@Orchidee
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Posted by andswho
Wattle fetish
What sign are you and would you?
Unless the person is under age. I don't care who dates who or how old they are.
Edit: sorry the reference to "cancers" should have hinted to Cancer forum.
As you all were......
/leaves
Women look younger and younger these days.
At the same time, older men are losing their appeal.
Expect to see many more such combinations in the future. It's not just Cancer men or tiny (10 yrs) differences. Look at France's president.
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Posted by andswho
Wattle fetish
What sign are you and would you?
Taurus
Sure even better if she is in her 70s with a huge estate with no heirs
Oedipus complex is weird wouldn't your mom be in her 20s or 30s anyway when you are growing up
So you should be into that age group in theory right
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Hahhaha!!! Yes, well spotted. Oedipus complex could be actually responsible for men fixated on women in their 20-30ies. Bring on the older mothers 🙂!
Posted by MaxPower
Sure! My girl is two years older.
Not talking about that kind of age difference. Would you date someone 10+ older?
Orchidee
joined May 23, 2017
Posted by Ajna
dont believe in (gov) marriagebut yes. definitely
Would you say it has something to do with millenial men losing desire to procreate or simply not having one? Nowadays, when I speak to a younger man who is in his late 20s to late 30s, they all think children are a financial burden and or added responsiblility on their self-involved and carefree life style .
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Sure! My girl is two years older.
Not talking about that kind of age difference. Would you date someone 10+ older?
I definitely would have given a considerably older woman a chance when I was in my 30s. Now a woman 10 years older than me would be past menopause, or heading there. I'd have to think about that. I'd like to have at least one kid. My girlfriend has a kid, so if we can't have anymore, that will be fine. Most women in their 40s and beyond aren't interested in raising kids. They're done with all that.
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It's not even about women in their 40s being interested in raising kids or not. Their stamina and patience to raise goes down and chances of abnormalities in the child increase. They have no choice. No woman thinking with her head would do that. But the ones thinking with their emotions would pop a child whenever.
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Orchideejoined May 23, 2017
Is that a welcome message?
Posted by andswho
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Posted by andswho
Wattle fetish
What sign are you and would you?
Taurus
Sure even better if she is in her 70s with a huge estate with no heirs
Oedipus complex is weird wouldn't your mom be in her 20s or 30s anyway when you are growing up
So you should be into that age group in theory right
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lolllll. You're such a security oriented Taurus.
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Posted by MaxPower
Sure! My girl is two years older.
Not talking about that kind of age difference. Would you date someone 10+ older?
I definitely would have given a considerably older woman a chance when I was in my 30s. Now a woman 10 years older than me would be past menopause, or heading there. I'd have to think about that. I'd like to have at least one kid. My girlfriend has a kid, so if we can't have anymore, that will be fine. Most women in their 40s and beyond aren't interested in raising kids. They're done with all that.
It's not even about women in their 40s being interested in raising kids or not. Their stamina and patience to raise goes down and chances of abnormalities in the child increase. They have no choice. No woman thinking with her head would do that. But the ones thinking with their emotions would pop a child whenever.
That's simply false. Lots of women have healthy children in their 40s now. The instances of complications does go up, but the instances of being a shitty parent who was too young goes down.
My girlfriend had a kid at 41, and she chases him all over.
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Let me guess, single kid?
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no
Why not? Reasoning por favor.
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Posted by MaxPower
Sure! My girl is two years older.
Not talking about that kind of age difference. Would you date someone 10+ older?
I definitely would have given a considerably older woman a chance when I was in my 30s. Now a woman 10 years older than me would be past menopause, or heading there. I'd have to think about that. I'd like to have at least one kid. My girlfriend has a kid, so if we can't have anymore, that will be fine. Most women in their 40s and beyond aren't interested in raising kids. They're done with all that.
It's not even about women in their 40s being interested in raising kids or not. Their stamina and patience to raise goes down and chances of abnormalities in the child increase. They have no choice. No woman thinking with her head would do that. But the ones thinking with their emotions would pop a child whenever.
That's simply false. Lots of women have healthy children in their 40s now. The instances of complications does go up, but the instances of being a shitty parent who was too young goes down.
My girlfriend had a kid at 41, and she chases him all over.
Let me guess, single kid?
Who, what, why?
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Is that her only child?
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Posted by MaxPower
Sure! My girl is two years older.
Not talking about that kind of age difference. Would you date someone 10+ older?
I definitely would have given a considerably older woman a chance when I was in my 30s. Now a woman 10 years older than me would be past menopause, or heading there. I'd have to think about that. I'd like to have at least one kid. My girlfriend has a kid, so if we can't have anymore, that will be fine. Most women in their 40s and beyond aren't interested in raising kids. They're done with all that.
It's not even about women in their 40s being interested in raising kids or not. Their stamina and patience to raise goes down and chances of abnormalities in the child increase. They have no choice. No woman thinking with her head would do that. But the ones thinking with their emotions would pop a child whenever.
That's simply false. Lots of women have healthy children in their 40s now. The instances of complications does go up, but the instances of being a shitty parent who was too young goes down.
My girlfriend had a kid at 41, and she chases him all over.
