kids and go to therapy with your husband! All the best!

LOL! Love how you used the Ross gif in regard to marriage. As his character was the one with all the failed marriages 😆

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Haha!!

Well then! ....No gif was as "Convenient" as this! ??

These comments though ??.

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Posted by shelbsuee
II have a 3 year old child with a Virgo man that I just married 4 months ago.

You're all over the place.

You *just* got married and you now reconnected with an ex? Who's in a relationship with 3 women?

-_-

Ones a child. 12 year old

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I am sure it's 'older' common!!! And another one 6 y/younger...not that it's better anywho...

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Posted by shelbsuee
II have a 3 year old child with a Virgo man that I just married 4 months ago.

You're all over the place.

You *just* got married and you now reconnected with an ex? Who's in a relationship with 3 women?

-_-

Ones a child. 12 year old

I am sure it's 'older' common!!! And another one 6 y/younger...not that it's better anywho...

Just because I post on a thread does not mean you need to talk to me.

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When I see someone who isn't intelligent enough - I am eager to help!

I don't look at names. Stupid are all the same to me!