Aries Capricorn

I got to meet the cap girl that my Aries friend is dating he's been with this girl for less than a year she wants to get married already they haven't even lived together yet.

When I met her I gave her the Cancer glare it made her a little uneasy, I've heard about this girl I've never met her, I started talking to her she started to feel more comfortable around me. I spent most of the day with them at lunch she sat right beside me at the table she could have sat beside her BF. After awhile she was giving me eye contact and big toothy smiles.

I observed her for most of the time she's a control freak she hides it but it slips out, she's got the same traits as my other female cappy friend. This cappy woman is carrying some baggage it sounds like her family life wasn't the best she's been married and divorced once she's only 37 years old. He has baggage too he was in a relationship with a Scorpio she ended up screwing him over, he grew up without a father figure in his life his mom controlled every aspect of his life he's got some insecurity issues.

I'm getting this cappy woman is after his money he has a good job and lives in nice area he is possibly coming into money she's wanting marriage he's going along with it. You would think after the first go around with a damaged woman he would have learned his lesson he's seeing another one?

I get the gut feeling this isn't going to end well she's expecting a child so if things don't work out he will be paying child support for the next 18 years. I just shake my head and say to myself is why? Its his problem he's just screwed himself for the next 2 decades.

I read Aries Cap isn't a good combination, the girl is nice but she's got too much baggage her first marriage didn't last very long I get the feeling she wants to find another man before she starts losing her looks. He's desperate he's a typical aries man doesn't like being alone, his mom is a Taurus she coddled him when he was a kid he needed her approval to do anything. I know cappy women can be people users I seen that trait in my other cappy friend the world revolves around them, you stroke their ego they start purring.

Typical aries get themselves in a mess he should have tried living with her, in the short period I spent with them I could see tension there are things he does that annoys her.

What do you think good bad or disaster, if they move in together she ropes him in financially he's done.

So, you met her for one afternoon and now you know her? Really you don't know her that well, so you're not in a position to judge.

And, you say she's pregnant? Is it his?
You're saying if it doesn't work out, then he's screwed. Well, if it's his, then he's got that responsibility whether he stays with her or not.

Whyou don't you mind your business and stay out of theirs?

woah, so much judgement in such a short time...! Oh dear.
I think you should slow down a little bit, and maybe run these concerns past your friend first and foremost -before jumping to such negative
conclusions based on one or two meetings.
The narrative you've brought here isn't actually helping at all, it's simply reinforcing your own pre-set expectations. Remember your own internal dialogue is very powerful and you may contribute to the downfall of this relationship before it's even begun.
Not to mention it is probably none of your business?

Smh

Posted by thinktoomuch
Stihl you remind me so much of the cancer I dated, because he always used to say "I just shake my head at them" , so random! I´ve never heard other people use that phrase...

But what´s with the "she got comfortable around me and giving toothy smiles, sitting next to me, when she could have sat next to her byfriend"?!? Maybe, just maybe, she is trying to be nice to you, since you are her boyfriends friend.

You should learn how to differentiate between your own ways of being in a relationship or together with someone and how others do it. Gestures, looks, words and all that - it doesn´t always automatically mean, what you believe it to mean. That´s just your perception. Remember that.

That's a good point thinktoomuch, she probably was smiling and sitting next to him to be friendly, especially if she isn't intimidated easily and senses that he's bringing the hammer down on her hard, for no reason what so ever.
Who wouldn't sense how threatened he is by the relationship, and try to be as nice as possible?