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Being a bad parent has nothing to do with age. YOu can have kids at a young age or old age and be a good mom, but no one should be denying that stamina and patience goes down as we age and that's why our priorities shift. It's called aging.
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Posted by MaxPower
Sure! My girl is two years older.
Not talking about that kind of age difference. Would you date someone 10+ older?
I definitely would have given a considerably older woman a chance when I was in my 30s. Now a woman 10 years older than me would be past menopause, or heading there. I'd have to think about that. I'd like to have at least one kid. My girlfriend has a kid, so if we can't have anymore, that will be fine. Most women in their 40s and beyond aren't interested in raising kids. They're done with all that.
It's not even about women in their 40s being interested in raising kids or not. Their stamina and patience to raise goes down and chances of abnormalities in the child increase. They have no choice. No woman thinking with her head would do that. But the ones thinking with their emotions would pop a child whenever.
That's simply false. Lots of women have healthy children in their 40s now. The instances of complications does go up, but the instances of being a shitty parent who was too young goes down.
My girlfriend had a kid at 41, and she chases him all over.
Let me guess, single kid?
Who, what, why?
Is that her only child?
Yes.
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Of course. The poor woman finally had a kid at 41, she's going to cherish every moment and joy that comes with motherhood. When I see a woman who's had her first child at 40, it's usually a single child and I see them as very devoted parent. Can it be otherwise? Sure, but it's not likely.
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Posted by MaxPower
Sure! My girl is two years older.
Not talking about that kind of age difference. Would you date someone 10+ older?
I definitely would have given a considerably older woman a chance when I was in my 30s. Now a woman 10 years older than me would be past menopause, or heading there. I'd have to think about that. I'd like to have at least one kid. My girlfriend has a kid, so if we can't have anymore, that will be fine. Most women in their 40s and beyond aren't interested in raising kids. They're done with all that.
It's not even about women in their 40s being interested in raising kids or not. Their stamina and patience to raise goes down and chances of abnormalities in the child increase. They have no choice. No woman thinking with her head would do that. But the ones thinking with their emotions would pop a child whenever.
That's simply false. Lots of women have healthy children in their 40s now. The instances of complications does go up, but the instances of being a shitty parent who was too young goes down.
My girlfriend had a kid at 41, and she chases him all over.
Being a bad parent has nothing to do with age. YOu can have kids at a young age or old age and be a good mom, but no one should be denying that stamina and patience goes down as we age and that's why our priorities shift. It's called aging.
Speak for yourself, old man or old woman, whichever you are. I am in the best shape of my life. Healthier than I have ever been. Well, I'm getting some pudge on my stomach now because the Taurus is, indeed, a great cook, but other than that...
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So you're a delusional aged man?
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Posted by MaxPower
Sure! My girl is two years older.
Not talking about that kind of age difference. Would you date someone 10+ older?
I definitely would have given a considerably older woman a chance when I was in my 30s. Now a woman 10 years older than me would be past menopause, or heading there. I'd have to think about that. I'd like to have at least one kid. My girlfriend has a kid, so if we can't have anymore, that will be fine. Most women in their 40s and beyond aren't interested in raising kids. They're done with all that.
It's not even about women in their 40s being interested in raising kids or not. Their stamina and patience to raise goes down and chances of abnormalities in the child increase. They have no choice. No woman thinking with her head would do that. But the ones thinking with their emotions would pop a child whenever.
That's simply false. Lots of women have healthy children in their 40s now. The instances of complications does go up, but the instances of being a shitty parent who was too young goes down.
My girlfriend had a kid at 41, and she chases him all over.
Being a bad parent has nothing to do with age. YOu can have kids at a young age or old age and be a good mom, but no one should be denying that stamina and patience goes down as we age and that's why our priorities shift. It's called aging.
Speak for yourself, old man or old woman, whichever you are. I am in the best shape of my life. Healthier than I have ever been. Well, I'm getting some pudge on my stomach now because the Taurus is, indeed, a great cook, but other than that...
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You can get all the botox you want, do all the exercise you can, but fact of life is that ageing withers a human being. We start to decay. Putting on tons of make up, getting cosmetic surgeries doesn't change the fact that we are withering. Leave it to the West to sell that delusion to people that just because you look good on the outside, you're just as new on the inside.
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Posted by MaxPower
Sure! My girl is two years older.
Not talking about that kind of age difference. Would you date someone 10+ older?
I definitely would have given a considerably older woman a chance when I was in my 30s. Now a woman 10 years older than me would be past menopause, or heading there. I'd have to think about that. I'd like to have at least one kid. My girlfriend has a kid, so if we can't have anymore, that will be fine. Most women in their 40s and beyond aren't interested in raising kids. They're done with all that.
It's not even about women in their 40s being interested in raising kids or not. Their stamina and patience to raise goes down and chances of abnormalities in the child increase. They have no choice. No woman thinking with her head would do that. But the ones thinking with their emotions would pop a child whenever.
That's simply false. Lots of women have healthy children in their 40s now. The instances of complications does go up, but the instances of being a shitty parent who was too young goes down.
My girlfriend had a kid at 41, and she chases him all over.
