Have you ever been in a one sided relationship?

What tipped you off?

Yeah with my six year relationship..the cheating was it and the women being able to tell me what color boxers he had on. Lol haha. I also having to pay my rent and bills by my self and he was doing all that shit.. nah but guess what I'm a Taurus and I did go through shit and back..and held on to make it work.. but it didn't cause I could not trust any longer. I disappeared and did my own thing.

3 yr relationship with a guy who had a heavy drug addiction. The only guy I dated too, ever since that has scarred me from jumping into any committed relationships
At the beginning I didn't seem to notice (I was only 16, naive & didn't know better & he was 21). He was on a drug program on the first 3 months then relapsed. The whole relationship was just about drugs, relapsing, his rehab times, in & out of jail & putting me through a life & environment I didn't feel safe in, he totaled my car while high yet I still stayed and even helped him buy his car under my name, copped a ton of fines which I also paid for.
He'd pick me up after work 3 hours later, he'd sneak in my house to see if any guy was there then he'd sneak out in the morning to get high. The other woman in that relationship was the H.
I was studying medicine while being there for a drug-addicted person (isn't it ironic). He served jail time for a year and that was my blessing in disguise, was able to get out of it and gain control of my life again. Never will I put myself through anything like that again, I can't even imagine how I did ha ha.
They don't get better but just become better liars
People may change or not but I've learned that it isn't for us to ignite that out of them 🙂

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Posted by littlearies
3 yr relationship with a guy who had a heavy drug addiction. The only guy I dated too, ever since that has scarred me from jumping into any committed relationships
At the beginning I didn't seem to notice (I was only 16, naive & didn't know better & he was 21). He was on a drug program on the first 3 months then relapsed. The whole relationship was just about drugs, relapsing, his rehab times, in & out of jail & putting me through a life & environment I didn't feel safe in, he totaled my car while high yet I still stayed and even helped him buy his car under my name, copped a ton of fines which I also paid for.
He'd pick me up after work 3 hours later, he'd sneak in my house to see if any guy was there then he'd sneak out in the morning to get high. The other woman in that relationship was the H.
I was studying medicine while being there for a drug-addicted person (isn't it ironic). He served jail time for a year and that was my blessing in disguise, was able to get out of it and gain control of my life again. Never will I put myself through anything like that again, I can't even imagine how I did ha ha.
They don't get better but just become better liars
People may change or not but I've learned that it isn't for us to ignite that out of them 🙂

you're lucky you got out when you did. I've heard stories where relatives try to help a family member past an addiction only to spend years and thousands of dollars to no avail. They would give the person a place to stay and a job several times only to have the bad effects of the addiction bleed into the lives of others and make them miserable. it's always a good Idea to detach yourself from people like that.

Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428
Yeah with my six year relationship..the cheating was it and the women being able to tell me what color boxers he had on. Lol haha. I also having to pay my rent and bills by my self and he was doing all that shit.. nah but guess what I'm a Taurus and I did go through shit and back..and held on to make it work.. but it didn't cause I could not trust any longer. I disappeared and did my own thing.

What was his sign? Did he live with you?

Aries male and yeah that's why I couldn't just leave. I couldn't break my lease..I had already kicked him out and finally changed my locks. Lol

While living with my ex. He started vicodin habit under my nose. He denied it until I found out he somehow got it from people I didn't know. The one day where I received a call from a pharmacy saying to pick it up. That's addictive.. lucky I had enough evidence not to get addicted to it too..Taurus is prone to addiction sadly. I knew if I saw him scratching like he was on heroin and sitting in a corner in front of me. It was bad. So bad I almost flushed that shit down the toilet boy I am glad I didn't. Very upset.