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Posted by jane84A relationship that doesn't demand much and isn't particularly serious (I'm not even in 20's yet). I have rather limited time and either option will be an infrequent relationship until summer.
Hmm wondering who you feel would be a better option depending on your conversations with them..
I know a lot of Aqua/Gem and Aqua/Libra couples.
The Aqua/Gem are crazy and fun. They look like they really enjoy the company of the other.
The Aqua/Libra seem more stable, have children together. They seem very much in love.
What are you looking for in this relationship?

Posted by PlaguedMaybe.
Is there a 3rd option?
Would homeboy be okay with you tappin his sloppy seconds?

Posted by TheGreatSearcher
A relationship that doesn't demand much and isn't particularly serious
Posted by TheGreatSearcher.....best of luck to you.
Gem sun, Cap moon, Venus in cancer, Mars in gemini.
Libra sun, aqua moon, Venus in Scorpio, Mars in Virgo.click to expand

Posted by TheGreatSearcherLol I'd say neither then..Posted by jane84A relationship that doesn't demand much and isn't particularly serious (I'm not even in 20's yet). I have rather limited time and either option will be an infrequent relationship until summer.
Hmm wondering who you feel would be a better option depending on your conversations with them..
I know a lot of Aqua/Gem and Aqua/Libra couples.
The Aqua/Gem are crazy and fun. They look like they really enjoy the company of the other.
The Aqua/Libra seem more stable, have children together. They seem very much in love.
What are you looking for in this relationship?
A few side notes: both of them are the best friends with each other and the 2nd option could damage my reputation within a group of friends right now, but it won't affect anything if I wait for a while.
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Posted by UnusualVaginalDischargeWill do. Ty for advice.
Get to know both of them a lil better b4 you decide. Find out what THEY are looking for.
You want something fun.
Find out which one of them wants something fun as well.

Posted by UrsaMediocreI can usually see from a mile away if they are hoes.
Gem girl...Libra girl...not yet in your 20s...have fun, bruv. Just remember![]()

Posted by JubileeeeInteresting. I guess staying as friends is the right way to go, considering some limitations here and there.
Don't date if you don't feel like it and don't even risk until you really found someone you are interested in.
Honestly, if I were you in this situation and i feel like dating, i'll go with the person who has shown me interest.
If it's by chart, I'll go with girl 2 cause the signs link better.
But overall, I think i'll stay as friends since dating under 20's with limited time seems troublesome and i'll rather be free lmao

Posted by Alieness1. Judgement is up to me, it's just that I want to hear dxp's opinion on the matter. Just because I posted this doesn't mean I will do something until there's the right time.
Who calculates in such a manner to start a relationship?
Why exactly do u HAVE to have a relationship?

Posted by AlienessI prefer to avoid trouble or rejection.Posted by TheGreatSearcherStill...we go for relationships when we really like someone already. Not by carefully looking at pros n cons and comparing prospects. And ... regarding no 2. A close friend is sufficient..Posted by Alieness1. Judgement is up to me, it's just that I want to hear dxp's opinion on the matter. Just because I posted this doesn't mean I will do something until there's the right time.
Who calculates in such a manner to start a relationship?
Why exactly do u HAVE to have a relationship?
2. I want to have a relationship b/c I need some kind of emotional closure and I could really use someone who would listen to me. I live in a very limited environment, which means there will rarely be a choice when it comes down to life-related stuff and the only way you can get out of this situation is by migrating to another place (which is at this point looked down upon in 9/10 states, let's be real).
I mean ok you r young n all that but that is even more crazy because at that age one THINKS before relationships rarely. But well..I personally like the second chart ...I think it goes well with your chart ..if understanding and "emotional" needs r to be met..coz ur sun is conjunct her moon. And ur Mars conjunct her venus. Also, expecting warmth frm a gem sun with cap moon maybe met with disappointment..so u can try with the former first lolclick to expand


Posted by Undine
DIS or DAT 😄?! Hahaha!!!!
Not sure it's just your age, I could imagine my 50 yrs old Aqua Ex (also Aries moon, Pisces Venus) making "romantic" decisions in the same way....flip a coin?
So...avoid troble or rejection...tick
Get some emotional "closure", probably closeness...tick
Get someone to listen to you......tick
The G Searcher........what you really need is a dog!

Posted by TheGreatSearcherThen it stands to reason you don't have the time or budget for a girlfriend.Posted by Undine
DIS or DAT 😄?! Hahaha!!!!
Not sure it's just your age, I could imagine my 50 yrs old Aqua Ex (also Aries moon, Pisces Venus) making "romantic" decisions in the same way....flip a coin?
So...avoid troble or rejection...tick
Get some emotional "closure", probably closeness...tick
Get someone to listen to you......tick
The G Searcher........what you really need is a dog!
Don't have time for a dog. Would also take a toll on my budget.
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Posted by yupvirgoWill take your advice.
I really like you lol.
You remind me of myself when I was younger.
Both of them don't seem suitable for you if you're looking for less drama, low maintenance and low budget. But if you're just gonna be playing around, go for the first one who is interested in you and easier.
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Girl 1 (The one who has shown interested in me and would be the easiest option) -
Gem sun, Cap moon, Venus in cancer, Mars in gemini.
Girl 2 (She previously dated one of my good friends but they didn't click, would require for me a lot of time and effort) - Libra sun, aqua moon, Venus in Scorpio, Mars in Virgo.
If neither one of these work, I will maintain friendships and avoid any kind of serious relationship unless anything changes. Can bring up full charts of you lads need it. The first option might be inaccurate in some areas.