Being a bad parent has nothing to do with age. YOu can have kids at a young age or old age and be a good mom, but no one should be denying that stamina and patience goes down as we age and that's why our priorities shift. It's called aging.
Speak for yourself, old man or old woman, whichever you are. I am in the best shape of my life. Healthier than I have ever been. Well, I'm getting some pudge on my stomach now because the Taurus is, indeed, a great cook, but other than that...
So you're a delusional aged man?
There's no delusion. LOL I just had my physical, in fact. My HDL is 60. My LDL is 50. My blood pressure was 110/70 and heart rate was 65. I'm happy. I sleep well. I'm only here because I'm on vacation and bored.
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LOL. That's cute. You don't need to prove anything to my stranger self. If you feel invigorated, that's fine. I'm not here to rain on your parade. I'm just stating a fact that one would be foolish to deny. Nothing trumps natural law.
Posted by CheVirgo
IDK females Like Mariah Carey, Angela Bassett etc have men almost 10 to 15 years younger.
Yeah, but celebs don't count. Their marriages are usually short lived and a joke.
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Posted by MaxPower
Sure! My girl is two years older.
Not talking about that kind of age difference. Would you date someone 10+ older?
I definitely would have given a considerably older woman a chance when I was in my 30s. Now a woman 10 years older than me would be past menopause, or heading there. I'd have to think about that. I'd like to have at least one kid. My girlfriend has a kid, so if we can't have anymore, that will be fine. Most women in their 40s and beyond aren't interested in raising kids. They're done with all that.
It's not even about women in their 40s being interested in raising kids or not. Their stamina and patience to raise goes down and chances of abnormalities in the child increase. They have no choice. No woman thinking with her head would do that. But the ones thinking with their emotions would pop a child whenever.
That's simply false. Lots of women have healthy children in their 40s now. The instances of complications does go up, but the instances of being a shitty parent who was too young goes down.
My girlfriend had a kid at 41, and she chases him all over.
Being a bad parent has nothing to do with age. YOu can have kids at a young age or old age and be a good mom, but no one should be denying that stamina and patience goes down as we age and that's why our priorities shift. It's called aging.
Speak for yourself, old man or old woman, whichever you are. I am in the best shape of my life. Healthier than I have ever been. Well, I'm getting some pudge on my stomach now because the Taurus is, indeed, a great cook, but other than that...
So you're a delusional aged man?
There's no delusion. LOL I just had my physical, in fact. My HDL is 60. My LDL is 50. My blood pressure was 110/70 and heart rate was 65. I'm happy. I sleep well. I'm only here because I'm on vacation and bored.
LOL. That's cute. You don't need to prove anything to my stranger self. If you feel invigorated, that's fine. I'm not here to rain on your parade. I'm just stating a fact that one would be foolish to deny. Nothing trumps natural law.
You sound like a sad sack. I'm sorry things aren't going well for you.
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Pondering makes me sad? Okay, then.
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Posted by MaxPower
Sure! My girl is two years older.
Not talking about that kind of age difference. Would you date someone 10+ older?
I definitely would have given a considerably older woman a chance when I was in my 30s. Now a woman 10 years older than me would be past menopause, or heading there. I'd have to think about that. I'd like to have at least one kid. My girlfriend has a kid, so if we can't have anymore, that will be fine. Most women in their 40s and beyond aren't interested in raising kids. They're done with all that.
It's not even about women in their 40s being interested in raising kids or not. Their stamina and patience to raise goes down and chances of abnormalities in the child increase. They have no choice. No woman thinking with her head would do that. But the ones thinking with their emotions would pop a child whenever.
That's simply false. Lots of women have healthy children in their 40s now. The instances of complications does go up, but the instances of being a shitty parent who was too young goes down.
My girlfriend had a kid at 41, and she chases him all over.
Being a bad parent has nothing to do with age. YOu can have kids at a young age or old age and be a good mom, but no one should be denying that stamina and patience goes down as we age and that's why our priorities shift. It's called aging.
Speak for yourself, old man or old woman, whichever you are. I am in the best shape of my life. Healthier than I have ever been. Well, I'm getting some pudge on my stomach now because the Taurus is, indeed, a great cook, but other than that...
You can get all the botox you want, do all the exercise you can, but fact of life is that ageing withers a human being. We start to decay. Putting on tons of make up, getting cosmetic surgeries doesn't change the fact that we are withering. Leave it to the West to sell that delusion to people that just because you look good on the outside, you're just as new on the inside.
So, why don't you tell us why you really started this thread. You clearly didn't want to know if other men would date older women.
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It's a phenomena that I'm observing lately and because it goes against natural law, I thought I explore it.
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Sure! My girl is two years older.
Not talking about that kind of age difference. Would you date someone 10+ older?
I definitely would have given a considerably older woman a chance when I was in my 30s. Now a woman 10 years older than me would be past menopause, or heading there. I'd have to think about that. I'd like to have at least one kid. My girlfriend has a kid, so if we can't have anymore, that will be fine. Most women in their 40s and beyond aren't interested in raising kids. They're done with all that.
It's not even about women in their 40s being interested in raising kids or not. Their stamina and patience to raise goes down and chances of abnormalities in the child increase. They have no choice. No woman thinking with her head would do that. But the ones thinking with their emotions would pop a child whenever.
