indiwoman
@indiwoman
9 Years
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Finally going to see him after 2 years...
I don't know that I would consider him asking you to visit as him 'initiating everything'. Your the one traveling to him and making the big effort.
Good luck tho
Good luck tho
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I do not know what to expect and whats to come from this but I guess I will find out. I am not keeping my hopes up.
By the way I am never the type to chase a guy...
But my gut keep telling me not to give up on him, something feels so right...
Also tables are turning as in he is initiating everything now.
Not exactly sure what the point of this post was maybe just a vent.
Any advice or comments is welcome.
Thanks