Are you addicted?

K, me & scorp are together everyday since last fri. That's SIX days, with the weekend 24 hours! Oh & a HUGE arguement in there too. I need a little space to collect. So yesterday he calls a bunch of times & wants to get together in evening. So that is plan.

After work I call him & he says he is in mood to have a few beers. I say OK, no prob babe, I am not in that mood, I'll go home & why don't u hang with your friends. He sounded a little edgy but said ok. I turn my cell off.

Hours later I turn phone on, & return his call & he is all flipped that I turned phone off & that he had planned to forget having beers & wanted to be with me & said whatever call you tommorow all attitudish.

Is this not childish?!! I almost wanna spend the weekend doing my own thing, but he's gonna freak then! I like him, but EVERY day?!!!

PEOPLE SERIOUSLY HAVE ADDICTION PROBLEMS WITH PEOPLE!!! It's worse than substance abuse!

It's good to have some time on your own. But sometimes when the relationship is new and hot, then he or she may miss you so much that they need to be with you.. I like to have time for myself but I understand also if someone wants to see me more than I need it right that moment.. Yes, he's addicted to you, TG 🙂 What would you think if he doesn't wanna see you as much as you wanna see him?

You're right GL, these recent actions are really starting to freak me out. When it's good though, it's super good, but last friday was his dad's funeral, and I know he's superfukked up about how to deal with it.

You know, I can't let excuses bring me down though, why stay if I'm getting hurt? I just thot, that maybe, just maybe, I wouldn't run for once when the going got tough.

YES, antibling, totally true. I HATE couples that are together constantly, like ffffffffff what are you gonna talk about if you are together ALL of the time?!!

i agree, i was involved with someone like that..great guy but i felt like i couldn't breath, always there, always questioning, always up my butt basically..i was like AY IM A GEMINI, I NEED MY SPACE!! i didn't say that, but i did tell him as gently as i could, that space is best for both of us. So maybe you just need to tell him in a nice way, you know you love the time both of you spend together, but your an independant girl and you like a little "me" time..

and just hope he doesn't come after you with an axe or worse..the "GUILT TRIP" loll

Lol @ Juicy..such a drama queen!

*strokes invisible beard*

good observation DB

Personally, I'm not as afraid of being alone as I am afraid of being known...

TG- we all get carried away by our emotions- we sometimes think we are "right" but what is right is also defined by the individual and can and will often very between two people...

try if you can to put yerself in his shoes...or use a movie camera and back away from the scene so that you can see the scope of things from a more objective perspective.

I hope you get through it o_O...just if one person really knows you, you will understand how our fear of expressing who we truly are only hinders us from growing...and that our fear of being known, it not a weakness we think it may be...

yes^ I stuggle with that every day DB...

-_- love the new pic btw-

O_o

gotta dash- I'll be back later...

Lol @ Juicy..such a drama queen!

lmao yes i am..damn it, can't evan hide it over the comp from you guys! =D

damn it DB always making me change my mind and see your points...uhh ::sighs:: sees DBs points.

your good you!

so todays lesson..i learned ..i am a drama queen and a skitzo basically...wonderful thanks guys! LOL

Do I go out with the immature ones? I go out with the FUN ones, who can be considered immature, but they know when to be serious. And no, they aren't immature, as in, freaking out if I don't answer the phone. But I've known some who are like that, yes. And I surely wouldn't have any kind of relationship with them!

Indeed

WOW, u guys write a lot! OK, where do I start?

DB, me turning my phone off is something I do, when I am tired of answering the phone & that way it goes straight to answering machine so people don't feel "ignored" but just that I am unavailable. Plus, my phone battery was almost dead and I didn't have charger on me.

"I personally think TG is addicted to drama..."

Perhaps I am, I am a passionate person, and the taurus/scorp thing is definately the fix for that! lol ughhh 😢

I am going to see him 2nite, we're going to a revolving restaurant & drinking a bottle of wine & I am going to tell him that we don't work the way things are...there ARE some underlying issues that we need to communicate. 2 weeks ago, I told him that maybe now wasn't a good time for a relationship but that when he is ready we could see how things go.

Goodluck. Just be honest, what you have just written is a very good idea.