That's simply false. Lots of women have healthy children in their 40s now. The instances of complications does go up, but the instances of being a shitty parent who was too young goes down.
My girlfriend had a kid at 41, and she chases him all over.
Being a bad parent has nothing to do with age. YOu can have kids at a young age or old age and be a good mom, but no one should be denying that stamina and patience goes down as we age and that's why our priorities shift. It's called aging.
Speak for yourself, old man or old woman, whichever you are. I am in the best shape of my life. Healthier than I have ever been. Well, I'm getting some pudge on my stomach now because the Taurus is, indeed, a great cook, but other than that...
So you're a delusional aged man?
There's no delusion. LOL I just had my physical, in fact. My HDL is 60. My LDL is 50. My blood pressure was 110/70 and heart rate was 65. I'm happy. I sleep well. I'm only here because I'm on vacation and bored.
LOL. That's cute. You don't need to prove anything to my stranger self. If you feel invigorated, that's fine. I'm not here to rain on your parade. I'm just stating a fact that one would be foolish to deny. Nothing trumps natural law.
You sound like a sad sack. I'm sorry things aren't going well for you.
Pondering makes me sad? Okay, then.
Why did you start the thread? Did you want to shit on older women?
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Wouldn't it suck if you find out that I could be an older woman. LOL. All your life you hear men saying "the younger the better" blah blah blah and then to witness this, it's fascinating.
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Sure! My girl is two years older.
Not talking about that kind of age difference. Would you date someone 10+ older?
I definitely would have given a considerably older woman a chance when I was in my 30s. Now a woman 10 years older than me would be past menopause, or heading there. I'd have to think about that. I'd like to have at least one kid. My girlfriend has a kid, so if we can't have anymore, that will be fine. Most women in their 40s and beyond aren't interested in raising kids. They're done with all that.
It's not even about women in their 40s being interested in raising kids or not. Their stamina and patience to raise goes down and chances of abnormalities in the child increase. They have no choice. No woman thinking with her head would do that. But the ones thinking with their emotions would pop a child whenever.
That's simply false. Lots of women have healthy children in their 40s now. The instances of complications does go up, but the instances of being a shitty parent who was too young goes down.
My girlfriend had a kid at 41, and she chases him all over.
Being a bad parent has nothing to do with age. YOu can have kids at a young age or old age and be a good mom, but no one should be denying that stamina and patience goes down as we age and that's why our priorities shift. It's called aging.
Speak for yourself, old man or old woman, whichever you are. I am in the best shape of my life. Healthier than I have ever been. Well, I'm getting some pudge on my stomach now because the Taurus is, indeed, a great cook, but other than that...
You can get all the botox you want, do all the exercise you can, but fact of life is that ageing withers a human being. We start to decay. Putting on tons of make up, getting cosmetic surgeries doesn't change the fact that we are withering. Leave it to the West to sell that delusion to people that just because you look good on the outside, you're just as new on the inside.
So, why don't you tell us why you really started this thread. You clearly didn't want to know if other men would date older women.
It's a phenomena that I'm observing lately and because it goes against natural law, I thought I explore it.
"natural law"
LOL
Okay, I get it. We got another DJ. I'm moving along.
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That's the guy! I was trying to remember this guy's name who is always going on about natural law. I wanted him to drop by and explain this too. I'd like his take on it too.
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IDK females Like Mariah Carey, Angela Bassett etc have men almost 10 to 15 years younger.
Yeah, but celebs don't count. Their marriages are usually short lived and a joke.
That's true Yeah IDK if males usually marry older females. I have not seen it personally.
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Yeah, it goes against natural law. Since I'm seeing a high occurrence in the opposite, it got me curious as to why it's happening.
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Sure! My girl is two years older.
Not talking about that kind of age difference. Would you date someone 10+ older?
I definitely would have given a considerably older woman a chance when I was in my 30s. Now a woman 10 years older than me would be past menopause, or heading there. I'd have to think about that. I'd like to have at least one kid. My girlfriend has a kid, so if we can't have anymore, that will be fine. Most women in their 40s and beyond aren't interested in raising kids. They're done with all that.
It's not even about women in their 40s being interested in raising kids or not. Their stamina and patience to raise goes down and chances of abnormalities in the child increase. They have no choice. No woman thinking with her head would do that. But the ones thinking with their emotions would pop a child whenever.
That's simply false. Lots of women have healthy children in their 40s now. The instances of complications does go up, but the instances of being a shitty parent who was too young goes down.
My girlfriend had a kid at 41, and she chases him all over.
Being a bad parent has nothing to do with age. YOu can have kids at a young age or old age and be a good mom, but no one should be denying that stamina and patience goes down as we age and that's why our priorities shift. It's called aging.
Speak for yourself, old man or old woman, whichever you are. I am in the best shape of my life. Healthier than I have ever been. Well, I'm getting some pudge on my stomach now because the Taurus is, indeed, a great cook, but other than that...
You can get all the botox you want, do all the exercise you can, but fact of life is that ageing withers a human being. We start to decay. Putting on tons of make up, getting cosmetic surgeries doesn't change the fact that we are withering. Leave it to the West to sell that delusion to people that just because you look good on the outside, you're just as new on the inside.
