Apologies & Forgiveness

Have you apologized or forgiven someone? How did it go, what did you/they do?

byron, you might have to accept that you will never be able to apologise for this and she may never forgive you. you sound like you are obsessing over getting her to forgive in the hope that once she does she will come back. so if she does forgive you, will you then turn to making her come back? and then making her love you? and then making her behave in the way you want her to?

it's very controlling. ringing her phone hundreds of times a day is controlling. you did it because you weren't getting the response that you wanted and you are doing that here as well. you are continuing to ask the same question over and over, and probably will do until you get the response you want. the irony is it's you who is out of control. you can't seem to manage your own feelings so you are trying to manage hers instead.

you need to talk to someone about this.

Posted by jeane
byron, you might have to accept that you will never be able to apologise for this and she may never forgive you. you sound like you are obsessing over getting her to forgive in the hope that once she does she will come back. so if she does forgive you, will you then turn to making her come back? and then making her love you? and then making her behave in the way you want her to?

it's very controlling. ringing her phone hundreds of times a day is controlling. you did it because you weren't getting the response that you wanted and you are doing that here as well. you are continuing to ask the same question over and over, and probably will do until you get the response you want. the irony is it's you who is out of control. you can't seem to manage your own feelings so you are trying to manage hers instead.

you need to talk to someone about this.

i'm not trying to control her at all. i want her to see the control i have over myself, and everything else will follow. i won't accept the no's of strangers over something they can never understand. besides this thread is in a different forum and has a separate, broad subject.

Posted by Byron21

Posted by jeane
byron, you might have to accept that you will never be able to apologise for this and she may never forgive you. you sound like you are obsessing over getting her to forgive in the hope that once she does she will come back. so if she does forgive you, will you then turn to making her come back? and then making her love you? and then making her behave in the way you want her to?

it's very controlling. ringing her phone hundreds of times a day is controlling. you did it because you weren't getting the response that you wanted and you are doing that here as well. you are continuing to ask the same question over and over, and probably will do until you get the response you want. the irony is it's you who is out of control. you can't seem to manage your own feelings so you are trying to manage hers instead.

you need to talk to someone about this.

i'm not trying to control her at all. i want her to see the control i have over myself, and everything else will follow. i won't accept the no's of strangers over something they can never understand. besides this thread is in a different forum and has a separate, broad subject.

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you say in one sentence you're not trying to control her and in the next, explain what you want her to do so that the rest of your plan will come to fruition. maybe your plan is not the way it will be, what then?

if you don't think we understand, why ask our opinion? seems a waste of everyone's time.

Posted by jeane

Posted by Byron21

Posted by jeane
byron, you might have to accept that you will never be able to apologise for this and she may never forgive you. you sound like you are obsessing over getting her to forgive in the hope that once she does she will come back. so if she does forgive you, will you then turn to making her come back? and then making her love you? and then making her behave in the way you want her to?

it's very controlling. ringing her phone hundreds of times a day is controlling. you did it because you weren't getting the response that you wanted and you are doing that here as well. you are continuing to ask the same question over and over, and probably will do until you get the response you want. the irony is it's you who is out of control. you can't seem to manage your own feelings so you are trying to manage hers instead.

you need to talk to someone about this.

i'm not trying to control her at all. i want her to see the control i have over myself, and everything else will follow. i won't accept the no's of strangers over something they can never understand. besides this thread is in a different forum and has a separate, broad subject.

you say in one sentence you're not trying to control her and in the next, explain what you want her to do so that the rest of your plan will come to fruition. maybe your plan is not the way it will be, what then?

if you don't think we understand, why ask our opinion? seems a waste of everyone's time.

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This thread is about other peoples experience with forgiveness, the former thread is about a Libra's viewpoint on forgiveness. Neither thread is labeled as my own personal story, so I'm hardly asking opinions, but rather for non subjective insight surrounding my problem.

I rarely apologize for anything... they can take their sensitive ass somewhere else

Posted by starlover

Posted by Weeds
I rarely apologize for anything... they can take their sensitive ass somewhere else

So that means you think you are never in the wrong Mr Rapper

My Virgo ex is like this too

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Even when im wrong im right LOL
but I am working on it

Posted by starlover
...and i am sorry if i offended you at all weeds


😛

LOL works both ways