I think Taureans suffer the most from being too addicted to other people. They don't like to lose anything of what they have, and plus I have too many Taurean male friends who can't deal with losing a girlfriend lol, it's very hard for me to watch them beg and cry for a second chance like they always do. So be careful Taurus! Taureans women are the ones who can complain forever about a marriage being almost over, but never work up the will to get a divorce or finally break it off! It can get a little ridiculous for you Bulls if you're not strong. In fact, too much consistency WILL take away from your solidarity and strengths, that much I know, and it's sad. Taureans suffer from inertia sometimes, plain and simple.

Oooh well if it isn't our Elliot!..howdy 😉

Howdy!

**in a sultry, husky voice to Elliot**

Hello..is it me your looking for 😉

*I think Taureans suffer the most from being too addicted to other people. They don't like to lose anything of what they have, and plus I have too many Taurean male friends who can't deal with losing a girlfriend lol, it's very hard for me to watch them beg and cry for a second chance like they always do. So be careful Taurus! Taureans women are the ones who can complain forever about a marriage being almost over, but never work up the will to get a divorce or finally break it off! It can get a little ridiculous for you Bulls if you're not strong. In fact, too much consistency WILL take away from your solidarity and strengths, that much I know, and it's sad. Taureans suffer from inertia sometimes, plain and simple.*

Quite interesting.

"Hello..is it me your looking for"

HAHA if you can say it like Demi Moore, then yes miss I've been looking for you.

And Juicy, if you're close to any Taureans, I mean even a little close (like just a few long conversations), you should sort of know what I mean.

well i'm cuspy of taurus/gem..thats why i found it interesting lol

LOL hi aprilbaby, are you drunk yet?

*runs over to scorp board real quick to steal aprilbabe's haagan daz blueberry chscake ice-cream during a commercial*

shitshitshit- *looks around frantically* spoon SPOON I need a spoooooon!!!!

Spongebob is gonna be back on in like 2 secs!!!

*an empty pint of haag's is tossed onto the thread and an evil giggling is heard off in the distance*

whaaaa??

that shit was low-fat!??

I wanted FULL FAT!!!!

well---it did taste a liitle grainy

but I'm not complaining!! What else you got in here??

*openes up thread door and hangs on it- letting all the cold air escape while deciding which food item to steal next*

I need to get into this whole Hagen Daaz experience..can't see what all the fuss is about to tell you the truth..but will go out and buy today.

I am fine thanks Bling..where you been me ol' china

Elliot: I will say it however you want me to say..I can easily adapt..me is a chameleonnnnnnnnnn

Heinz cheesecake..wtf?

It is mine 🙂

Oh gosh!..those days..eeeeeeeeeeeeeek..I am a sensible drunk now..when the plasma screens in bars start blurring..its time to stop..when I can make my own way home..I know I am in control..

What so you can be ready with a video camera?

plus,that thought came from your filthy mind....

Bling I am not a good girl all the time. I have my 'Bling' moment. I am sorry to say that you have corrupted me.

Scorpios are attracted to Virgos like the darkness to the light. They can't get enough of us because they are such a 'mess up' sign. However, when they see perfection two signs away...

no,i think Virgos want to indulge themselves in the Scorpio goodness

HA, like you all have any of that.

stop lying to yourself....you got Scorched by some half assed Scorp,Am I right—
did you check he really was, or did he just use that to try and fit the 'Sex Machine' stereotype—

I might have gotten scorched A BIT by his 'scorpioness', but I made sure I picked him part before I left. You scorpians don't scare us.

*rolls eyes*

Scorpios are nothing more then hot air.

you love them....

I love you Bling.

What you don't believe me?

Now that I said that I loved him he won't talk to me anymore.

Ha, I knew it would work. 🙂

Good Night Ms. Aprilbaby

OMG, seriously 8 pages added over the weekend?!! I can't read all this!

How's everyone?

fine sweets and you?

OK, need more coffee, I hate monday mornings.

Weekend with scorp was good, had some good talks, and relaxing together. 🙂 That in itself will help us grow together instead of tearing each other apart!

My only question right now is why the HE11 is the radio so awful on monday mornings!!!

good question...the radio ppl probably feel the same way.."why are people so awful on monday mornings" Lol