So, why don't you tell us why you really started this thread. You clearly didn't want to know if other men would date older women.
It's a phenomena that I'm observing lately and because it goes against natural law, I thought I explore it.
"natural law"
LOL
Okay, I get it. We got another DJ. I'm moving along.
That's the guy! I was trying to remember this guy's name who is always going on about natural law. I wanted him to drop by and explain this too. I'd like his take on it too.
Yes, the resident woman beater who masturbates to his posts bullying women.
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I don't care about this other stupid beliefs, but I do agree with some of the natural law things he talks about. You'd be a pure hater if you say that everything he says is wrong. He's not always typing out of his ass. Sometimes he's on point.
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IDK females Like Mariah Carey, Angela Bassett etc have men almost 10 to 15 years younger.
Yeah, but celebs don't count. Their marriages are usually short lived and a joke.
That's true Yeah IDK if males usually marry older females. I have not seen it personally.
Yeah, it goes against natural law. Since I'm seeing a high occurrence in the opposite, it got me curious as to why it's happening.
Yeah I have not done it but also never thought about it. I don't know if it's against natural law.
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It wouldn't be against natural law if you're going for a woman in her child bearing years, but it's off if she's barren and you're looking to have a kid.
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Is it against natural law for an younger woman to marry an older male? I don't know it all depends on the individual.
But that's part of natural law because younger woman is looking for financial stability plus women mature faster than men sexually and mentally.
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Sure! My girl is two years older.
Not talking about that kind of age difference. Would you date someone 10+ older?
I definitely would have given a considerably older woman a chance when I was in my 30s. Now a woman 10 years older than me would be past menopause, or heading there. I'd have to think about that. I'd like to have at least one kid. My girlfriend has a kid, so if we can't have anymore, that will be fine. Most women in their 40s and beyond aren't interested in raising kids. They're done with all that.
It's not even about women in their 40s being interested in raising kids or not. Their stamina and patience to raise goes down and chances of abnormalities in the child increase. They have no choice. No woman thinking with her head would do that. But the ones thinking with their emotions would pop a child whenever.
That's simply false. Lots of women have healthy children in their 40s now. The instances of complications does go up, but the instances of being a shitty parent who was too young goes down.
My girlfriend had a kid at 41, and she chases him all over.
Being a bad parent has nothing to do with age. YOu can have kids at a young age or old age and be a good mom, but no one should be denying that stamina and patience goes down as we age and that's why our priorities shift. It's called aging.
Speak for yourself, old man or old woman, whichever you are. I am in the best shape of my life. Healthier than I have ever been. Well, I'm getting some pudge on my stomach now because the Taurus is, indeed, a great cook, but other than that...
You can get all the botox you want, do all the exercise you can, but fact of life is that ageing withers a human being. We start to decay. Putting on tons of make up, getting cosmetic surgeries doesn't change the fact that we are withering. Leave it to the West to sell that delusion to people that just because you look good on the outside, you're just as new on the inside.
So, why don't you tell us why you really started this thread. You clearly didn't want to know if other men would date older women.
It's a phenomena that I'm observing lately and because it goes against natural law, I thought I explore it.
"natural law"
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Okay, I get it. We got another DJ. I'm moving along.
That's the guy! I was trying to remember this guy's name who is always going on about natural law. I wanted him to drop by and explain this too. I'd like his take on it too.
Yes, the resident woman beater who masturbates to his posts bullying women.
I don't care about this other stupid beliefs, but I do agree with some of the natural law things he talks about. You'd be a pure hater if you say that everything he says is wrong. He's not always typing out of his ass. Sometimes he's on point.
Maybe when he isn't talking about gender. Everything he says about men, women, sex, and love is based on the fact that he hates his mother and father. His mommy never loved him, his dad was abusive, and as soon as he outgrew his dad, he started abusing him and calling him a "shortcel."
He posted all of this on the forum, so I don't think I'm outting him.
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I don't know about everything he says and nor do I pay attention to his bullshit posts, but the posts I have read of his, he was rational and logical about the matter (biology of it all).
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IDK females Like Mariah Carey, Angela Bassett etc have men almost 10 to 15 years younger.
Yeah, but celebs don't count. Their marriages are usually short lived and a joke.
That's true Yeah IDK if males usually marry older females. I have not seen it personally.
Yeah, it goes against natural law. Since I'm seeing a high occurrence in the opposite, it got me curious as to why it's happening.
Yeah I have not done it but also never thought about it. I don't know if it's against natural law.
It wouldn't be against natural law if you're going for a woman in her child bearing years, but it's off if she's barren and you're looking to have a kid.
I'm sorry I lied/spoke too soon, I know one friend when I was in the military he was in his late 20's and married an woman in her late 30s to 40s. They are still together and have a child. I alway thought woman don't do younger men because they felt the younger the less mature he is.
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For the most part, yes. Men, when younger, aren't that mature and their priorities are very different from a woman's. Men aren't looking to be tied down at a younger age. How many guys do you know in their 20s and early 30s (modern day of course) who want to get married and have kids?
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Is it against natural law for an younger woman to marry an older male? I don't know it all depends on the individual.
