KEEP CHEATING SECRET?

HEY EVERYBODY....NEW AT THIS SOOOOOO.WOULD YOU SCORPS TELL A FRIEND IF YOU KNEW THEIR SIGNIFICANT OTHER WAS CHEATING— HOW ABOUT IF BOTH OF THEM WERE YOUR FRIEND? I'M A VIRGO WITH THIS SITUATION.NOT SURE IF I'M IN THE DARK OR MY FRIEND WILL TELL ME WHAT'S UP.

oh thanks that's insightful

oh thanks that's insightful

sorry-like i said-new to this.Cross what bridge?

That's a good answer gem. My plot thickens a little tho. There was a 15 year relationship tween me and a saggi and the scorp came between us. Then they broke up and saggi and i got together again. Buttttttttt somewhere in there scorp and I became friends......kinda weird

ya i was with saggi for 15 years..scorp came along and they took off with my life and then only stayed together 1 year. They only got along for 2 months though. So ya me and scorp became friends

not sure about the cheating ...just wondered if most scorps would tell me if there was. (The scorp and saggi still work together)

This is a really strange chain of events. While scorp and saggi started to fight with each other scorp came to me for advice, and flirted with me..But we never became "FRIENDS" thataway

Hey gem I'm glad to here u say "where's the harm in that?" everyone I talked to seems to think I Godzilla or from another planet for liking my lover's ex

Thanks for the welcome DB..I guess talking about all this will slowly reveal all the extra little details (lot of 'em) but I couldn't write it all out...take 4ever.

oh sorry... I'm a she.....all three of us are

I am a bit lost..whats going on? you have two close friends and they are both dating and you've just found out that one of them is cheating on the other and your asking whether to tell?

Hmmmm..tricky..I say, their relationship none of my business!..when matters of the heart, leave that to the ones involved..unless of course the one cheating knows that you know..if you know what i mean!

Missm...my girlfriend cheated on me and left me for a scorp...they stayed together for a year but only got along for 2 months...I became friends with the scorp and then me and sag got back together.Now the scorp and the sag still work together but me and the sag are still together. Since my sag did it once she may do it again u know? I wonder if Scorp would tell me or maybe there even might be something going on again. My sag can lie quite well.

Also they met at work. So now even though she swears nothings going on I have my doubts. Would you scorps hang on to someone that went back to their ex and dumped you? Or would you call it quits 4 good. My sag was/can be really mean spirited and was to both me and the scorp. That's why we started being friends.'cause me and scorp had so many things to talk about-the sag.

o.k. is everyone gone? I can only message at work so I guess I picked a bad time to get advice. Hope u all have a great week-end! Thanks

I keep thinking I should move on too...15 years is alot of time to throw away u know?? But should I risk another 15 with heartbreak at the end? I'm inclined to get out just having a hard time making that final leap

Gem I appreciate that tho..u are soooooooo right it is driving me nuts...I makke that really plain to my sag but all I get is more comforting words. Problem is they are the same words I heard while she had an affair. So they really are kind of dead to me now.

Thanks Gem... I was beginning to think everybody dropped out of sight b/c of that 🙂

Good to know....Have a great week-end!🙂🙂

no just doing SOMEONE...lol joking

I would call it quits...

Hey if it were choice.....it'd be no joke lol

missm that seems to be the general concenses here. Would it be that easy if you were with someone for that long? There is a lot of life good and bad spent together here.

hi pwhiton.. i give you alot of credit, bc seeing as 15 yrs is yes of course alot of time invested in someone, things shared, feelings deepend...BUT i wouldn't be able to deal with the fact, bc me as a person i would drive myself mad and it would be EXTREMELY hard for me to trust that person once again. Would i forgive yes, sh^t happens .. your loss not mine. But i would only remain friends, no benefits ..just friends. If you need to come on here and check it out with other people then my outlook on this is...Negative.

missm that seems to be the general concenses here. Would it be that easy if you were with someone for that long? There is a lot of life good and bad spent together here.

It was easy for her to cheat knowing you that long ... Not trying to sound mean, please don't take it the wrong way but you get my point?

Evan though that wasn't to me..Sorry guys lol

Hi Juicy well I came on for my original quest to ask if a scorp friend would generally tell their friend if they knew they were being cheated on.But...I thought maybe could make a friend or two....🙂

You know I think I f****d up taking her back in the first place. Now it'll be harder.. but you are right Juice she did me without blinking

Well i'm a gemini, far off from a scorpio..So sorry for that, but as a person i was just trying to help. But just ask yourself what is a relationship without trust?..

Dont blame yourself, You went with what you felt at the time, and tryed it out...But go with your gut and stick with it.

I appreciate all of U..Just that the scorp is part of the scenario...juicy you and geminilover both gave good advice and ya no trust....in any relationship just can't work. You don't know how bad my heart broke. I may sound pitiful but I never saw it coming. I was told every night of my life by my sag how they couldn't live w/out me...hard to move on. Thanks for you're advice.lol

Well no offence but it was pretty easy for your girlfriend wasn't it!..so you should think along the same lines..I wouldn't have a problem cutting them out completely..done, dusted!..next victim..lol

stop sugar-coding it miss morals! lol 😉

'Scuse me I think Missm just pointed out I need to scrape something from the bottom of my shoes.....ahhhhhh. now that SMELLS better....U R sooooo right!

I was told every night of my life by my sag how they couldn't live w/out me...hard to move on. Thanks for you're advice.lol

Being told is only half of it..Actions speak louder then words alot of times, and her actions well..you know already. And no problem, glad to be of service =)

how do u make the wink?

out he comes from the bushes..Lol

smart *ss but I love it!

now don't stir our juicy 😉

Now thats the fighting spirit you newbie!..sorry mometarily forgot your name..

next to the definiton of Sarcasm and Smarta*s - you will find DBS picture... Ha the honey is comming out today !! Lol haha

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watch out for the evil ones...

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^very hard to distinguish the good from the bad

they are SNEEEAAKKYYY!!!

Just PW is good..Newbie sounds better. I'll be back u guys have fun... lol=)

MY FAVORITE PINK COSMO MAKER..HII! =D

As long as i know how and when to use it .. thats all that matters 😉

*hands juice her fave pink cosmo*

nurse this one okay babe?

itspretty stroong 😉

Aww DB..just checked out your picture..you look all sultry..you tart!..lol..bless

well it's one of the reasons i stick around DB!

*hands juice her fave pink cosmo*

nurse this one okay babe?

itspretty stroong

*JUST THE WAY I LIKE THEM! how do you do it?! =D

sultry...

hahah

brooding sl*nty scorpnut -_-

would be more like it

Well its the kind of "come hither, I am a lost puppy" look..lol..aww cute..

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