Aquarius Friend…

Hello, so I’ve been knowing an Aquarius for 2 years now yet we just recently started to get close and communicate daily. I’ve been introduced to his circle, his mom and sister/kids. He does things for me that friends wouldnt normally do, I know Aquarius can be hot and cold whenever the urge comes on. He does saying advance that he’s about to disappear, he’s done it once, now as of yesterday evening this is the second time. Is this natural? Like does he want more?

You've known him for 2 years , talked and laughed with him, shared things, seen him happy, seen him sad... done things together, met his family etc etc etc

Yet you come here asking people you have never met whether a guy they didn't know existed wants more with you, a person they know absolutely nothing of...

I'm not being mean, I'm just saying , what do you think/feel? What are you hoping to hear?

Two years is good time to know the ins and outs of a person. So, what do you think?

Posted by Bumboklaat
Yeah that's normal. He's probably battling with his feelings. I used to be like that.

Aquarius needs a lot of time to fully analyze everything and make an ultimate decision.

We just recently starting getting to that stage the last 8 months.

Posted by yourMother
Aquarius aren’t hot and cold though. Just cold lol but the consistency is key 🔑 I think that’s why I like them so much. Arty and smart and consistent.

Them being consistent?

Posted by Diva191327
Hello, so I’ve been knowing an Aquarius for 2 years now yet we just recently started to get close and communicate daily. I’ve been introduced to his circle, his mom and sister/kids. He does things for me that friends wouldnt normally do, I know Aquarius can be hot and cold whenever the urge comes on. He does saying advance that he’s about to disappear, he’s done it once, now as of yesterday evening this is the second time. Is this natural? Like does he want more?

Whatever he wants he is prepared to gamble it and thus is prepared to lose it.

Posted by yourMother
Aquarius aren’t hot and cold though. Just cold lol but the consistency is key 🔑 I think that’s why I like them so much. Arty and smart and consistent.

Ok yes this is NOT to do with the topic .. but reminds me of a female aqua friend ..

Yes surprisingly consistent. One is surprising me now with her consistency and work ethic. I think the issue is Aquas come off as .. lazy or flakey. But they are not really. They have good work ethic. Although their presentation i feel lets them down a lot. They fail to realize how they come off to others or they dont care.. and a lot of them dont realize how that holds them back.

I don't think it really means anything unless you're actually romantically involved? Aquarius are better friends than lovers. If he introduces you to his family and friends could still mean that he only likes you as a friend.

My aqua friend did the same. He helped me a lot because I was new to the area. I met his family and friends. We were sometimes a bit more than typical friends. 😂 But still friends were what we still were. He's very aquarius and loves his freedom. He has a gf now and I'm happy for him.

Hate to break it to ya, but this is going to be a constant theme with the air signs. If you want consistency, go for an Earth sign person that has compatible, venus, mars, jupiter and saturn with you.

Posted by yourMother

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Posted by yourMother
Aquarius aren’t hot and cold though. Just cold lol but the consistency is key 🔑 I think that’s why I like them so much. Arty and smart and consistent.

Ok yes this is NOT to do with the topic .. but reminds me of a female aqua friend ..
Yes surprisingly consistent. One is surprising me now with her consistency and work ethic. I think the issue is Aquas come off as .. lazy or flakey. But they are not really. They have good work ethic. Although their presentation i feel lets them down a lot. They fail to realize how they come off to others or they dont care.. and a lot of them dont realize how that holds them back.

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I think it’s sort of endearing lol 💜

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Yeah of course. Ha

Posted by Diva191327
Hello, so I’ve been knowing an Aquarius for 2 years now yet we just recently started to get close and communicate daily. I’ve been introduced to his circle, his mom and sister/kids. He does things for me that friends wouldnt normally do, I know Aquarius can be hot and cold whenever the urge comes on. He does saying advance that he’s about to disappear, he’s done it once, now as of yesterday evening this is the second time. Is this natural? Like does he want more?

If he is disappearing, he's not that interested.