But that's part of natural law because younger woman is looking for financial stability plus women mature faster than men sexually and mentally.
That sounds like the woman is not looking for love but a father figure or sugar daddy, someone to take care of her and pay her bills. I'm not disagreeing or agreeing lol I honesty don't know.
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You should know that women subconciously look for financial stability for themselves and their offspring. It's their nature. A woman that is looking to support a man financially is just thirsty for love and desperate to be in a relationship.
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Sure! My girl is two years older.
Not talking about that kind of age difference. Would you date someone 10+ older?
I definitely would have given a considerably older woman a chance when I was in my 30s. Now a woman 10 years older than me would be past menopause, or heading there. I'd have to think about that. I'd like to have at least one kid. My girlfriend has a kid, so if we can't have anymore, that will be fine. Most women in their 40s and beyond aren't interested in raising kids. They're done with all that.
It's not even about women in their 40s being interested in raising kids or not. Their stamina and patience to raise goes down and chances of abnormalities in the child increase. They have no choice. No woman thinking with her head would do that. But the ones thinking with their emotions would pop a child whenever.
That's simply false. Lots of women have healthy children in their 40s now. The instances of complications does go up, but the instances of being a shitty parent who was too young goes down.
My girlfriend had a kid at 41, and she chases him all over.
Being a bad parent has nothing to do with age. YOu can have kids at a young age or old age and be a good mom, but no one should be denying that stamina and patience goes down as we age and that's why our priorities shift. It's called aging.
Speak for yourself, old man or old woman, whichever you are. I am in the best shape of my life. Healthier than I have ever been. Well, I'm getting some pudge on my stomach now because the Taurus is, indeed, a great cook, but other than that...
You can get all the botox you want, do all the exercise you can, but fact of life is that ageing withers a human being. We start to decay. Putting on tons of make up, getting cosmetic surgeries doesn't change the fact that we are withering. Leave it to the West to sell that delusion to people that just because you look good on the outside, you're just as new on the inside.
So, why don't you tell us why you really started this thread. You clearly didn't want to know if other men would date older women.
It's a phenomena that I'm observing lately and because it goes against natural law, I thought I explore it.
"natural law"
LOL
Okay, I get it. We got another DJ. I'm moving along.
That's the guy! I was trying to remember this guy's name who is always going on about natural law. I wanted him to drop by and explain this too. I'd like his take on it too.
Yes, the resident woman beater who masturbates to his posts bullying women.
I don't care about this other stupid beliefs, but I do agree with some of the natural law things he talks about. You'd be a pure hater if you say that everything he says is wrong. He's not always typing out of his ass. Sometimes he's on point.
Maybe when he isn't talking about gender. Everything he says about men, women, sex, and love is based on the fact that he hates his mother and father. His mommy never loved him, his dad was abusive, and as soon as he outgrew his dad, he started abusing him and calling him a "shortcel."
He posted all of this on the forum, so I don't think I'm outting him.
I don't know about everything he says and nor do I pay attention to his bullshit posts, but the posts I have read of his, he was rational and logical about the matter (biology of it all).
He fakes rational and logical, just as he fakes being intelligent. As soon as someone gets him, which is pretty early on every time, he starts attacking women and losing his cool. He has to post faster, so his grammar gets worse and worse, showing that he is actually not educated at all. And then he disappears.
Are you DJ? LOL
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When people attack you for your beliefs, it's natural to attack back. That's what he does. He starts to type fast and that's where the grammar starts to slip in my opinion. I know if someone on the net is able to get a reaction from me, I start to type fast. Then, my spelling starts to get affected. LOL. I'm not his representative here to defend him and we should stop discussing him. I'm not that impressed by him. Just some of his views coincide with mine.
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IDK females Like Mariah Carey, Angela Bassett etc have men almost 10 to 15 years younger.
Yeah, but celebs don't count. Their marriages are usually short lived and a joke.
That's true Yeah IDK if males usually marry older females. I have not seen it personally.
Yeah, it goes against natural law. Since I'm seeing a high occurrence in the opposite, it got me curious as to why it's happening.
Yeah I have not done it but also never thought about it. I don't know if it's against natural law.
It wouldn't be against natural law if you're going for a woman in her child bearing years, but it's off if she's barren and you're looking to have a kid.
I'm sorry I lied/spoke too soon, I know one friend when I was in the military he was in his late 20's and married an woman in her late 30s to 40s. They are still together and have a child. I alway thought woman don't do younger men because they felt the younger the less mature he is.
For the most part, yes. Men, when younger, aren't that mature and their priorities are very different from a woman's. Men aren't looking to be tied down at a younger age. How many guys do you know in their 20s and early 30s (modern day of course) who want to get married and have kids?
lol I know a lot of Men around my age that want to be tied down. Most men don't like the going outside and being in a million people faces.
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Tied down in a relationship or in marriage? Also, what culture do they belong to?
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IDK females Like Mariah Carey, Angela Bassett etc have men almost 10 to 15 years younger.
Yeah, but celebs don't count. Their marriages are usually short lived and a joke.
That's true Yeah IDK if males usually marry older females. I have not seen it personally.
