Going back?

I noticed with my Pisces/Aqua moon friend a pattern of ending relationships then going back to them only for them to fail again.

My own experience is whenever I’ve gone back to a relationship (just the once) it’s ended up not working out again. As a Scorpio it has to be pretty bad to end it so looking back it made no sense to return to what didn’t work.

What are your thoughts and experiences?

Posted by Overthinker
I've never really gone back. Imo once when it's done it's done permanently. Either we had a big fight and reconciled or we ended it entirely and permanently. I take a really loooooong time to let go of something I was in with all my heart but once I do, there is no turning back. I honestly can't understand longing for someone you were with and ended it for one reason or another. I can only long for someone I was never with...it took me 3 years to completely let go of my Taurus ex, but when I did it was forever.

Thanks, I’m exactly the same

Do you have Scorpio/Pluto stuff in your chart, Sag?

I don't. Rather depends why the relationship ended in the first place. I'm being to understand why majority of people burn the bridge when a serious relationship ends. People can't handle being just friends. All those memories and and good experiences. Slipping back into the old rhythm, the good parts. I haven't heard of many bring open to caring and mature enough to do that. Yet, I'm big on love, and a affectionate human. I wouldn't mind being friends with a ex. So long as we are truly let go and transitioned into a different kind of relationship we both are happy with. I envy and would like to be around people with hearts and minds like that. Those are my peeps I'm looking for.

i'm under heavy medication at the moment so maybe idk what i'm talking about.

but i've only ever done this once and the other person would just say some nice words, act different and then go back to their same old self. maybe it works for other people but i feel like most people don't really change. you have to be someone who is genuinely introspective to be able to do that.

and it feels kinda 'forced' and 'fake' like you're trying to make it happen but all you really get is this inevitable doomed vibes about it.

i went back with one ex multiple times at the time. it really felt like the world would end, and i had a weird depressive episode. kind of like a drug- when ur back together, that feeling would stop. somehow i lost feelings and now i know better and there were many reasons why that relationship wouldn't work out.

I think it depends on why it ended and who ended it. And if there was closure or not.

Only my first ex ever took me back, I finally dumped him after 2.5 years when I overheard him tell someone he hates me

The second ex I dumped because he showed me a text where he told a girl he doesn't gaf about me

First one is dead now but if I'm driven to dump someone (irl) I won't speak to him again

The other men who dumped me usually string me along as long as possible but never take me back

Posted by xyzabc
I think it depends on why it ended and who ended it. And if there was closure or not.

Did you ever go back to an ex and did it ever work out well for you Scorp?

Posted by virgoOPPP
i'm under heavy medication at the moment so maybe idk what i'm talking about.


but i've only ever done this once and the other person would just say some nice words, act different and then go back to their same old self. maybe it works for other people but i feel like most people don't really change. you have to be someone who is genuinely introspective to be able to do that.


and it feels kinda 'forced' and 'fake' like you're trying to make it happen but all you really get is this inevitable doomed vibes about it.

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