EXES GO AWAY!!!!

OMG, a guy I dated twice and broke my heart kinda, i run into when I am with my BF on the weekend. It was so awkward but I stayed distant and collected and said "Nice to see you, take care" and walked away.

sooooooooooo monday morning, the guy calls me at work, (I think he stalked my # down through common friends) and wants to meet up. Ugh! He is super hot & super fun but I am SUPER gonna kill him if he calls me again. I defintely know I don't like him that way, (you can tell these things when you see them again) but I hardly know what to say / do when I run into someone from the past like that, especially if they stalk you down at work!

You tell them exactly what you just told us. Don't like you in that way, with someone else, blah blah..But thanks for calling!

I think you should just be Cordial with him, when you tell him. Are you sure you don't have any underlineing feelings for him.

I would flattered if he actually took the time to locate my number. That's why I think you should be cordial, like SL said. Just tell him the way it is and he should get the hint.

WOW Sag!!! Have you been stung in the ass recently?

Right JP what is the deal Sag....lol...you so remind me of my sister who is a sag, Dec 3, and she trips like that all the time.

"no i think you need to teach this guy a lesson."

TRUST ME, definately crossed my mind for that freaking a $ $ hole.

hi sag 🙂

hi tg, tell him you're not interested, and if you don't like to be called at your work place, then tell him that straight, too. you and your man good again—

"i don't like to fuck around when it comes to social status, and work ethic." agreed.

lol sag, just make sure you don't start a fight just because you feel like bashing someone and you're alright. as easy as this 🙂 keep on confidently smiling mate, that?s a good start!

i must admit, the ?hi sag?-part has a certain irony to it. but not in a mocking way, just testing how you?d react :p still hate people being nice to you?

taking people?s work place and work ethics seriously, however, was a serious comment!

gotta go now 😢 ciao

what you mean, deserve it!? you're not a trained monkey. you know, nice people, comme moi, are nice in general. unless you're a complete a-s-s-h-o-l-e (on purpose!!!), you shouldn't have to do anything to 'deserve' friendly and kind treatment, that's understood, it should come naturally 🙂

btw, that one post was the only one time i was testing your reaction (in a harmless, playful way, even being completely frank about it and admitting it!!!), and only because you?ve been acting like a nut lately and i wanted to see whether you really had that sense of humor, that you're claiming you have 😛 before that i've never made any provocative comments and if you thought that i was "pushing buttons", hahaha, than you couldn't be more mistaken. that's not my style . and when someone starts accusing people of things *points at sag* without even a grain of proof or evidence, then this is pushing my "total destruction" button, and believe you me, that's no fun for the person pushing it!

but now we seem to have found common ground, even if it's only the size of a handkerchief. it?s still refreshing 😉

sag, you're paranoid... go get help. and that's certainly not "pushing buttons", it's what springs to mind when i read your last post, straight out. you being a dictator is an illusion, btw. you're never able to answer a question straight, all people get from you is indirectness, innuendos, hints and side blows. you're the vaguest person i know. the only thing you can voice clearly is insults. granted, 'fuck off' comes out easily. learn to articulate your concerns and wishes clearly but friendly. that?s real confidence. sometimes that's all it takes - bloody say what you want straight and you might as well get it! and stop ranting on about signs being this and signs being that, as if every person born in a certain period of the year was the same. like clones!?!?!?!—