Yeah, it goes against natural law. Since I'm seeing a high occurrence in the opposite, it got me curious as to why it's happening.
Yeah I have not done it but also never thought about it. I don't know if it's against natural law.
It wouldn't be against natural law if you're going for a woman in her child bearing years, but it's off if she's barren and you're looking to have a kid.
I'm sorry I lied/spoke too soon, I know one friend when I was in the military he was in his late 20's and married an woman in her late 30s to 40s. They are still together and have a child. I alway thought woman don't do younger men because they felt the younger the less mature he is.
For the most part, yes. Men, when younger, aren't that mature and their priorities are very different from a woman's. Men aren't looking to be tied down at a younger age. How many guys do you know in their 20s and early 30s (modern day of course) who want to get married and have kids?
lol I know a lot of Men around my age that want to be tied down. Most men don't like the going outside and being in a million people faces.
Tied down in a relationship or in marriage? Also, what culture do they belong to?
Nah my homies wanted to married, all very stabled young black men from ages of 25 to 32. Most of their occupation are Board Of Education, Post Office, Military, Audio Engineers and HVAC.
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You only find young men with religion like Stephen Curry or who have reached financial stability at a young age looking to do that. I know a guy who is 27 and chose to get married, but he's religious and didn't want to commit the sin of pre-marital sex.
I have dated the following and was in long term relationships with them. Listed are the ages in which we began to date
Cancer: 24 Me: 34
Gemini: 27 Me: 33
I have a few guys that actively try and chase me from the ages of 24-26 still.
No matter their sign, it all depends on the man and the woman.
Ok, I'm not a man BUT if an old sick and rich woman would ask me to marry her maybe I would say yes. I'd bang her to death (best way to die) and then I'll go find some fresh meat.
ayyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy
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Contrary to the popular belief that men don't date/prefer older women, I find Cancers, as chauvinistic as they are, do in their younger days (20s to 30s). I know couple Cancer guys who are in their 30s dating a women nearing 40s to late 40s. Granted that some of these women look young, but I thought 30s is when men get serious about finding someone to build a life with? What gives? Oedipus complex perhaps?
is this about the new French President who met his wife when he was 15 years old and she is 39 years old at the time??
let's throw in Hugh Jackman too....
how come he doesn't want anyone else when there are young supple women out there??
it's like this...
"Hey you old lady, why the hell am I doing with you??!! you is OLD!! grandma!!"
*she cries*
"What? I thought you loved me? why did you want to be with me and court me?? just to play games?"
"I just wanted to see what it was like, to be with someone as old as my grandma!!"
*she cries and runs away, horrid to find out cruelly that there are cruel young men playing games with older women's hearts.*
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"Hey why is J. Lo and Madonna going after baby boys?"
"they want more babies!"
....
see? how cruel that is??
The problem is you can't socially pressure someone to feel attraction. That is why I dont get upset if I see people of varying races or ages date each other, because it's their choice. It is true some cultures and parts of the country will be more open minded or have more people in "non-traditional" relationships, but in things like this "fair" has nothing to do with it.
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IDK females Like Mariah Carey, Angela Bassett etc have men almost 10 to 15 years younger.
Yeah, but celebs don't count. Their marriages are usually short lived and a joke.
That's true Yeah IDK if males usually marry older females. I have not seen it personally.
Yeah, it goes against natural law. Since I'm seeing a high occurrence in the opposite, it got me curious as to why it's happening.
Yeah I have not done it but also never thought about it. I don't know if it's against natural law.
It wouldn't be against natural law if you're going for a woman in her child bearing years, but it's off if she's barren and you're looking to have a kid.
I'm sorry I lied/spoke too soon, I know one friend when I was in the military he was in his late 20's and married an woman in her late 30s to 40s. They are still together and have a child. I alway thought woman don't do younger men because they felt the younger the less mature he is.
For the most part, yes. Men, when younger, aren't that mature and their priorities are very different from a woman's. Men aren't looking to be tied down at a younger age. How many guys do you know in their 20s and early 30s (modern day of course) who want to get married and have kids?
lol I know a lot of Men around my age that want to be tied down. Most men don't like the going outside and being in a million people faces.
Tied down in a relationship or in marriage? Also, what culture do they belong to?
Nah my homies wanted to married, all very stabled young black men from ages of 25 to 32. Most of their occupation are Board Of Education, Post Office, Military, Audio Engineers and HVAC.
You only find young men with religion like Stephen Curry or who have reached financial stability at a young age looking to do that. I know a guy who is 27 and chose to get married, but he's religious and didn't want to commit the sin of pre-marital sex.
Yeah my friends and I are not religious at all. I personally don't believe in marriage. If the love is there she needs to trust and believe that this is my family and I ain't leaving but I am not going under a contract for marriage. It's nothing but an agreed debt to the gov't. Thats my personal beliefs though
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I agree on the institution of marriage.
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Ok, I'm not a man BUT if an old sick and rich woman would ask me to marry her maybe I would say yes. I'd bang her to death (best way to die) and then I'll go find some fresh meat.ayyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy
Ulterior motive is there too.
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The problem is you can't socially pressure someone to feel attraction. That is why I dont get upset if I see people of varying races or ages date each other, because it's their choice. It is true some cultures and parts of the country will be more open minded or have more people in "non-traditional" relationships, but in things like this "fair" has nothing to do with it.
I really like most of what you said....
starting with "the problem" is....
because in truth, there is no problem. if people love eachother, there shouldn't be a problem when it concerns the heart.
however,you're right. that people of all over will try to control who you love and who you should love.
it happens from even when we're young with our parents and they are already mentioning the types of men their daughters should be with...
or when their dauhgters or son, for example realize they are gay/homosexual, so their parents, could either be open minded, meaning, they love their children to be accepting or will be adamant and hateful because it didn't fit their "niche" or they are trying to keep up appearances.
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The problem is you can't socially pressure someone to feel attraction. That is why I dont get upset if I see people of varying races or ages date each other, because it's their choice. It is true some cultures and parts of the country will be more open minded or have more people in "non-traditional" relationships, but in things like this "fair" has nothing to do with it.
Nobody is talking about fair or unfair and nor should anyone be getting upset when they see people of varying races and ages date each other. The premise of this post is nothing trumps natural law and the social deviance we see nowadays has got to have a more concrete explanation and something as simple as "you can't socially pressure someone to feel attraction" is not sufficient. The question is not of feeling attraction. You can feel attraction for multiple people at one time. It's about what's driving a person to go against nature.
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The problem is you can't socially pressure someone to feel attraction. That is why I dont get upset if I see people of varying races or ages date each other, because it's their choice. It is true some cultures and parts of the country will be more open minded or have more people in "non-traditional" relationships, but in things like this "fair" has nothing to do with it.Nobody is talking about fair or unfair and nor should anyone be getting upset when they see people of varying races and ages date each other. The premise of this post is nothing trumps natural law and the social deviance we see nowadays has got to have a more concrete explanation and something as simple as "you can't socially pressure someone to feel attraction" is not sufficient. The question is not of feeling attraction. You can feel attraction for multiple people at one time. It's about what's driving a person to go against nature.
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Contrary to the popular belief that men don't date/prefer older women, I find Cancers, as chauvinistic as they are, do in their younger days (20s to 30s). I know couple Cancer guys who are in their 30s dating a women nearing 40s to late 40s. Granted that some of these women look young, but I thought 30s is when men get serious about finding someone to build a life with? What gives? Oedipus complex perhaps?
10 year age difference is so minuscule, it doesn't qualify for the younger guy, older woman discussion imo. Especially if your talking the difference between 30s/40s.
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im hoping for twins by 41.
Aren't you in your late 30s??
You need to settle asap. Cause you figure 1-1.5 years dating, 6-8months to plan the wedding and then give yourself a least 6 months to get knocked up. Just right there your looking at 3 years minimum for your twins.
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The problem is you can't socially pressure someone to feel attraction. That is why I dont get upset if I see people of varying races or ages date each other, because it's their choice. It is true some cultures and parts of the country will be more open minded or have more people in "non-traditional" relationships, but in things like this "fair" has nothing to do with it.Nobody is talking about fair or unfair and nor should anyone be getting upset when they see people of varying races and ages date each other. The premise of this post is nothing trumps natural law and the social deviance we see nowadays has got to have a more concrete explanation and something as simple as "you can't socially pressure someone to feel attraction" is not sufficient. The question is not of feeling attraction. You can feel attraction for multiple people at one time. It's about what's driving a person to go against nature.
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Actually it's going WITH nature.
Women live on average 10 years older than men. Also they reach their sexual peak later in life. So nature is telling you to get with a woman whose older.
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im hoping for twins by 41.
Aren't you in your late 30s??
You need to settle asap. Cause you figure 1-1.5 years dating, 6-8months to plan the wedding and then give yourself a least 6 months to get knocked up. Just right there your looking at 3 years minimum for your twins.
No, first knocked up within 6 months, marriage by 42.
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Safer bet is just to freeze your eggs. Marry a billionaire and hire a surrogate
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The problem is you can't socially pressure someone to feel attraction. That is why I dont get upset if I see people of varying races or ages date each other, because it's their choice. It is true some cultures and parts of the country will be more open minded or have more people in "non-traditional" relationships, but in things like this "fair" has nothing to do with it.Nobody is talking about fair or unfair and nor should anyone be getting upset when they see people of varying races and ages date each other. The premise of this post is nothing trumps natural law and the social deviance we see nowadays has got to have a more concrete explanation and something as simple as "you can't socially pressure someone to feel attraction" is not sufficient. The question is not of feeling attraction. You can feel attraction for multiple people at one time. It's about what's driving a person to go against nature.
Actually it's going WITH nature.
Women live on average 10 years older than men. Also they reach their sexual peak later in life. So nature is telling you to get with a woman whose older.
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It's not about sexual peak, my dear. It's about sexual maturity in terms of when you become fertile.
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Contrary to the popular belief that men don't date/prefer older women, I find Cancers, as chauvinistic as they are, do in their younger days (20s to 30s). I know couple Cancer guys who are in their 30s dating a women nearing 40s to late 40s. Granted that some of these women look young, but I thought 30s is when men get serious about finding someone to build a life with? What gives? Oedipus complex perhaps?